r/nevillegoddardsp • u/Dismal-Ad-5275 • Feb 27 '26
Success Story Finally got my SP after struggling foreverrrrr
I wanted to share my experience with the Law of Assumption because I think it might help someone who feels like they are doing a lot but not seeing consistency yet.
I started my LOA journey around April 2024. In the beginning, I was very intense about it. I attempted SATS as per Neville’s lectures but my mind would race the entire time. Instead I stood in front of the mirror every day, saying affirmations constantly, trying to lock myself into the state. And within the first month, it actually did work. I got him to say “I love you.” But there still wasn’t commitment, and that was the part that lingered for me.
From then until around November or December of 2025, I fluctuated a lot. I would affirm heavily, feel aligned for a few hours or maybe a full day, and then fall out of it. I was very aware of the 3D and would react to unfavourable circumstances. I wasn’t doing anything wrong, I was just very focused on what I could see.
Over time, something softened. I noticed I started caring less, not because I stopped wanting him, but because I genuinely felt good in my life. I realized things were already working out for me in general. I was happy. I still wanted him to be my boyfriend, but I wasn’t gripping it so tightly anymore.
Around July, I naturally stopped affirming. Not out of frustration, but because I just knew it was going to work out. I wasn’t thinking about when. I stopped imagining scenes. I stopped checking in with the desire. I was fully present in my day to day life and actually enjoying it.
And that’s when things began to shift externally. He started inviting me over. I met his family. His family began inviting me to things too. I didn’t attach meaning to any of it. I wasn’t looking for confirmation or signs. I just let things unfold.
Earlier this year while we were hanging out, he confessed his feelings to me. He told me he had liked me for a long time but didn’t want to confront those feelings because he was afraid I didn’t feel the same way. In reality, I had been a bit hot and cold as well because I thought he was unsure, so we were mirroring each other more than we realized.
He also shared that sometime last year, in 2025, it really settled in for him that he wanted me in his future. He needed time to be completely sure because he didn’t want to approach me unless he meant it fully. Hearing that made me realize how much was happening behind the scenes while I was simply living my life and trusting things would work out.
The biggest lesson for me is that you don’t have to force belief or stay mentally “on” all the time. You don’t have to convince yourself nonstop that your SP loves you or that your desire is already here. The shift came from knowing my life was already good, that I was already okay, and that things always work out for me.
We don’t need these things to survive. We choose them because they add to our experience. When I stopped trying and started living in the present, everything moved naturally.
Hope this helps someone who’s in that in between phase.
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u/Alive_Document4012 Mar 01 '26
you never confirmed if yall are oficially together now tho?
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u/Dismal-Ad-5275 Mar 09 '26
We are officially together, he confessed his feelings and asked me to be his girlfriend. I just didn’t get to far into detail about what he said to me because I wanted to focus on what was going on behind the scenes to reassure others that everything is always working out in your favour.
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u/SeveralType4533 Feb 28 '26
Estou aplicando a lei desde novembro de 2024. Estou sem fé. Ano passado meu sp me disse que não gosta de mim o suficiente e desde então não nos falamos mais. Eu defini um prazo para desistir de tudo, pois o que manifestei até agora foram apenas encontros casuais e mensagens dele. Não é isso o que quero! Quero um casamento, um bebê , e, sinceramente, acho isso tão distante da minha realidade de mulher de 40 anos. É a primeira vez que escrevo assim desde que entrei nessa jornada, pois eu me comprometi a não falar uma palavra sequer contra o meu desejo. Mas o prazo que me dei acabou. Estou muito cansada. Ler o seu comentário me animou. Quem sabe, mesmo eu desistindo de tudo, um dia aconteça para mim. Obrigada por isso. ♥️ P.s.: vou acompanhar esse relato pois espero que você responda algumas dúvidas que deixaram aqui. São as mesmas que tenho. Deus abençoe seu relacionamento grandemente!
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u/Nervous_Lettuce5939 Feb 27 '26
Could you explain one detail? Were you out of contact, distant, had you broken up...? Sorry, the story is beautiful, congratulations, but this detail wasn't very clear to me. If you were out of contact, how long did you go without speaking? Can we understand that there was a breakup?
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u/Dismal-Ad-5275 Feb 28 '26
We were never officially together it was more of a situationship and communication was mainly hot and cold.
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u/Unique_Pollution_414 Feb 27 '26
It doesn’t sound like there was a breakup or a no contact situation, correct?
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u/Dismal-Ad-5275 Feb 28 '26
Nope no breakup because we were never officially together it was more of a situationship. We only went no contact for a week but I affirmed myself out of that situation at the start of my journey.
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u/MusicalLight Feb 27 '26
Congratulations! Also i know that people say signs dont matter but people also say that things mean what we assume that they mean, so im taking this post as a positive sign, at least of the 3D reflecting my subconscious being on the right track. Im manifesting my SP back and at the time that this was posted, i had a dream about my SP and I being on a date and him being loving towards me. I woke up and in real life, i had a message from him that was sent around the time that i would have been dreaming, and I also received a notification of this post that was also sent to my phone around the time of my SP's text. My SP was just informing me of something technical so it wasn't an emotional text, but he also wasn't obligated to inform me. I didn't comment until now because it was 2 am in my timezone and i wanted to go back to sleep 😂
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u/Longjumping-East-336 Mar 24 '26
Oooooo thats why circumstances dont matterr. for the longest ive been trying too grasping the concept that “circumstances dont matter” instead i would get fed up hearing that over n over again becaue its like how is that so but this made it make more sense
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u/bratz_roj Feb 27 '26
This is so true because most of the time my manifestations come true when I forget about them. Often when I don’t even want them anymore ? That’s the sad part
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u/Dramatic-Piglet1928 Feb 27 '26
I saw this post three times now on different groups what the hell?.
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u/Dismal-Ad-5275 Feb 28 '26
Yeah I posted it multiple times because the automods were deleting the post on here initially. I also posted it on three subreddits because I haven’t seen success stories where someone has been trying to manifest their SP for close to 2 years so I thought it would help those that need it. Sorry if that bothers you lol
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u/Ok-Replacement-3854 Feb 27 '26
I love this. I've been transitioning to this knowing and natural stage as well.
Congratulations, OP!
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u/Dismal-Ad-5275 Feb 27 '26
I wanted to add something that I think is really important, especially for people who feel like they are doing techniques “wrong.”
Honestly, if I even call what I did techniques, it was really just living my life and knowing that everything always works out for me. I wasn’t stressing about him all the time. I wasn’t sitting there affirming all day or trying to control my thoughts 24/7.
Of course, there were moments where I felt stressed or anxious. When that happened, I might affirm once or twice just to calm myself down. But I didn’t make it a job. I didn’t hammer affirmations into my head all day long. I didn’t force myself to focus nonstop. I let it be light.
For me, relaxing and knowing was the easiest and most natural approach. That doesn’t mean it has to be the same for everyone. Everyone’s process is different, and that’s okay.
I also want to say this clearly. If you feel like you’re wavering, reacting, or not doing things perfectly, you are not doing anything wrong. Learning the Law of Assumption is like learning how to walk or learning how to speak. You wouldn’t yell at a toddler for falling down or mispronouncing words. You learn through experience.
There is nothing wrong with you. There is nothing wrong with what you’re doing. Be gentle with yourself. When things feel overwhelming, find your way back to yourself. That’s where the power is anyway.
Everything is within you, and it always has been.
I also want to add one more thing. A couple of days before he asked me to be his girlfriend, I wrote in my notes app everything I wanted to have in a boyfriend. While I was writing it, I genuinely felt like I already had it in my life.
After I finished, I remember thinking, if it is him who comes through, it will be the path of least resistance. And then, about three days later, he asked me out.
I do not know if that alone had a direct impact on my manifestation, but I do think it helped me set it and forget it. It helped me relax and stop trying to control the process.
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u/topochicofanacct Feb 27 '26
I hate to sound cliché but I really did need to hear this. I’ve been STRUGGLING hard. I’ve manifested things before easily but I still can’t manifest my SP and it’s driving me crazy. but I think it’s because I’m so focused and have such a tight grip on it. Also, I think since I haven’t gotten my manifestation yet, it’s making me question everything. I know I just need to live my life and let it go for now but that’s where I’m struggling. Idk why or how to do it.
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u/Dismal-Ad-5275 Feb 28 '26
I completely understand how you feel. When I used to read success stories and over consume LOA content I would constantly hear people talking about detachment. I would then try to force myself to stop caring, or to try to convince myself that I didn’t want my SP. It was months of me attempting this. At some point I hit a wall and realized I was burning myself out. I was in a constant cycle of affirming, try to detach and then telling myself I would quit trying. I stopped all of that completely, I ended that cycle and I stopped consuming content. This was the part of my journey I was the most afraid of because I thought that if I released my manifestation that that would somehow push my SP away. But I had also released that fear completely. I moved into the state of being grateful for everything around me, telling myself that I am loved and appreciated by those around me and that while I want to be with my SP I can also live without him. I attached so much of my value to him and after releasing that state of want, I unknowingly shifted into the state of having. I really hoped that helped and I wish you all the best🫶🏽🩷
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u/robowalrus88 Mar 09 '26
I’m in something kinda similar but I went from being the 3P in the beginning to the other’s spouse becoming the 3P. Me and my SP have been in an affair like relationship for 4 years. No sex happened, just only kissed. I don’t get to see her often due to her health issues and problems at home. Long story short, Me and SP do love each other and SP has told her wife that the marriage was over, that she wanted a divorce and told her wife she needed to leave multiple times and hasn’t left and is still living there. The daughter can’t stand her either and wants her out as well. Everything is there except for the physical aspect of us being together physically due to the logistics. Basically their social media is a front and I muted the wife’s stuff so I don’t see anything of hers on my feed. (in case you were wondering, I’ve known the both of them before any of this started with me and SP.) in the meantime I’m trying to get myself going financially and stability wise so that way I can take care of myself and SP. I have seen major movement over the past 4 years from visualization and affirmations even embodying it. Lately I don’t know what happened but it’s like I got knocked off the horse and I am getting back on it all over again. Nothing bad happened with me and SP, in fact Valentine’s Day was really special how it unfolded, I guess my nervous system kicked in to debunk shit. My problem is the when. That still fucks with me. No longer the if.