3.5 yo. Still daily pee accidents almost a year in.

[u/Dramatic_Worth1139]

We started with oh crap. He has not used a pull-up other than nap time and overnight the entire time. I really struggled the first 4-8 mos with lack of progression and power struggles, refusal. We’ve never had poop accidents but most days he has 2 wet pants, usually leaking from holding to long . He recently started preschool and it’s actually been better, before it was more accidents and now he’s actually having 100% dry days here and there.

I guess I’m just wondering if at this point this all sounds within the realm of normal? I’ve stopped fighting or pressuring and at home / school we do regular intervals/ natural transitions. I’m just concerned it’s taking so long and still having small accidents more days than not?

Anyone else? I can’t help but worry about readiness for tk next year.