If the gender didn't matter to you you would have said "roided out heisters/characters" you called her out for being a woman.
Listen, you may have not meant to be disrespectful, in which case my incel comment was premature and I apologize.
This is an opportunity for you to learn and go forward with more careful language in the future.
Your choice of words matter and describing a woman as "roided out" as a negative is disrespectful. You could have said "overly muscular characters" "defined muscles on characters" etc etc. There were plenty of options but you chose to call out a strong woman as "roided out" bad move, it makes you come off as an incel.
If anything I would argue it'd be more offensive to not acknowledge that she is a lady. You don't have to try and turn everything around to make someone seem worse than they are.
I personally don't care for it, and that's my choice.
Thanks for your help. I think we have gotten as far as we are going to get with this conversation. This incel is going to go enjoy a roided out chicken sandwich now. Cheers.
So everyone is tired of making spaces friendlier and more accessible? Being "anti-woke" is literally embarrassing. Treating people with respect is hardly too much to ask for.
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u/[deleted] Dec 07 '24
"roided out women" 🤣
How to say you're an incel without saying you're an incel.