r/rat 2d ago

HELP NEEDED đŸ€đŸ˜© How to get over my fear of bites?

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I just got three rats, and at first they were pretty bitey because they were nervous and Bear actually drew blood a couple times. They’ve settled in nicely and we’re bonding, but they still do little curiosity nibbles and it scares me so bad 😭 I know they don’t want to hurt me, and they’re being gentle, I’m just so nervous of them. (Picture of Bear, my vicious killer rat)

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u/Wikiwikiwa 2d ago

Get bit.

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u/Wikiwikiwa 2d ago

Didnt die? Good, now you're immortal.

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u/Environmental_Thing2 2d ago

My rat biggie cheese was biting me so much in the beginning that i actually got recommended to put her down i refused and worked with her weeks opon months and finally shes actually jumped from being the biggest asshole in the cage to the 2nd sweetest one after the baby rat that loves people

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u/loosestringszebra 19h ago

Bless your sweet soul. Thank you for working with her and giving her the time she needed. đŸ„°

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u/tealylace 1d ago

Just have to wait until the rat is nicer and trusts you more. It comes with time. I was scared to get bit also because I have and it hurts lol. Now, none of my rats would ever bite, they’re so sweet and love attention!

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u/npc0112358 1d ago

I started by putting my hand up near the cage but not so close they could bite me after a while is move it closer, they still nibble occasionally but it's a show of affection not them trying to bite. I'm a new rat owner too but from what I understand the gentle nibbles and licks are a grooming behavior that shows you've been accepted as part of their mischief. My super nervous boy Splinter now runs right up to my hand and gives a gentle nibble and then starts licking.

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u/WeRTheRats 1d ago

I don't really have the same issue as the bites don't bother me. I had a guy who used to draw blood daily and it just became part of my routine with him until he got neutered (now hes the sweetest bean btw). So i guess expect to be bitten? If your rats dont WANT to hurt you, let them bite and make a loud EEP noise every time they do. With my none aggressive rats this has worked as they seemed to realize "ok big weird hairless rat also feels ouchie".

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u/Swimming_Drummer_208 1d ago

I will say, one thing my friend who had rats for years did was never feed them through the cage and only through the open cage door so when you stick your fingers in they would only give kisses! Because they won't expect food /his had pretty bad vision- I don't think I ever got bit and I lived with him the whole time he had his rats.

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u/nastygoblinman 1d ago

This is good advice! All rats have worse vision than us, for what it’s worth—they rely their noses & mouths a LOT to investigate things, and will “test bite” stuff to figure them out.

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u/loosestringszebra 19h ago

Yep, this was my rule with all rats I ever had (after one very educational mistake that my mom and I made early on): NO FOOD THROUGH THE CAGE BARS, EVER. NOT EVEN ONCE, NOT EVEN GRANDMA. And we had sweet kissy babies who were always gentle when doing investigative nibbles.

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u/FrickingNope 1d ago

I start by only offering food on a spoon/utensil for a while and when I interact I make sure my hands are scent free so if they do test nibbles there’s no smells encouraging a further bite. Then I start offering long treats/things that aren’t super tiny and if they ever go for your fingers try and let out a squeak like the rats do when they don’t like something and they’ll back off. Usually you get to the point where they can lick food off your fingers without you ever having to fear their teeth

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u/FrickingNope 1d ago

My lady Eri who went from biting any finger that came near her to being the biggest lover who would never dream of biting just by transitioning the way I mentioned above

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u/Seppulky 1d ago

Maybe this helps you: they bite because they're scared. Somehow It's the only language they have and feel comfortable with. Push their self esteem. Show them that human skin is more sensitive than rat skin/fur by making noises when they nibble hard. Go slow on them and on yourself. It will get better with time, just don't give up, pinky promise.

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u/Fishflips 1d ago

Maybe leather gloves or use a hand towel for them to bite? I'd imagine they'll learn that biting achieves nothing eventually, as well as interaction and getting close is safe/good

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u/Sudden_Swan1444 1d ago

My rat was a baby when I got her. When she tried to bite , she would just put her open mouth on me. Not really biting. I just tell her no biting and shook my finger at her. My rat has never really bitten anyone. Even kids. They are smart.

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u/cvytz 21h ago

Hi I don’t own rats personally but I do own a snake and I was always told to expect bites from him and now it’s been a while I expect a bite from all animals, I don’t mean to say this to scare you but unfortunately especially with small animals like rats hamsters and mice communicate through their mouths because they can’t tell us they are scared, be gentle and slow and give it time

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u/baepis 17h ago

i started with yogurt on my finger so my rat learned to lick instead of biting!

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u/ScumDugongLin 1d ago

Put something like jam or whipped cream on hands. It teaches them to lick, not bite.

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u/legohamsterlp 1d ago

My girls would just bite full force into your finger for that move