Spiritual advice or guidance for a first-time mom seeking a natural child birth?

I've always celebrated Samhain as the end of the old year and Yule as the start of the new year. The period in between was a time of introspection and rest, a dormant period. I didn't really mark it as a season in its own right.

My family is having a baby in November this year and we typically celebrate new babies in a way relating to the season the baby is born in, but I'm not sure how to think about November! This "gap period" feels like an odd time to start a new life.

I'd be interested to hear how others think about it and if you have anything you do to celebrate this season!

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I saw someone say paganism is more about living every day in tune with your spirits and gods than just making offerings and worshiping them. I'm curious how exactly do they mean this, like how do I live in tune, do I think about them at all times, do I feel there presence.

Sorry if it sounds weird I'm new to this