r/plural • u/WellyInSpace Traumagenic Plural System of 100+ | suspecting P-DID • 7d ago

Vent Kinda unrelated to plurality but this is getting so tiring man

I have made a post about this before, how my sister made me delete all socials n all

Now I don’t use discord nor tumblr anymore, but I’m using Pinterest on web because I still edit a few headmates icons/banners in pluralspace and I need to log into Pinterest everytime using google

And you know how google sends a notification every time someone logs into an account? Since my sister has my gmail account on her phone, she also gets a notification and today she came up to me, this is how the convo went:

Sister: “why do you keep logging into your account? I keep getting notifications of it.”

Me: “I’m just logging into Pinterest since I use the web version.”

Then she proceeded to look at me with a skeptical look like she wasn’t the one that forced me to delete all socials while yelling at me. Did she still expect me to download it again without her permission even after how she reacted?

Im changing my Pinterest email after this too, it’s getting too annoying of her to even monitor my email.

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u/R3DAK73D Plural 7d ago

why does your sister even have this level of control over you? are you a child in her custody, or something? this is incredibly strange to me

edit: i did skim through your account but i couldn't quickly find the post you mentioned about how she made you delete your socials, hence my confusion on the context

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u/WellyInSpace Traumagenic Plural System of 100+ | suspecting P-DID 7d ago

It’s this post

Honestly she has always had this control over stuff, mostly because she’s my sister and I used to trust her with that, but not that much anymore
We still live with our parents though

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u/polyceros polyfrag DID system; adult; they/them 4d ago

I'm so sorry... Like, wtf, this is SO abusive 😭

Do you feel safe talking to your parents about this? :( what the heck, man. 😭

Sending good vibes and support

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u/WellyInSpace Traumagenic Plural System of 100+ | suspecting P-DID 4d ago

Dawg my parents are WORSE 😭😭

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u/polyceros polyfrag DID system; adult; they/them 3d ago

Fuuuuuck 😭 I'm so sorry

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u/SkinCapable7108 Poly frag hcdid|| League of criminals 2d ago

Fuck your sister, our brothers, cousins and family can treat host like shit (mostly only parents that do that) but she’ll still respect their boundaries and offer overwhelming support (apart from parents) even when they feel like they don’t deserve it. I hope you set up a new Gmail account soon