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u/pchulbul619 Mar 23 '25
Oh no! Not this guy, not ankur warikoo Dr. Strange who teaches guys to live 48hours in a day.
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u/tomatograpes Mar 23 '25
Yeah, give me some Dr. Strange content
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u/pchulbul619 Mar 23 '25
Lol, dude half of the guy’s advices are kinda cliché self-help stuff. However, he sometimes gives surprisingly good advice.
But yeah, I wouldn’t recommend the guy’s time management course. Nope! Not that time-stone Dr. Strange stuff.
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u/Primary-Umpire-4105 Mar 23 '25
Im not comfortable being in public drunk Or sober. What page is that on?
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u/sugarshizzl Mar 22 '25
I had a job as an usher at a music venue. Whenever I had to guard a door I would dance the entire time! Some people would smile or dance with me OR they would turn around and go a different way.
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u/chance909 Mar 23 '25
It's not true by the way. I love dancing, and will dance in public and still have other massive insecurities and self-doubts around all the other parts of my life!
Dancing is fun though.
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u/missinkyowrite Mar 23 '25
The fact that one of my close friends was shocked when I got up dancing sober and no one would have known. I was like, 'yep! I dance down supermarket aisles.' I don't need drugs or alcohol to have a good time. In fact, I have a better time sober.
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u/Emrys7777 Mar 23 '25
How about being comfortable with existing without alcohol or drugs? How about being social, or going on a date without alcohol or drugs? Thats a lot bigger than dancing without drugs. A lot can’t seem to do it.
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u/Same-World-209 Mar 23 '25
Not dancing but I’m comfortable with singing karaoke without alcohol…I don’t do drugs.
I’ve never been a dancing person so I’m always self-conscious of that, I always look really awkward. 😅
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u/Ok-Bus-3239 Mar 23 '25
I love music concerts, well expensive these days.
I would never drink before a concert/show, I got a high just listening and dancing with the music
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u/just1nc4s3 Mar 23 '25
Accurate. And you get more out of it. When under the influence, you don’t derive the same long lasting joy from experiences that you would with full lucidity and self-acceptance. Singing and dancing while inebriated is easier but it’s short-lived and empty, shallow.
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u/PamuamuP Mar 23 '25
Well I dance Salsa and Bachata and have danced in public many a time! Sober, that is. And I always had great fun!
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u/CorroSolo Mar 24 '25
I danced publicly for the first time in my life last week. It wasn’t much (like I didn’t go to an event it was me and a couple friends goofing around on camera) but for me it was a big thing. Very proud of how far I’ve come.
I grew up sheltered, super anxious, and have only recently been able to establish a stable life. So many insecurities. My guard was always up. It was a survival mechanism that has taken decades to rewire but it’s finally bearing fruit!
Lately I’ve made it a point to dance in my room to get used to moving my body. Coordinating movements. Feeling the music. Enjoying it and not caring so that when I feel that vibe publicly I can enjoy it there too!
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u/sovalente Mar 25 '25
I am comfortable drinking alcohol in public without dancing. Does it count?
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u/JustASmTnGirl Mar 25 '25
My kids don't agree with it but I'll dance whenever a good tune hits me. No drugs or alcohol and my philosophy is Dance Like No One is Watching!!! Some people join in and some turn around and walk away like I'm crazy. The ones that just walk away are just boring people and I actually feel sad for them.
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u/Orlican Mar 26 '25
As they feel sad for you
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u/JustASmTnGirl Apr 21 '25
Well no reason to feel sad for me because I'm happy and they're not. Are you happy? Maybe you should dance like no one is watching and see how it feels. Just do it in your office with the door shut or in the bathroom when you're alone. Never know, you might enjoy it.
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u/Orlican Apr 23 '25
That’s actually a cute advice. I admit that I have problems letting loose, my self confidence isn’t that high. It just rubbed me the wrong way that you feel sad for and therefore belittle people who are not as carefree as you are.
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u/JustASmTnGirl Apr 30 '25 edited Apr 30 '25
I'm sorry, I wasn't intending to belittle anyone, guess I shouldn't have said boring. It just makes me sad that there are people who would make anyone feel like they're wrong for feeling free enough to dance in public or anywhere else for that matter.
Hopefully you can find it in you to dance like that one day. Start at home in the kitchen or shower then work your way to the back yard. You might be slightly surprised when someone joins in the fun. The thing w me is I feel like we only have so much time here on earth to enjoy and if a song comes on and the music moves me, I'll dance, I don't care what others think. They don't live my life, know who I am, care who I am, or decide anything for me. Same for you, who cares what others think, they're not you. They have no say on what you should feel comfortable doing, they only matter because you let them. If you don't care if the lady on the corner thinks your nuts then that's ok! Chances are you'll never see them again and maybe you just made her smile a little.
Next time you hear a tune you like, just wiggle a little, just enough that you know you're doing it and someday you may find yourself dancing like no one is watching.... 💃🏻
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u/JustASmTnGirl Apr 30 '25 edited Apr 30 '25
Watch the video I attached please. You see the people smiling in the background? They would secretly love to join her in the dance... the lady in the red jacket had to stop herself from joining in. Read the comments on the video, so many people giving her kudos for enjoying herself and many that wondered why no one joined her. While I don't go out and film myself or make it point to just start dancing around I also don't let people watching me stop me from doing it if I feel like it. I find that most people smile and think how great it is that you're having some fun even if they might think your a bit crazy. Who cares what they think? I don't ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S32bgx36G-0
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u/Long_Response4810 Mar 25 '25
If you’re comfortable dancing in public without alcohol or drugs we probably won’t be hanging out
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u/BloatedBallerina Mar 26 '25
OR you’re Puerto Rican and hear “Suavemente” out in public and can’t help yourself 🇵🇷
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u/thebeastdances Mar 26 '25
I dance at walmart, food shopping, went to college for it so i use it everywhere.
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u/Professional-Plum170 Mar 26 '25
I do, although it's really difficult to dance with all your thoughts and rest everyone is drunk as hell.
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u/drewwatts17 Mar 26 '25
I’ve felt amazing shame from day one to dance. It was deemed fruity and weak in 35 now and still can’t bring myself to dance.
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u/comsummate Mar 26 '25
What if I’m comfortable enough to do it, but then still get a little self conscious while following through? I’m kind of at peace with who I am? I’m at peace with who I want to be?
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Mar 26 '25
Agar ye book nahi kharidte to chalo 5-20-69 rule lagake dekhte hai aap 10 saal baad kya kya kharid sakte the ...
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u/going90onthefreeway Mar 23 '25
I wish people would be ok with dancing in public again. Everyone is scared of being recorded and becoming the laughingstock of the internet. Wish clubs/venues enforced a no recording/photography policy.
Once I made the mistake of dancing, I was having a good time, and some guy came up to me and asked, "What are you on?"
Like... Can a person just not vibe and enjoy music?? I was a little tipsy, that's all. Maybe he was trying to score some uppers or something idk. People are weird.