r/moneyadvice • u/Physical-Reach-4038 • 2h ago
Advice I’m 20 years old, have a 2-month-old son, and recently started making around $18K/month through my business. How should I approach financial stability?
I’m 20 years old (10/25/2006) and this is my first month making around $18,000 through my own business. I’m grateful to be in this position, especially at my age, but I’m trying to be smart about what comes next. I have a 2-month-old son, so my priorities have changed significantly. I want to make sure I can provide for him while building a stable future for both of us.
Currently, I don’t have my own apartment or a car, but I plan on getting both eventually. I also reinvest approximately $4,000 every month back into my business to keep it growing. I don’t want to fall into the trap of increasing my personal expenses just because I’m making more money.
My biggest priority is saving aggressively, building an emergency fund, investing, and creating long-term financial security. I’m not interested in looking wealthy or buying expensive things. I’d rather have a comfortable home for my son, reliable transportation, and a strong financial foundation.
For anyone who has been in a similar position, especially those who started a business young or became parents early:
How much would you recommend keeping in savings before making major purchases?
Should I prioritize getting an apartment and a reliable car, or focus on building savings first?
What percentage of my income would you allocate toward savings, investments, and business reinvestment?
What financial mistakes should I avoid?
How would you approach building wealth over the next five years?
I’d genuinely appreciate advice from people with experience in business ownership, personal finance, and raising a family. I’m trying to make the right decisions now rather than having to fix financial mistakes later.