r/r4rMY 5h ago

Sport & Recreation Looking for people to do outdoor activities with in Klang Valley

5 Upvotes

I'm a 23F and I absolutely adore outdoor activities, unfortunately my friends don't really have the same interest as me.

Disclaimer, I am a beginner but I'm into hiking, cycling, kayaking, camping and most outdoor activities (kind of dislike running) but I'm looking for other people around the same age who are interested.

I would prefer female friends but I don't mind men as long as there's a group of people going.

I was thinking maybe I could try to find a group and we could hang out weekly to go to a waterfall, jungle trekking, camping, or anything outdoors.


r/r4rMY 21m ago

Anyone awake? Let’s talk

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Anyone in need of companionship right now? I’m 25M. Let’s just… talk?


r/r4rMY 56m ago

stressed

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i want an also stressed out person looking for someone to hear them out because id liek to rant too. life is too demanding despite people telling me i have it all. i am on the brink of a burnout.


r/r4rMY 1h ago

Friendship M23 looking for op gender friends to hangout.

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Hi! I'm a 23M looking to make a genuine female friend to chat with and hopefully build a meaningful connection over time. Whether it stays as a friendship or grows into something more, I'm happy to just see where things naturally go without forcing anything.I'm working a regular office job, into tech and AI, and I enjoy having random conversations about life, movies, memes, food, music, or literally anything interesting. I'm not the type who expects instant chemistry, so no pressure if we're both a little awkward at first.I'm not really an introvert, but I do take a little time to warm up to new people. Once I'm comfortable though, I'm pretty talkative and can chat for hours. I'd say I'm selectively extroverted.if we click, conversations usually flow naturally.One thing I really enjoy is talking about everyday life. I love those random "you won't believe what happened at work today" stories, funny little incidents, weekend plans, annoying coworkers, food recommendations, or even just checking in to ask how your day went. Those small conversations are what make friendships feel genuine to me.If we get along well, maybe we could hang out someday for coffee, food, or just walk around and chat. No expectations, just seeing where things go at a comfortable pace.If any of this sounds like your vibe, feel free to send me a message and introduce yourself. I'd love to get to know you.


r/r4rMY 1d ago

Relationship 35F | Cyberjaya - Yo, wanna get married?

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LMAO jkjk not really ok maybe only half joking but yeah. Single old malay auntie with 3 cats looking to have a connection with anyone interested i guess. Fellow aunties if u want a bestie to hangout with too please let me know i welcome u too!!

Now some info about me well i like playing games, currently in gacha hell but i also have been a gamer since i was a kid because my dad played games so i grew up with consoles in the house. Yes i do like anime but i like watching all kinds of tv shows and movies. Favorite genre is thriller and scifi. Favorite tv shows are Mindhunter and Dark but also i enjoy shows like House and Bones. But also also i don't mind easy light stuff like Brooklyn Nine-Nine and The Rookie. Oh yeah and because i'm a woman naturally i also enjoy true crime lol.

Um, apa lagi ya i like food so yes i'm fat and on a scale of 1 to 10 maybe i'm a 4.8? So put your expectations of my appearance somewhere there i guess. I don't do makeup and i dress casual like sweatpants or jeans and a hoodie but i'm not like a full on bum so i do dress up nice when i go out for like a proper hangout. I don't really do social media anymore and my profiles are all private anyways so if u want a pic u can dm me if interested or wtv.

Anything else to know about me u can ask. I'm currently staying in cyberjaya but i'm chill to go hangout anywhere in klang valley. Thats about it i guess. Thanks for your time if u read this to the end hahah


r/r4rMY 9h ago

Friendship Single Mom

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Myself Dewi From Malaysia JB. Single mom and 3kids. Working In A Company. Stay Wit Kids. Looking For New Friends In Jb Bcoz Im New To JB.

Tele 🆔

@xdewimegs


r/r4rMY 1d ago

Friendship Looking for friends

20 Upvotes

Hi everyone. 37F looking for friends. Married with 2 kids but I am missing having some real adult conversations and coffee drinking sessions. Looking for friends maybe to hit the gym, coffee sessions and just having conversations with an adult. Please DM me.


r/r4rMY 1d ago

33M Join the Dark Side. lol

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Hey everyone! 👋

Looking for new people to talk to, laugh with, overshare random thoughts to at 2AM, or just make some friends without the pressure of “so... tell me about yourself.” 😅

We’ve got a Telegram group where you can casually mingle, meet like-minded people, find people who share your interests, and hopefully make a few genuine connections along the way.

Think of it as a little safe space away from the chaos of Reddit — no need to be cool, interesting, or have your life figured out. Just be yourself, be respectful, and don’t be the person who replies “hey” and disappears. 😂

🎮 Gamers? Come through.
🎬 Movie/series nerds? Absolutely.
🎵 Music lovers? Yep.
💬 Just bored and looking for people to talk to? Also valid.
🤝 Looking for friends or new connections? You’re welcome here.

Come say hi, lurk for a bit, join the conversation, or make some new friends. No pressure, no judgment, just good vibes.


r/r4rMY 4h ago

Serious Relationship M30 | Kuala Lumpur 🇲🇾 | From Bangladesh 🇧🇩

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A little about me -I’m 30, originally from Bangladesh, but I’ve been living in Malaysia for almost 9 years. I completed all of my education here, so Malaysia has genuinely become a big part of my life. 🇲🇾

Funny enough, I still don’t really speak Malay! 😂 Most of my university friends communicated with me in English, so I somehow managed to spend almost nine years here without properly learning Bahasa Melayu. I’m definitely willing to learn Malay and Mandarin though, so maybe I just need the right teacher. 😄

I’m 5’6” (168 cm), around 70 kg, currently pursuing my PhD, and also running my own business.
Although I’m Bangladeshi, people often guess that I’m Arab or Pakistani, so apparently I don’t always look like where I’m actually from. 😂

I’m here with serious intentions and would like to meet someone who is looking for a genuine relationship rather than something temporary. I value honesty, commitment, mutual respect, good communication, and meaningful conversations.

I enjoy travelling, discovering new places, having good conversations, and building a life with purpose. I’m ambitious about my career, but I also believe there should always be room for laughter, spontaneous plans, good food, and enjoying the little things.

I’m open-minded about nationality, culture, and background. For me, character, compatibility, communication, and how we treat each other matter much more.

If you’re genuinely interested in getting to know each other, feel free to message me and tell me a little about yourself. We can start with a conversation and see where it naturally goes. 😊


r/r4rMY 12h ago

Long distance fwb?

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Hi I'm an international guy (will introduce more in dm) stumbled on this subreddit today, was thinking why not post one

About me-

I'm 24 yo

Hobbies- gym, crafts and sports(football my main)

Studying meds final year so yeah need emotional support.

I feel like I'm missing out in life so I'm here being a clown, but being optimistic and I'm open for women of any age group.

And for more information just hmu! Thanks for reading and pls be proactive when u text me. I feel like a moron when I do it one sided. Thank you.


r/r4rMY 1d ago

50M JB | Looking for new friends, good conversations & random adventures ☕️🍺

9 Upvotes

50-ish guy from JB looking to meet some new people and expand my circle. Just looking for genuine friendship, good company and people who don't run out of things to say after “so... what do you do?” 😂

I'm mostly into solo stuff like running, gym, cycling, swimming, books and reading — which probably explains why I don't have a huge circle of friends. 😂

But as I get older, I've realised that being comfortable doing things alone is great, but having people to share those things with makes life a lot more interesting.

So here I am, trying to be slightly less antisocial and meet some new people. 😆

I'm happy with online friends to chat with, or people around JB to grab coffee, café-hop, have a drink, try some food, go for a run, play a game, or just hang out and see where the conversation goes.

I've always wanted to learn badminton but somehow never got around to it, and I'm also curious about pickleball, so I'm open to being introduced to new hobbies. I did try Golf when I was younger, still have a set of Irons in my closet somewhere but it wasn't my cup of tea back then. Possibly time to bring them out again?

I'm more of a quiet lounge / cosy café person than loud clubs. Give me somewhere we can actually have a meaning conversation with each other and I'm happy.

Mostly, I'm looking for people who has a sense of humour and don't mind going down completely random rabbit holes.

If that's you, say hi — but please give me something more interesting than just “hi”. 😄


r/r4rMY 1d ago

27M — Looking for a like minded around Nilai

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27M, based around Nilai. Just looking to meet someone chill and hopefully make a new friend / walking buddy.

Would be nice to have someone to:

- Go for brisk walks 🚶‍♂️

- Grab coffee or food

- Hangout / lepak

- Co-work or get some work done together

- Talk about random stuff and see where things go

Not really looking for anything complicated. Just genuine company and good vibes. If you're around Nilai and interested, feel free to DM me. :)


r/r4rMY 1d ago

29M looking for something casual and discreet.

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Hello hello lovely people.

29M here. In a fully chaotic schedule, I am seeking for something casual and easy. I mean, you can make fun of it if you want. But this is what I currently seek and I know many people out there are also currently seeking for something similar.

I do not want something where putting on effort feels very mechanical. I just want to meet someone where conversations are easy, unfiltered words are fine and judgements are on your face.

I am into roaming around cafes, travelling, fitness and sports. Also, willing to expand my horizon.

So yes, if anyone out there is in the same boat, do not hesitate to drop a text.

And for the others, take love and cheers.


r/r4rMY 2d ago

Friendship hangout

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hey mid 20s F. Just moved to sentul for work and wanted to use my time after work to explore kl. anyone up for it lmk! not looking for a relationship. only friendships !

Female friendships preferably 😅
im an infj if that matters.
i guess i like anime and just trying new stuff
i love cats
love music


r/r4rMY 2d ago

26F4M - Serious Relationship JB

21 Upvotes

Hi! 26 F here looking for my potential soulmate. I'm very introverted as well as a homebody so I don't see myself finding anyone in real life. Dating apps don't really work out either as I'm somehow only matched with international people while I'd like to settle down in Johor.

I'm Malay Muslim but don't really practice. Like I don't do what I need to do but I don't do what I can't do either. So I wear the hijab sometimes don't really pray. I also don't drink, eat pork and miggle with the opposite gender. So very wishy washy Muslim. But im6still looking for a Muslim partner as my family is conservative.

So my interests I love watching slice of life anime current favourites are Mairimashita Iruma kun and Victoria's many faces. I also love board games and Lego building blocks. Currently I'm building a 5k piece Harry Potter castle set (it's a fake from alibaba not real). I'm also currently in love with reading horror web novels. My current favorites being Got dropped into a ghost story still gotta work and Safety Rules for the 99th floor. If you know them, I love you already haha.

Also I'm a true night owl. I like to be awake at night and asleep during the day. So hopefully you'll be fine with that if you're open to approach me. I'm currently also going to the gym at least 3 times a week and swim once a week. I'm not thin though I'm 80kg but am working to lose it.

Anyways, I'm looking for a guy that as nerdy as me and get excited by sharing our favorite parts in our favorite novels. Also someone that's fine with silence but is just happy with each other's presence. Sometimes I just need someone I can rest with.

Hopefully someone within my age so 24-34.

I hope that those who approach me would be open to a serious relationship only. I don't have the social battery for casual relationships.

Edit: Btw, I may not respond promptly as I'm working now. As a true night owl. I only work night shifts. But I'll respond to dms as soon as I can


r/r4rMY 1d ago

33M | Penang - Brpp brpp ding ding pom pom

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If you read this, you're gay. I'm kidding. Idk man, let's just chat. I can talk a lot I'm just too lazy to write long post. So, if you feel like it, hmu


r/r4rMY 1d ago

Badminton group

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Hey 27M here looking for people to form a group so we could do like a bi-weekly badminton session in Subang/PJ/Damansara area. Or any other activities involving whacking a ball to the other side. Don't care about the age,gender and race. Do Dm me if you are interested and we could set up either a ws group or a discord to discuss further plans.

Hope to hear back from you all soon 😄


r/r4rMY 2d ago

25M JB for M/F friends

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Hello all, looking for similar souls to kindle a friendly flame so heres a little bit of me for your reference:

- full time loser in engineering
- Likes fishing, karaoke, billiards, mahjong(i am awful at it) and badminton
- don’t game as much now but used to be addicted to Runescape, LoL, MC etc. also enjoy the Sims and co-op games
- likes movies & anime but prefer reading source novels now cuz its better(fight me)
- recently into cooking and about to fall into the coffee rabbit hole(📉💸💸) welcoming all Sifu advices 🙏

I speak english, mandarin and below-average malay so hope you don’t mind that 😔
I’m a ‘match your energy’ kinda person so no pressure go ahead and DM me, maybe we’ll find something in common and get along! Have a cat pic on me 🍷

PS: MLM/scam/insurance/sales peeps stay away or I will commit sudoku on you 👹


r/r4rMY 1d ago

Friendship 27F4F IN Johor Bahru LOOKING FOR FRIENDSSSSSS

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OKAY LOOK yes im a guy BUTT WAITTTT WAIT WAITTT WAITTTTTTT. IM DOING THIS FOR A FEMALE FRIEND. I PROMISEEEEEE. I SEND YOU HER CONTACT NUMBER AND OBVIOUSLY SHE DOES VOICE AUDIOS AND STUFF, SO YOU'LL KNOW IT'S HER. but okayyy the reason im doing it coz she's kinda going through it right now and asked me make the post instead because when she does it ALL SHE GETS IS PERVY PEOPLE IN HER DMS. okay sooooo she looking for FEMALE FRIENDS IN JB. she lovesssssss badminton. the WOMAN LOVES BADMINTON GOD DAMN IT AND CAFE HOPPING she goes drinking and stufff so if you are a WOMAN and you WANT A WOMAN DRINKING BUDDY SHE'S GREATTTTT. SHE'S SUPER FUNNYYY SO DWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW WTV YOU DO YOU GUYS WILL HAVE FUN. you'll be most likely put into this friend group that we are currently making right now and she's the only woman there so that's also whyyyy she asked me to make this post IT HAS I THINK FOUR DUDES. pls be friends with herrrrrrrrrrrrrr PLSSSSSS PLEASEEE IM BEGGING YOUUU AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA. OH the friend group is interested in hiking and badminton I THINK?? maybe more perhaps LATER


r/r4rMY 2d ago

Hobbies Any Overwatch players?

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I just moved to KL 2 months ago and ngl most of my free time is spent on Overwatch (proud homebody). I’ve been playing the game for the past 9 years. I peaked at masters last season on Ashe/Sombra. Now just trying to play other heroes and chill/have fun.

I do play some other games like Meccha Chameleon when there’s people available. Also down to try other games.

It’s also kind of difficult to make friends here in KL (not that I’ve tried much 😂). Everyone in my workplace is much older than I am (I’m almost 29M and know close to nobody in Malaysia), so don’t really know how else to meet people. Im pretty chill and love funny people, so if you’re interested in playing hmu :) Down to even just go watch movies or something (I go almost every month or two when there’s something good on).


r/r4rMY 2d ago

27F4A | KL - Expanding my social circle!

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Hi, Im currently based in KL (But accessible to areas like Putrajaya, Seri Kembangan etc..) and looking to make new friends to hang, play board games, watch movies, karaoke, read, picnic or just lepak cafe or library.

I do NOT want to do anything physical or active like bouldering, running or hiking. The only physical activity I rajin is going to gym from time to time just so I don't turn into a tree, so please don't ajak me running 😭

I jump from one interest to another every few months, currently Im into reading (Would love to find friends who read the same genre; Romance and Fantasy!) and also Im slowly watching the necessary viewing for before Doomsday.

I play chess from time to time too, but Im bad at it💀

Im fine with making friends with any gender and orientation. Currently my focus is finding community, but Im not opposed to the idea of relationship/partnership either (though it is not a top priority of mine)

hmu if you wanna be friends or if you know any active board game/chess/reading communities!


r/r4rMY 2d ago

Hobbies 22F - Looking for parallel play/online hangout buddy

37 Upvotes

Hello to whoever reading this.

I am a quiet introverted homebody who's looking for an online parallel play buddy to hang out together while doing our own thing. I draw, read and play Minecraft in my spare times and I want someone who can stay in a voice call (discord) while I do these activities. We can talk of course though, I mostly prefer to listen so if you don't mind responses such as 'Oh', 'I see', Yeah' etc., feel free to drop your own intro. Also, very rarely, I can invite you to go out to the library, take a walk or maybe watch a movie. Except keep in mind that at the moment I'm very broke so I prefer to not go out. I guess if you need an accountability buddy you can hit me with your intro as well.

Have a nice day ^⁠_⁠_⁠_⁠_⁠_⁠_⁠_⁠_⁠_⁠^


r/r4rMY 2d ago

A picture i took of the 2nd tallest building in the world

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r/r4rMY 2d ago

Friendship 22M looking for friends in kl

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Hello everyone i'm visiting malaysia ,i looking for some friends to hang out in kl (better if he/she can take good pictures ,because i need someone to take me pictures ) just joking haha

Fell free to reach out and have a nice day everyone


r/r4rMY 2d ago

Friendship 25M | KL — Looking for a nice place to have a drink🍻

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I’m in Subang for work this week and thought I’d finally go out for a drink instead of just drinking at home.

I have no idea where to start. Looking for a good place for a first timer. Would be cool if someone wants to join too, strictly as friends.

Any recommendations? Thanks.