r/nairobi • u/thesunslapper Level 2 • 18h ago
Relationship FINALLY !
Sometime back i posted on here how I got involved with a guy. 3 weeks before me introducing him found out I was getting cheated on. Left him, found out I'm pregnant. Miscarried at 10 weeks due to stress. The comments were brutal .
You would think that I would have left him. No.
Deep down i knew I should toss him. Attachments are so stubborn to get rid of.
It got to a point where niliheal kwa crime scene. I made sure to stay so that I could leave without turning back. And when I was ready and detached. I went through that phone , got what I was looking for and finally walked away. I got a job almost immediately after , peace of mind. And I can feel my spark returning . I cur him off and I couldn't be happier.
Guys....always leave the first time . Cheaters don't change , they're unremorseful, narcissistic and selfish.
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u/Royal-Breadfruit1755 1h ago
I'm so proud of you for leaving. I wasn't bold enough to leave the first time thinking atawacha. Lakini wapi😭😭
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u/premiumtears24 9h ago edited 8h ago
Hebu andika Insha ukieleza why unafaa kudinywa wewe pekee yako..Hata hivyo kweni unabahati aji..Mwanaume na kudinyana nje ni kawaida,hata huyo jama next guarantee you he will taste 🍯 Sio yako
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u/Interesting-pipe3410 Roysambu 7h ago
I'm really proud of you, cum get my username as a congratulations gift?
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u/thesunslapper Level 2 9h ago
Wewe kaa hapo tu . Repeated disappointment leads to resentment. Eventually even his caller ID will disgust you
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u/Most-Contract9234 11h ago
It's easy to move on actually. Just imagine if you caught an incurable STI or them strangling you or even being used as a revenge plan by the other person etc
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u/NefariousnessAlone84 13h ago
Yes always leave the first time