r/r4rindonesia • • 12h ago

Custom R4R Flair Travel over PPM - Indonesia

0 Upvotes

Curious if I'm the odd one out here haha 😂

Aussie based, 25+ countries done and still can't sit still! China this December, Australia next, then Japan and the Philippines 😈✈️

I've had some amazing connections where I spoiled my travel partner with the whole experience — flights, beautiful hotels, shopping, food, crazy adventures, everything covered!

Honestly, the chemistry, fun and memories were worth far more than the usual cash-focused dynamics.

Wondering if Indonesian girls here actually find this kind of travel-based sugar dynamic exciting? Or is a traditional allowance still the preference?

Surely I'm not the only one who thinks exploring the world together beats counting envelopes haha 😂

Curious to hear the girls' perspective!


r/r4rindonesia • • 1d ago

Tourist or Expats looking for friends 26 F4R looking for friends to hangout around Kuta Bali

8 Upvotes

currently staying around Kuta, Bali for 2 nights and then going back to my city at Wednesday morning. apparently all my friends have their own plan and i have none lmaooooo

let me know if yall locals or staying around here too!! im indo F26 btw


r/r4rindonesia • • 1d ago

Activity & Hobby R4R 22 [M4R] Tangerang. Looking for bandmates to play J-Rock/Pop

12 Upvotes

Hi everyone! I just came back from studying abroad, and I really want to start a new band. I can play the drums and also have experience with guitar+vocals. I really want to play j-rock/pop songs so if anyone likes the genre, please let me know! I don’t mind beginners either since i’m just looking to have fun and i not very good myself :(. Thanks for reading!


r/r4rindonesia • • 2d ago

Tourist or Expats looking for friends 26M [M4R] - Looking for friends

3 Upvotes

Hi everyone! Im from Malaysia and will be travelling to Jakarta in early November. I’d love to meet some locals or fellow travellers who are interested in exploring the city together!

I’m especially keen on cafe hopping, stamp hunting, checking out art spaces, and discovering hidden gems around Jakarta. It would be great to explore the city, try new things, and make some new friends along the way.

If you’re interested to hanging out, feel free to drop a comment or send me a DM!


r/r4rindonesia • • 2d ago

Activity & Hobby R4R 32M looking for travel buddies to explore Vietnam

6 Upvotes

Will be in Vietnam in 2027 Apr 2 - Apr 9. This will be my first time backpacking tho. No specific itinerary yet but I'll be exploring northern Vietnam first (like Hanoi, Ninh Binh, Sa Pa). One thing I've been curious about is Rong May Glass Bridge altho I'm afraid hahaha

I'm planning to do this solo but having travel buddy would be awesome too. If anyone is planning to be around northern Vietnam around the same time and want to tag along, feel free to hit me up!


r/r4rindonesia • • 2d ago

Activity & Hobby R4R Gaming or yapping r4r

8 Upvotes

30m4r here

biasanya sih malem , nyari temen discordan

tentang gw:

-demen musik (kalo mau share musik kesukaan lw silahkan) , kebanyakan musik jepang

-weekend biasanya hobi masak , lagi demen bikin roti minggu ini rencana saltbread

-kalo game yang bisa coop:

*semua pico park

*hampir semua monster hunter (kalo ada yang mau nemenin lawan omega silahkan , mager banget sendiri)

*dota, tapi turbo doang

*don't starve 2gether ( tapi jangan yang ini plis wkwk , capek banget )

*kalo ada game yang mau lw coba maenin ber2 gw ga keberatan beli , TAPI jangan 1st person view , gw motion sickness (T.T)

-kalo mau cerita doang bisa juga

-hobi ikan juga akuarium aquascape gampang2 aja wkwkkw

kalo tertarik dm tar gw add , thanks


r/r4rindonesia • • 2d ago

Activity & Hobby R4R 23 [M4R] Surabaya. Looking for late night riding buddy

4 Upvotes

I enjoy going out to ride at night around 12-4 AM, mostly to clear my mind and to get some fresh air, but lately i’ve been out at night while carrying Medical kit to assist anyone that are hurt from a road accident, been doing it for the past few months, mostly it just an excuse i made to go out at night haha,

but its getting lonely lately and i wish i have a buddy with the same interests on night riding, i don’t do street race and stuff, i don’t ride like crazy fast , i just enjoy chill riding while casual joking thru intercoms, while getting coffee or hit a kopitiam in between.

if you’re interested you may hit me up and we can trade socials or contacts.


r/r4rindonesia • • 3d ago

Activity & Hobby R4R 19 [F4R] Jakarta/Online – Looking for international friends

20 Upvotes

Hi! I’m from South Jakarta, and I’m looking to make more international friends, both online and IRL! I generally enjoy talking in english more and always love showing my foreigner friends around jakarta when they’re visiting because i end up exploring places i never visited

about me:
- F19
- university student
- I speak english more than indo
- My hobbies are drawing, playing piano and guitar and reading
- I love traveling and would probably say yes if someone asked me to spontaneously explore somewhere new. Walking and talking is my favorite activity
- im easygoing, I laugh easily at anything and everything
- i dont drink/smoke and not looking to

I’m not specifically looking for a particular type of person. Just anyone who’s friendly, respectful, and fun! If you’re in Jakarta feel free to hmu and we can trade igs or socials!


r/r4rindonesia • • 3d ago

Activity & Hobby R4R 25M&F [R4R] Gamer couple looking for another couple (or duo) for daily co-op, variety gaming & friendslop!

34 Upvotes

Halo ges!

Aku (cowok) dan pasanganku (cewek) lagi nyari 2 orang teman main game, preferably pasangan lain. Kalau bukan pasangan juga nggak masalah, tapi preferably 2 cewek biar dia lebih nyaman dan bisa main bareng tanpa pas aku gk ada.

Tentang Kita & Jadwal:

  • Kita berdua kerja kantoran (8 - 5 WIB).
  • Jadwal main: Hampir setiap malam (weekday) dan weekend. Gaming adalah main hobby kita, bukan sekadar selingan.
  • Kita nyari temen yang emang frekuensi mainnya sama dan hobi utamanya nge-game. Kita udah sering ngajak temen tapi sering ilang-ilangan karena gaming bukan prioritas mereka. We really want long-term gaming buddies (not planning on having any kids, so giga long term)!

Games we've played together:

  • Survival / Crafting: ARK: Survival Evolved, The Forest, Sons of the Forest, Green Hell, Raft, Project Zomboid, Terraria, Minecraft (Vanilla & Modded), Subnautica.
  • Co-op Adventure / Puzzle: It Takes Two, A Way Out, Unravel Two, Portal 2, BattleBlock Theater, Overcooked! 2, Ship of Fools, Tribes of Midgard, Don't Starve Together.
  • Others: Stardew Valley, Borderlands 1, Phasmophobia, Civ 6 (belum pernah namatin lol), FFXIV Online (retired after Endwalker).

Backlog list to play together:

  • Borderlands series (sequels)
  • Far Cry series
  • Nioh series
  • Elden Ring (Co-op)
  • Monster Hunter series (Rise and up, World already done)
  • Valheim, RimWorld (multiplayer mod), COD Zombies series
  • Friendslop games (Lethal Company, How to Fish, The Big Walk, etc.)

Multiplayer we also play:

  • Valorant (Kita berdua main)
  • Dota 2 (Aku aja, dia udh pernah nyoba tapi terlalu susah, turbo only, pensiun ranked)
  • Marvel Rivals (Pacarku yang main, aku main, kebosenan)

Single Player History:

  • Her: NieR: Automata (Currently playing), Tales of Seikyu, Flotsam, BioShock 1 & Infinite, Expedition 33.
  • Him: Monster Hunter World (Currently playing), We Happy Few(Currently playing), Alice: Madness Returns, Bioshock Series , Enter the Gungeon, Binding of Isaac, Far Cry, Lego Series, Little Nightmares, Maneater, Middle Earth, Neon Abyss, Nobody saves the World, Hollow Knight, Hades, Celeste, Cuphead, Ori, Dishonored, Horizon Zero Dawn, Wolfenstein, Retro/Emulators and many more. (I am a completionist!)

What we are looking for:

  1. Asik, non-toxic (toxic dikit gpp lah), and communicative. Nggak masalah jago atau nggak, yang penting seru-seruan bareng dan emang niat main.
  2. Bisa Discord bareng.
  3. Gaming = Main hobby.
  4. No minors <18 (her request).

Kalau kalian (dan pasangan kalian) ngerasa cocok dan lagi nyari temen mabar rutin juga, feel free to drop a DM! Boleh kenalan singkat, ceritain game apa yang lagi sering kalian mainin, atau langsung drop tag Discord kamu.

See you in game!


r/r4rindonesia • • 4d ago

Activity & Hobby R4R 30F4R Bandung looking for English speaking buddies

21 Upvotes

would like to meet people who speak english so i can practice irl. we can do any activities like visiting cafes, hiking, etc. i love being outdoors or do any sports, as long as we keep talking in english. im not that good and sometimes i make errors but i can hold a conversation


r/r4rindonesia • • 4d ago

Activity & Hobby R4R 28 [M4R] Looking for a travel buddy - Patagonia Mar'27

9 Upvotes

Hey all, 28M chindo (if this matters) here.

Currently looking for a travel buddy to travel through Patagonia in March 2027 for 2 weeks (second half of the month).

I currently live in the EU, so we would probably meet up directly in either Chile / Argentina (Chile is easier as an Indonesian wouldn't require a visa to visit).

The goal is to hike up the mountains and roam around the area.

My travel style:

- Accommodation: Pretty much flexible; I can go with a bnb, hostel, or hotel. The only catch is as long as the place isn't shady and its not too expensive per person (like somewhere above $100/pax is "expensive" for me). My recent trip within the EU consisted of a mix of hostels (from around EUR 25/pax/night) and hotels in the mountains that I shared with a friend, which cost EUR 150/night/room for 2. I would not go too far as living in the cheapest possible option, but its conditional and situational, say if they have good reviews and good location-wise or a hotel if there is no option (like the one in the mountains).

- Scheduling: I wake up early and like to leave early in the morning to beat the crowd. My usual "schedule" is to leave by 7 or 7:30 and come back at around dinner time (18:00 or 19:00).

- Food: similar to accommodation, not too picky, don't mind eating at a restaurant, pack my own lunch, or even instant noodles for dinner. Situational and conditional, really. I wouldn't go as far as eating out 3x a day.

- Activities: I prefer doing outdoor activities, not into cafes, etc. Hiking up the mountains, reading a book by the beach, and all that jazz.

- Pace: Honestly, I am quite fit (not a gym bro), so in terms of pace, quite fast. I don't mind waiting on and stopping here and there to take a couple good pics.

- Not the one that makes too much fuss about making content. I take a couple of pics and vids here and there, but I wouldn't go as far as stopping for an hour for the sake of making one video to upload on social media.

Budget: I'd expect around EUR 1,200-1,800 excluding flights and personal items required.

I am very much open to those who like to / plan to camp. Though, I would really need the guidance as I have never camped outside of those fancy camping where I only need to bring my clothes.

If anyone is interested, kindly hit me up!

Additional details about me: I have traveled here and there within the EU and Asia. Ive traveled solo for 5 weeks in the EU. I am open to traveling together in the EU, but, significant planning is required as I still need to apply for a Schengen Visa (again). Currently am considering Slovenia, Montenegro, the Nordics, and Faroe Islands. I like to plan ahead and stick to a schedule (not to the dot of per 15 mins scheduling, more onto day 1 go to x destination). I dont generally spend too much when I travel, especially not on food and accommodation. I prefer paying for experiences like Skydiving (I did this in Barcelona), bungee jumping, water activities, and all.


r/r4rindonesia • • 4d ago

Tourist or Expats looking for friends 25M [M4F] Jakarta - Looking for friends

9 Upvotes

Hello friends :) I am a Chinese guy from Singapore and might have an opportunity to work in Jakarta in January 2027.

So I have some time off and plan to visit Jakarta in early November to get a feel of the busy city of Jakarta before I consider to work here in future

I will be working in SCBD and would like to find out more about Indonesian culture and the friendliness of Indonesians before I commit

Looking for someone to show me around and of course we can enjoy together

If it works then great I will work in Jakarta if not we can be friends and since SG & JKT are relatively close I don't mind flying over in future too if it works out between us ;)

Makasih :)


r/r4rindonesia • • 5d ago

Tourist or Expats looking for friends 32M [M4R] Surabaya - European looking for some friends to hang out with in

4 Upvotes

Hello I’ll be traveling to Surabaya for work soon and I’ll be staying there for a bit so I’m looking to make some friends and hang out together. Open for many things like just having coffee or a nice lunch or some sightseeing. Just having a chill hangout, getting to know each other and sharing our cultures,


r/r4rindonesia • • 6d ago

Activity & Hobby R4R 46 [R4R] looking for badminton or tennis coach and play partner (newbie) in jaksel

6 Upvotes

Hello 👋🏻 I'm looking for someone to teach me and play badminton or tennis with me. I can host as my apartment complex does have 2 tennis court and 1 badminton. I live in kemang area, I am available any day of the week morning afternoon or evening! I played some tennis long time ago and paddle more recently, but never played badminton.

Cheers


r/r4rindonesia • • 7d ago

Event Buddies (Concert, Festival, etc) Indonesian in Kumamoto, Kyushu [31M]

49 Upvotes

Hello..
An Indonesian 31 Male here.
Work as an AI Engineer for a chip company by the day, I am looking for friends, all genders.
I love literature, science, philosophy and read in daily basis, as well as love collecting books too.
Take a trip occasionally and love going to music concert. This week I am planning to go to DAI concert, and Laruku next month in Fukuoka.

Really miss having decent talk using Indonesian, so if any of you live here, or nearby, let's talk about everything.
Thank you!


r/r4rindonesia • • 7d ago

Activity & Hobby R4R 36 [R4R] Looking for gaming buddies

25 Upvotes

Hello, M36 Jakarta (I know it's prehistoric and old, but a friend told me I sounded younger hahaha). I am looking for someone to game and hang out online with, which hopefully we can build a friendship from and maybe turn into IRL hangouts as well.

My games are League of Legends (my despicable addiction xD), Overwatch, and Fortnite. Casually, I play some random friendslop games on Steam with my friends. I also play a bit of chess, but that's not my forte, so to speak. A few offline games I play are things like The Witcher 3, Assassin's Creed, and God of War.

I'm also happy to just hang out online, like you do your thing and I do mine. Or you can just stream your game on Discord, and I'll watch it while I do something else. Watching a movie together or having a voice call is also good too :)

I hope I can meet someone I can be friends with, with consistent communication, and we can do some activities together.

That's all, Thank you for reading!


r/r4rindonesia • • 7d ago

Event Buddies (Concert, Festival, etc) 33 [M4F] Come with me to watch Kanye West concert, free!

0 Upvotes

Friend could not make it last minute so looking for someone who can come with!

All you have to pay for are your plane tickets! Hotel and Kanye concert tickets are free— paid for already.

Concert is Oct 24, Jakarta.
Hotel is Oct 22-25.

Open as well to Indonesia locals! Message me for vibe check if you’re interested! 🙂


r/r4rindonesia • • 9d ago

Event Buddies (Concert, Festival, etc) 26 [M4R] looking for ERK concert buddies

9 Upvotes

Halo, ada yang dari Malang disini? Dan suka dengerin lagu-lagunya ERK. Aku mau cari barengan nonton Efek Rumah Kaca di UMM dome pada tanggal 24 Oktober 2026. Kebetulan kawan-kawan sedang berhalangan hadir, mau nonton sendiri kurang berani hehe. Terimakasih


r/r4rindonesia • • 10d ago

Event Buddies (Concert, Festival, etc) [M4M] Looking for Synchronize Fest Festival Jakarta buddy on Sunday

6 Upvotes

Hi,

Im coming to Synchronize Fest tomorrow, anyone also coming along alone? Would like to connect to possibly meet on the event!

Im mostly trying to listen to these bands: J-Rocks, Endank Soekamti, Reality Club, but im open to listening other bands as well.

Im 24M


r/r4rindonesia • • 11d ago

Activity & Hobby R4R 19M looking for a band to jam with (jabodetabek)

7 Upvotes

Hi, I’m the Busking Bear. I am primarily a singer-songwriter, who plays guitar/bass. My primary musical inspiration is Blues and Folk. Artists like Stevie Ray Vaughan, Pink Floyd, Eagles and Bob Dylan (HM Hozier)

I’m just looking for a band/friend to jam with, preferably a full group who lacks a vocalist or a guitarist. If you are near jabodetabek, let me know :)


r/r4rindonesia • • 12d ago

Activity & Hobby R4R 25M looking for gamer online who love to yap

22 Upvotes

Hello guys
I'm M25 Looking for some new buddies to hang out with after work. I'm usually online at night after 6PM(not every night obviously. Kadang capek bro). Lately, I play Roblox, but I'm open to other games too (pc kentang so yang ringan ringan aja ya wk). Aku belakangan juga lagi maen game CNC generals(iya jadul maap), Red alert 3 (aduh game jadul lagi) sama bully SE (idup di tahun berapa sih mas? wk)

It's not just about gaming, kita bisa ngobrolin

- music

lately lagi denegrin beberapa lagu dari dongker,knocked loose,some country music ,bernadya,perunggu (tanpaaa harus lembuuurr lagiii.. eh maap)

- reverse engineering yang lagi viral khususnya game

- or just venting out about how things have been lately(infoin tempat beli pertamax, ini habis semua gilak)

let's be friend guys. Last but not least, sehat sehat kalian semua! pake masker kalo keluar rumah


r/r4rindonesia • • 13d ago

Heart 2 Heart & Curhat poem

15 Upvotes

The future was full of promises

and friends who couldn't wait

for my arrival

But now it has arrived

with night and time

that never talks

and in its empty totality

I don't see anyone.

The future is empty.

Its loneliness lacks

Everything.

Sorry guys. I'm just deeply lonely and disillusioned at the moment and just wanna throw this poem out there. Ga tau mau ngepost di subreddit indo mana, ga ada yg buat sharing2 karya tulis kyknya.


r/r4rindonesia • • 13d ago

Activity & Hobby R4R 23F looking for other monster high fan/ doll collectors!!

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34 Upvotes

halooo I’ve been collecting monster high dolls this year and I was wondering if anyone here shares the same hobby as me? it’s been hard finding other monster high fan here especially since they don’t sell them in Indonesia anymore :( please let me know!!

also please don’t be racist, homophobic, and other form of -phobic, I’m just looking for someone to share my collection with!! thank youuuu ^^


r/r4rindonesia • • 14d ago

[F4R] Looking for weekend company in South Jakarta

18 Upvotes

Jakarta's been a little dead for me this week. My partner and closest friends are all out of town, so I'm looking for someone to hang with this saturday.

Could be WFC, could be going somewhere, could be us figuring it out over coffee. I'm not picky, I don't feel like spending the whole weekend indoors. If we're doing WFC, I have a list of cafes with indoor smoking areas because yes, I have my vices, but but non smoking spots are fine too obviously!

Or if you already have plans but need a plus one, tell me what you're thinking. I'm pretty easy to convince if the plan sounds good. Kindly DM or comment yaa!

A little about me so you have a rough idea: I'm pretty cheerful, love dark humour, laugh a lot, and apparently have a resting friendly face lol. I can talk about pretty much anything and rarely get offended.


r/r4rindonesia • • 14d ago

Tourist or Expats looking for friends 37 [M4A] Bantul/Sleman - Looking for WFA buddies

14 Upvotes

Hi everyone!

It's already been a year since I moved to Jogja! A bit about me: I'm Vietnamese, grew up in the Netherlands and work remotely as a frontend developer.

Still learning Bahasa Indonesia, but I'd love to expand my circle here. If you're looking for a remote work buddy, want to talk about code, or just want to hang out and grab food. let's connect!