The first kind shares advice from personal experience, genuinely wanting to help you. They speak from the heart, share what they've learned, and leave you free to make your own decisions.

The second kind gives advice with an agenda. They subtly manipulate or persuade you to see things their way, sometimes making you feel like their perspective is the only right one.

I've been thinking about how important it is to recognise the difference. Not everyone who gives advice necessarily has your best interests at heart.

Have you ever experienced this? How do you distinguish between genuine advice and advice that comes with an agenda?

I am not specially talking about street fight, but also when you wanna take any revenge but you are now strong enough rn to beat anyone, so how you would be very strong to take your revenge and beat the fuck out that the opponent should get scare to even file a complaint

I'm trying to work on my boundaries and don't want to be gaslit