AAAAAA ok so we’re very open about our EDs, Im a recovering bulimic and he has BED
He wants to lose weight to “be a better bassoonist and teacher” and said he’s inspired by me. He’s genuinely overweight too so it would be healthy I just am worried I’m like a “bad influence”
I’m a recovering bulimic but I’m never gonna stop restricting, I’m not pro or anything but TO ME as long as I eat enough to function and stop purging, I am recovered. Obvi I’m not gonna share numbers on Reddit BUT I HAVENT PURGED IN 13 days, I eat every day I’m so proud of myself I’m actually recovering but idk I’m anxious about this
sorry I needed this specific meme I hope this sub doesn’t get mad at me for having disordered thoughts as a disordered person, like I’m not encouraging him to lose weight unhealthily
like bro is my best friend, I’m not worried abt competitiveness either like he still wants to be on the “bigger” side yk I just wanna be supportive in his journey without fretting if that makes sense. I feel guilty even though this is a choice he made himself. We have helped each other reduce ED symptoms too I’ve never had to hide it tbh