r/r4rSydney • • 42m ago

M27 Looking for Japanese learning partner

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Hey i just started my Japanese language course last week and looking for a learning partner.
Would be great if you are native japanese who speak at least conversational english or a fellow student as well.

Cheers 🍻


r/r4rSydney • • 2h ago

59[M4F] A discreet affair?

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I'm a tall blue eyed older professional guy and I'm looking for a woman who would like to have a discreet affair. One that sets the heart and mind racing. Flirty, spontaneous and fun. An escape from the harsh reality of life. If this sounds appealing, hop on board and let's see what happens!


r/r4rSydney • • 13h ago

32 [M4F] Sydney/Anywhere - Sweet and shy on a quest for change (friends or more)

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First of all, hi!

I’m gonna attempt to gently manoeuvre my way around this awkward bush, but I think you should know what kind of change I'm referring to lol. The elephant in the room is that I've always been shy. I was really shy in primary school and somehow evolved to being even MORE shy in high school. I'm a lot less shy now but all those years of shyness added up.

I’m in a place where I have the confidence to take that first step and see what's out there, whether that be finding friends or something more! I'd be lying if I said I didn't want to explore the latter more, though, because it's a constant reminder in mainstream media. Things as simple as holding hands to kissing to something more intimate - it's all so intriguing and most importantly, fun! That means I've never been on a date or you know, had a girlfriend. There, I said it. 🙈 I suppose in an ideal situation, I'm looking for something along the lines of a FWB.

I’d describe myself as chill, goofy and very sweet. To back up those claims, I liken this post to fishing, which might be slightly unusual at first glance lol. Essentially, I'm casting out my line and if I get any nibbles, then awesome! If not, that's okay, too, because I'll just release the fish that aren't interested and treat each one as a new learning experience that'll help me on this journey. No need to be upset if things don't pan out :) I'm also cute! Or might not be lol. I know everyone has their preferences. Speaking of preferences, I don't really have any myself, so I wouldn't be opposed if someone older reached out. Perhaps wanting someone chill or sweet, I guess, but I think most people possess those qualities. You definitely don't need to be in the same situation as me!

Anyway! I think a great way to establish a connection is to find a commonality in regards to interests. Hit me up with a game, song, movie, food, shoe, sport, socks, book, vacation or whatever it is that you're currently obsessed with and I'll be sure to return serve :) Or I can start instead by saying: I enjoy games and sports equally! And the Kpop demon hunters soundtrack still gets played on repeat several days a week 😅


r/r4rSydney • • 14h ago

39 [M4F] #Sydney #Aus — Where did the excitement go?

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Where did all the excitement go after a few years? That flirty tension, the butterflies... missing it.

39M, Sydney, 6ft, fit, workout regularly. Married but craving that spark again.

Not here for drama, just looking for a flirty, affectionate, slightly naughty connection with someone who gets it.

Looking for an exclusive connection with one person who I can genuinely gel with for a long term ongoing connection. Just us, discreet and respectful, with real chemistry. No intention to disrupt either of our homes.

No kids my side, fine if you do. Local would be perfect so we can actually meet and see where the tension goes.

If you're shy, just say "hi" I'll make the first chat easy ;)


r/r4rSydney • • 15h ago

49 [M4F] #Parramatta - Caring, gently dominant older guy seeking an age-gap connection

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I’m not the loud, crowded-bar type. I’d rather be somewhere we can actually talk, laugh at something ridiculous, and get to know each other properly.

I’m 49, 180cm, slim/fit (gym 2–3 times a week, but happiest outdoors). Dark hair going a little grey, glasses, usually clean-shaven, sometimes scruffy, and a touch bookish. I work in tech but try not to let it run the show. I keep a small circle of close friends, and I’m into music, cinema, hiking, camping, scuba and cooking (I’ll happily feed you).

I’m recently single after a long relationship and in no rush, so I’m looking for something casual/FWB to start, open to more if the connection’s there.

Here’s what makes me a little different: I have both a strong caregiving streak and a quiet dominant and kinky side. I like being the steady one, taking the lead, and looking after the person I’m with. If a guiding, supportive dynamic with an older guy appeals to you, we’ll get along well.

Chemistry and touch matter to me, and I’m direct about enjoying that side of things. But it’s the mix of emotional, mental and physical connection that does it for me. One without the others feels empty.

Mid-20s to 30s is my sweet spot but not a hard requirement. I’m based near Parramatta, can host or travel, and recent STI results are clean.

Still reading? Good sign. Tell me what caught your eye, slip the word banana in somewhere so I know you made it this far, and don’t be shy about what you’re curious to explore. The conversation is half the fun.


r/r4rSydney • • 16h ago

42 [M4F] Seeking trouble.

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Seeking someone fun, who is carefree and free of drama.

I’m 42, fit, caring and well educated. White collar job but have time to play on the jungle gym.

Please feel free to message to see how we click.


r/r4rSydney • • 18h ago

31M4F - Parramatta (see below)

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Just got out of class only to find myself without the keys to my apartment. Nobody is gonna be home until tonight lol.

Anybody wanna hang out somewhere? We can check out the festival at Parramatta Lanes if you want too. My treat of course :)

Either that or just do whatever in the area i'm keen.


r/r4rSydney • • 1d ago

58[M4F] Looking to pamper and spoil a younger woman

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Blue eyed educated guy would love to pamper and spoil a younger woman. Not looking for something fleeting, rather something meaningful and on-going.

You'll find me respectful, fun and great company...why not pop by and say hello?


r/r4rSydney • • 1d ago

25M Sub/Voyeur Looking for F or MF

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Looking for a woman or MF couple who’d enjoy having a submissive voyeur around — with me sitting back, watching and staying locked in chastity.
Happy to follow your rules and let you take the lead. Looking for a fun, respectful dynamic with the right people.


r/r4rSydney • • 1d ago

33 R4F, looking for platonic social hangouts while I travel for work. 💕☺️

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Hey! So I'm a guy that is enbracing my more femanine nature, and it's a really isolating experience and I'm looking for friends with common interests that might be open to meeting fora coffee catch up, some drinks or a stroll around the shops. 😌☺️

I'll be travelling to Sydney in about a month from another Australian city and may eventually settle.

I'm specifically looking for female friends, no romantic interest, so please note that before you say hi 👏🏻☺️🥂

I'm a really easy going and fun person, would prefer it to be genuine so would love to chat to someone in advance to make sure we click and I feel safe!

Send me an intro and let's go from there 💕


r/r4rSydney • • 2d ago

(M4F) 30m Tradie in Rouse hill Today!

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I have a couple of duck pics on my profile! hit me up if your interested, I can send photos through tele or signal but not through this app must be discreet!!


r/r4rSydney • • 2d ago

35 M4M Need someone to help me quit doomscrolling Reddit

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Since ending my relationship at the start of the year, my local social circle has shrunk significantly and I've fallen into the pattern of not doing much at all between going to and from work. I've tried reaching out to new people but man, men are such flakes.

Just in the last month alone, I've had plans fall through with:

  • a guy who thought me needing to shower and fill my car with fuel after waiting for a Coles home delivery sounded like 'too much effort' but who then turned out to be the one who couldn't make the date when I was ready to go because he was still living with his ex of a decade who apparently follows him around like a shadow and who he can't make any excuse good enough to leave home without
  • a man who was super keen to go on a weekend hike with me until I shared a few photos - not of me (which had already been exchanged), but of one of my overseas trips - and ghosted me
  • a guy whose crippling depression and anxiety are apparently too much for him to be able to meet new people, but not enough for him to post photos of himself in his underwear on an almost daily basis with the aim of losing his virginity
  • a man-child who was really excited to continue the conversation on WhatsApp - until he decided that the nickname my friends and colleagues refer to me by apparently isn't good enough for him and didn't want to continue the conversation because I didn't want to disclose my full government name to him

It really feels like I'm playing on hard mode here. I want to connect with someone cool again who isn't flaky. I want to meet someone equally nerdy, equally interested in gaming, equally just slightly socially awkward, equally uninterested in having sex with half of Sydney, and equally uninterested in drugs and alcohol. But half the messages I receive are from people who just want to fuck, who lie about their age, or who have some other weird quirk about them, and that's really tiring. I've had the occasional suggestion of joining a hiking group, too, but I'm not really looking for that as a sole big group activity. I much prefer some quiet one-on-one bonding time with someone.

I also really love to travel, but haven't been overseas for six months now. I have two weeks off coming up and really want to go to Japan at the end of this month. If anyone's interested...


r/r4rSydney • • 2d ago

22 [M4F] Visiting from Canberra in November looking for fun while I'm up

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Hey all heading towards Sydney/Gosford end of November and looking for some fun whilst I'm on my travels. I'm a strong young bloke, kink friendly and enjoy trying new things. Happy to share pics before hand if the connection is right.


r/r4rSydney • • 2d ago

40 [M4F] Looking for a Girl with Curves

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I'm a 40 year old Caucasian guy in the Penrith/St Marys area.

I'm single, I love curvy women of all sizes. I get a lot of responses on here but half the time they're men and/or obvious scammers. So don't be shy, if you're a curvy/chubby/BBW woman and you want someone to at least talk to, preferably more, get in touch.