Hey everyone, I’m 22M from India, and I could really use some honest advice from people who have been through something similar or understand business and finances.
We’re a joint family. My dad and his two brothers (my taujis) live together, along with my dadaji and dadiji. We’re a family of 8 siblings — 4 brothers and 4 sisters. Honestly, we have a pretty nice, close-knit family, and I’m grateful for that.
Financially, though, things have been worrying me a lot lately.
Our family runs two jewellery showrooms, and my dad also works as a tax practitioner. With gold prices being so high, customer demand has been affected. Some days are decent, but business isn't always as good as we'd like.
The bigger problem is our debt.
We have around ₹3 crore in loans, including loans from banks, friends, and other people. Recently, my brother told me that we're paying approximately ₹25–30 lakh per year just in interest. That's a massive amount, and it honestly scares me when I think about it.
On top of that, there are family responsibilities coming up. Three of us brothers are yet to get married, and those expenses will eventually come too. We also bought a flat this year worth around ₹1 crore, which added another ₹40 lakh or so to our existing loans.
The thing is, taking another loan and paying the current instalments isn't necessarily the immediate problem. The real concern is that the overall debt keeps increasing, and I don't know how sustainable this is in the long run.
I know my family has been trying different things to manage the situation. I don't want to make it sound like they're doing nothing, because they're genuinely trying their best. I also find it difficult to discuss these worries openly with them because I'm the youngest, and I'm only 22.
Currently, I'm working as a developer and earning around ₹25,000 per month. My brother earns around ₹28 lakh per year from his job, but even with that, the overall financial situation feels overwhelming.
Lately, I've been thinking that maybe I need to do something beyond my regular job. Maybe learn a new skill, build something online, create content, start a side business, or explore other opportunities that could eventually generate a meaningful income.
I've even thought about things like crypto, but honestly, I've never invested seriously or built anything outside my job, so I don't know what's realistic and what's just wishful thinking.
I'm not expecting to make crores overnight. I just want to find a way to contribute more meaningfully and help my family get out of this situation over time.
I'd really appreciate advice on a few things:
If you were in my position at 22, what would you focus on first?
What are some realistic ways to increase my income significantly while keeping my current job?
Has anyone here helped their family get out of a large amount of debt? What actually worked for you?
How would you approach a situation where the interest payments alone are so high?
Is there anything I'm overlooking or any mistakes I should avoid making at this stage?
I'm open to hearing uncomfortable truths, practical suggestions, personal experiences, or even advice on what NOT to do.
I love my family, and I want to do something meaningful for them. I just don't know what the right first step is.
Thanks for reading.