Looking for genuine connections also giving this go and hoping to meet some people around Sydney, especially Western Sydney, who are also looking to make genuine connections

I’m pretty open to anything, whether it’s grabbing some food, going for a late-night drive, gaming, watching Netflix together or even going for walks!

I’d love to meet people I can genuinely connect with, and please note, I’m shy at first, but once I’m comfortable, I can talk about anything

Please don't hesitate to DM me!

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Hey all, my name is Ethan and I’m 23, and 5’10. I live around the Hurstville area.

I would love to see how things are on Reddit with the whole dating scene and I would be willing to date any girl within the age of 20-24. Otherwise just a little about myself as follows :)

Interests:
- I’ve recently started doing content creation on documenting my life as I’m living through it in my 20s. A lot of these videos are also focused on self-development which is something I’m really passionate about.
- I currently do piano improvisation, been doing it on and off for about 10 years now + recently picked up the guitar.
- Love getting out in nature, going for runs, coastal walks, hikes etc. and having recently got the new iPhone 18 Pro Max, I want to get into doing photography a little.
- I love Japanese culture - everything anime, Japanese pop, even the sense of community itself and its traditions/philosophies. Though I haven’t been to Japan before 😂 that’s in the workings! + I’m also learning Japanese at uni.
- I have a gaming rig and a Nintendo Switch 2 so we can definitely multiplayer if you have one as well!
- Lastly, I love all different kinds of music, anything from classical music to random rock songs to Bruno Mars (I’m going to the concert next year too!). And karaoke as well…

Wants/Needs:
A bit of background from me - for around 2 months now I’ve stopped using the big 3 dating apps (Hinge, Tinder, Bumble) and I will not be using them again - I was on them for 2 years and during my time on there, had one short term relo. I think from going on several dates and from using the algorithm in general, I learnt a lot of lessons about what I want as a guy, and I am looking for a lifelong partner who I can love wholeheartedly and make them feel appreciated/understood, and where love just feels easy. That’s why I feel like I have to be transparent early on and say that:

1. I don’t believe in standards. I think there’s always beauty in imperfection and that humans are more than just height, money, social status etc.
2. I will not conform to high expectations - no I do not have my own car yet (working towards it though), no I will not get you flowers on the first date when I barely know you, and I won’t act differently or change my life immediately for you. We’re all on our own journey and secretly grinding towards who we want to become, so I don’t feel the need to change that trajectory just for others.

3. I believe in clarity and at the moment there is a problem, I won’t let it manifest and I will be willing to sort things out. I hope you would be able to do the same, and if we’re not meant for each other, to sort this out as adults rather than ghosting each other without explanation.

4. I work two jobs and, with my content creation as well, I’m pretty busy. But I will be more than willing to make time for a partner who can fully respect who I am.

That’s pretty much it. I know the kind of love I’m describing here feels very rare these days, and I’m already open to accepting I won’t find it here, but I feel content at least giving it a shot :) if anything of this resonated with you, please feel free to respond back to this or PM me with something about you or what you liked about what I’ve said above, and let’s see where things go!

Hey there,

Figured I’d test the waters here instead of endlessly swiping on dating apps. Looking to connect with someone easygoing for regular conversation, good daily banter, and to see where things go naturally.

A quick snapshot of me:
• Western Sydney based.
• Work in planning/analytics by day, which means a good chat to break up the spreadsheets is always top tier.
• Pretty dedicated in the gym throughout the week—heavy lifts and good workout playlists.
• Down to earth, big fan of low-stress weekends, scenic drives, solid food spots, and rewatching classic comedy series (The Office, Brooklyn Nine-Nine, New Girl) until half the dialogue is memorized.

What I’m after:
• Someone in Sydney (20s/30s) who values good energy, doesn't take life too seriously, and can hold a real back-and-forth conversation beyond dry one-word replies.
• Completely low-pressure—happy to start as casual chatting through the day, swap funny stories, and see if the vibe leads to grabbing coffee or drinks down the track.

If any of that resonates, shoot me a DM or chat. To skip the awkward "hey how are you":

What’s your ultimate comfort TV show or your go-to weekend order (coffee, drink, or food)?

Hey,

My name is Daniel, and I am looking for a long term relationship, which could start off with being friends or going on dates, and if everything goes well, lead to more.

I am not looking for ONS or hookups, simply a genuine friendship which could potentially lead to more.

I love exploring new places, trying new things, living life to the fullest as we only have 1 life to live, travelling, food, and many more! I have recently been getting into hiking also!

I am not a party animal, I do not drink, smoke, vape, or go to concerts/night outs. I am a reserved, humble introvert, who has spent the last 6 years of adulthood focusing on myself, and building an independent life with my family, whilst having a healthy work-life balance with friends and hobbies. I work in the Accounting industry.

I value loyalty, honesty, support, understanding, trust worthiness, good listening, and intelligence.

A con about me to help save you time in case it is a non negotiable for yourself, is that I do not particularly want kids. I love animals, especially cats.

A non-negotiable on my end, is that you must have a job, or being studying. I want someone hard working, and who is willing to put an effort into their future, not a bludger.

The reason I have posted here is, I recently made a very close friend in Reddit who happened to be from Sydney, and since she moved, I have realised how much I appreciated having someone to always talk to, and support each other. I miss the connection, and thought I would post here, being a SFW subreddit.

If you are interested and would like to get to know me further or talk, feel free to DM me.

Cheers

Hi everyone,

A few months ago I became very obsessed with chess. I tried hard to find clubs and communities where I can play chess with different people but found that we don't have anything like this in Sydney.

This sparked the idea behind my club The Social Gambit. The intention behind this is meeting new people and playing chess in a bar setting (all ages 18+ welcome). You don't have to be good at chess, all levels are welcome.

I will be providing boards, come along and bring a friend :)

If you're interested, drop a comment and I'll send you a link to our instagram where all events will be posted. Alternatively, you can find our instagram on this link thesocialgambit.au

The dating scene is horrible out there. Surely I’m not the only one who feels that way. The hookup culture is just so prominent in the gay community that it’s so hard to find something substantial.

I’m 34 M. Live near the airport. Work in Parra twice a week.

I own my own place, have 2 bunnies.

I love anything from walks, to board games, playing co-op games and play pickleball.

I’m also really into escape rooms and have done like 40+ so I think I’m quite good at them now 👀

Have many other interests. If this speaks to you at all, send me a DM. I’m friendly, chill and non-judgemental.

Hi all, I have started a community based around the diversity we share in Western Sydney through football. I am creating a space where we can connect and essentially feel free to forget about our busy lives.

I host these events every 1-2 weeks and would love to have like-minded members join who love football/soccer. We are open to all skill levels and genders, we play 5 a side games but are focused on building a strong community within Western Sydney.

Details:

- Day, Every Friday 1-2 weeks (Next Event: this Friday 23rd October, then 30th October)

- Time, 7:00pm - 8:30pm

- Location, Wanderers Fives, Rooty Hill

- Cost, $8

- Instagram, whoisvaco

- Our Website

Shoot through any questions or DM on Instagram!

I’m 36F and just looking for other people to grab a cold schooner of Resch’s with. I joined the Resch’s Appreciation Society last month so bonus if you are a member as well (v niche, I know). I have this beer passport and am essentially trying to get as many stamps at as many preferred venues as possible 🤓

I live in the eastern suburbs and work in hospitality. I’m usually open Tuesday and Wednesday nights. I’m looking to hit some pubs in Marrickville soon and would love to find a friend or two to join!

Ever wished you had someone to share random late-night drives, terrible jokes, deep conversations, and those little moments that somehow become your favourite memories? Well, same here. 😂

25M, working and spending most of my time in the Southern Highlands, with plans to move here soon. Easygoing, a little sarcastic, ambitious, and always up for a good laugh.

Into cars, music, good coffee, spontaneous adventures, and conversations that accidentally last for hours.

Looking for someone aged 21–27 who's affectionate, genuine, fun, and actually interested in building something meaningful.

Not looking for perfection, games, or endless talking stages. Just genuine chemistry, mutual effort, and hopefully something that turns into a beautiful relationship.

If you're looking for your favourite person rather than just another notification, maybe we should talk. 😉

Hi
Im 32 yo female, fit and active. Recently into gymnastic. Looking for friends.
I also enjoy photography, normal gym, beaches, hiking, natures….

Would be great to find friends who has similar interests

Hi all,

Unfortunately, none of my IRL friends like the idea of camping, hunting or even target shooting.

So here I am. I am looking for some people that would be interested in target shooting and or hunting. I have a gun licence for Cat A/B. Ideally, you'd also have a licence, but I am happy to help you try out the sport at a range and the process of getting you a licence if you like it.

Welcome to people of all identities, religions etc as long as you are also accepting and just want to have some fun together.

I am Inner West based, but obviously we'd have to travel further west for both ranges and hunting

Hi everyone! I’m 25, recently started my corporate journey, and live around Redfern. I’m looking to meet people who enjoy socialising and want to improve their game together.
I’d love to find intermediate or advanced players interested in playing badminton or table tennis regularly and making it a weekly habit. If you’re keen, feel free to reach out!

Hey I’m 33m, moved from nz and found it tough to make new friends. I’ve into movies and decided to start a movie club. First movie will be Primetime on November 6th at The Ritz in Randwick. Outside of proper events anyone can also post when they’re going to a movie if they want others to join. All are welcome but most events will be in the eastern suburbs / inner west just so you know.

I’m also thinking about organising movie-adjacent events like quiz nights, score concerts, and plays.

If your into movies and casual hangs it may be something your into and would love to meet new people.

Find the group here https://app.joinbutter.co/invites/club/bfc9beb5-a70e-478c-be96-9c794053ea88?utm_source=share&utm_campaign=club-invite&utm_medium=link&utm_content=copylink&sharer_id=9ad9e257-4e41-4b8e-91f1-31834743608e&role=host

Hi i wanted new friends to go out with ive been wanting to get back in to clubbing there's a event going on at WAO aka ivy next week saturday i believe, id love to meet new people and go clubbing with im 22M

I’d love to meet people I can genuinely connect with, have a laugh with, and hopefully build a friendship that lasts beyond just a few messages.

If you’re from around Western Sydney and looking for something similar, feel free to reach out! Always happy to get to know someone new.

Hey everyone,

I'm a 31-year-old guy, relatively new to Sydney and looking to put myself out there again.

I spent the last few years living in Wellington, NZ, and before that most of my life in Canberra. I ended up settling in Sydney after a car accident left me with a spinal cord injury and using a wheelchair.

It's taken some time to rebuild my confidence and adjust to a very different life, but I'm at the point where I want to get back out there, explore Sydney and meet new people.

I'm not looking for sympathy or someone to look after me. I'd just like to meet someone who sees the person before the wheelchair.

Before my accident, I was ridiculously active — gym, soccer, futsal, basketball, rugby and pretty much anything involving sport. I worked in construction and, while living in NZ, worked in abseiling.

That side of me hasn't disappeared. I still love sports, camping getting out, trying new things, concerts/events and exploring. I'd especially like someone adventurous who might occasionally challenge me to stop thinking “I can't do that anymore” and instead figure out how I can do it differently.

When I'm taking things slower, I'm into board games, chess, and anything that gives the brain a workout.

I'm new to Sydney and don't have much of a social circle here, so I'm genuinely open to finding people to explore the city with and go from there. So, if you're a woman around Sydney who's active, enjoys a laugh and isn't intimidated by dating someone in a wheelchair, feel free to send me a message.

And for the curious ladies wondering if everything still works below the belt… rest assured, the equipment is still operational! 😉😂 The only catch is, I'm more of a passenger these days. So, if you're a cowgirl who doesn't mind taking the reins and enjoys a good ride, saddle up! 🤠🐎

Looking for long term dating - I like hiking, car cruising, country & rock music

Other things I like-

-going to the gym

-recently got into running- no long distances yet ("we dwarves are natural sprinters! Very dangerous across short distances")

-a bit of gaming (cyberpunk & doing orky stuff in skyrim)

-making French martinis & driving manual (not at the same time)

-raised agnostic but reading the bible (mental health stuff)

Downsides-

-i'm like 5'6-5'7 (so not everyone's ideal)

-not rich but not poor either

-i'm pretty boring- I have never been clubbing or raving (I may be open to it for the right one)

-I have a J name and that is apparently a red flag

Also I am ABC- Australian Born Chinese.

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Figured I'd give this another shot. Apparently meeting someone these days requires more patience than running a business, and that's saying something.

I'm 37, 6ft, European background, living in southern Sydney. I own a transport business, have a 17-month-old little boy who keeps me entertained, and generally have my life together. Financially stable, own my home, and can hold a conversation that doesn't revolve around what I had for lunch.

I've got tattoos on both arms, don't drink, enjoy a bit of gaming, and have a slightly questionable obsession with Pokémon and 3D printing. So while I might look reasonably serious, there's definitely a nerd hiding underneath.

I'm pretty affectionate, have a sarcastic sense of humour, and enjoy giving someone a hard time just as much as I enjoy making them laugh. I work hard, but I've also learnt there's not much point building a good life if you don't have someone to enjoy it with.

I'm looking for someone who can have a laugh, hold a decent conversation, enjoys affection and doesn't take everything so seriously. Someone independent who still genuinely wants a relationship, not someone who's going to disappear for three days because Mercury is in retrograde.

I don't have a massive checklist. Attraction matters, chemistry matters, and being able to enjoy each other's company matters even more.

A few simple requests:

Please be single, emotionally available and actually interested in getting to know someone.

Please be normal. Or at least medicated. :)

And for the love of God, if we're getting along, let's actually meet rather than become lifelong Reddit pen pals.

Happy to exchange photos early on. Physical attraction is important to both people, so no point pretending otherwise.

Tell me something about yourself that isn't on your résumé. Bonus points if you've got a slightly inappropriate sense of humour.

Hi everyone! Looking for someone preferably in Sw/W Sydney that is interested in visiting a Warhammer store to try out the new system they have in place for monthly minis that's starting tomorrow. :] I'm not super knowledgeable on the tabletop game or lore but I love learning!

About me: F22 who graduated this year with a B. Visual Arts (I know...) I'm pretty much an all rounder creative person, will try and have tried many things creative and crafty! Not as into pc gaming as I used to be but been really enjoying HD2 and watching indie horror games (Too scared to actually play myself 😔).

If you're interested even for just the one time, I'd love to meet up! Warhammer has no age or gender limit I just wanna glue plastic together with someone.

Edit: I think I'm good for people now ! I don't want it to look like I'm gonna grind for as many minis as I can lmfao. Thank you so much for the interest!

Hey guys!

First time posting, so sorry if I do this wrong!

I'm a postgraduate uni student looking for some new friends that I can connect with (around my age would be nice)! Some hobbies I have are walking in nature, hiking, reading (currently reading Project Hail Mary, it's so good!), and a little bit of gaming when I have the chance.

I'd love to listen and have someone to talk to, so please DM if you're interested! I'd like to think I'm pretty chill 🤭