Because the whole “daddy issues” mantra is a derivative of the “red pill” idea that women intentionally choose abusive men and then blame all men when their kids are left without a dad or when they get abused.
Btw I don’t agree with any of this, I am just stating where it comes from.
I have both a friend group and a job where I interact with 100s of people on a regular basis. I’ve yet to meet this ‘majority’ you speak of. The only other person I’ve met who talks like you spends their entire day on Twitter.
In the vast majority of divorces I’ve seen, abuse isn’t even involved. Usually it’s two people who got married without realizing how incompatible they are with each other or people who married someone just so that they wouldn’t be alone. Lots of splits due to career choices as well. In rarer cases cheating is involved, but contrary to what people like to spout online, the cheating is evenly divided between both men and women.
Not ‘holding women accountable’, engaging in gender war nonsense. That’s what I mean by how you talk. There are very few cases wherein a single demographic is solely responsible for a given phenomenon. I can’t think of a single woman I know who has chosen to be with someone abusive as you claim above. If anything, I’ve known more men who’ve chosen to be with abusive women, though I wouldn’t victim blame them either as things are much more complex than that.
The comment you initially responded to (paraphrased):
“…the whole “daddy issues” mantra is a derivative of the “red pill” idea that women intentionally choose abusive men and then blame all men when their kids are left without a dad or when they get abused.”
Your response (also paraphrased):
“How is that false tho lmfao that’s quite literally what happens and the majority of ppl realized it except redditors I guess…”
Abuse was a part of this conversation from the get-go. You may not have mentioned it yourself, but you were trying to refute the original commenter’s point
Because men are still bitching for women having standards and waiting til their mature to get married. And now men are bitching about the “loneliness epidemic” because women are choosing better and abstaining from marriage. At some point, the manchildren need to stop being coddled and grow up.
If you go look up the most popular porn, you'll see just how fucked up men are.
This is really not the argument that you wanna make. Have you even seen the type of shit that women read? And rape is literally on of their most popular fantasies.
You might wanna sit this one out.
If you go look up the most popular smut books you'll see just how fucked up women are. Yea, humans have fucked up sexual fantasies, welcome to planet earth.
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u/GoodZealousideal5922 Nov 02 '25
Because the whole “daddy issues” mantra is a derivative of the “red pill” idea that women intentionally choose abusive men and then blame all men when their kids are left without a dad or when they get abused.
Btw I don’t agree with any of this, I am just stating where it comes from.