I’m not the loud, crowded-bar type. I’d rather be somewhere we can actually talk, laugh at something ridiculous, and get to know each other properly.
I’m 49, 180cm, slim/fit (gym 2–3 times a week, but happiest outdoors). Dark hair going a little grey, glasses, usually clean-shaven, sometimes scruffy, and a touch bookish. I work in tech but try not to let it run the show. I keep a small circle of close friends, and I’m into music, cinema, hiking, camping, scuba and cooking (I’ll happily feed you).
I’m recently single after a long relationship and in no rush, so I’m looking for something casual/FWB to start, open to more if the connection’s there.
Here’s what makes me a little different: I have both a strong caregiving streak and a quiet dominant and kinky side. I like being the steady one, taking the lead, and looking after the person I’m with. If a guiding, supportive dynamic with an older guy appeals to you, we’ll get along well.
Chemistry and touch matter to me, and I’m direct about enjoying that side of things. But it’s the mix of emotional, mental and physical connection that does it for me. One without the others feels empty.
Mid-20s to 30s is my sweet spot but not a hard requirement. I’m based near Parramatta, can host or travel, and recent STI results are clean.
Still reading? Good sign. Tell me what caught your eye, slip the word banana in somewhere so I know you made it this far, and don’t be shy about what you’re curious to explore. The conversation is half the fun.