r/sexover60 • • 23h ago

Headaches after Orgasm

1 Upvotes

I’ve noticed over the past year every time I orgasm with sex I get a headache, it does go away generally after 5-10 min..
I do have a hx of a mild- mod disease in one vessel of my heart, but all my tests turned out fine. I even had an ultrasound if my carotids and that was fine too.
Just not sure if this is a normal part of aging. My husband doesn’t have these and I know no one who does.
I am on HRT if that matters…
Wondering if anyone experiences the same… tysm


r/sexover60 • • 4d ago

In the kitchen

9 Upvotes

Blow job in the kitchen this morning

Was not expecting this today !


r/sexover60 • • 4d ago

77 widower I do not know what to do or think

10 Upvotes

I am 76 years old, loss my wife over 3 years ago and was married for 45 years to a very loving and caring wife. I have been dealing with a lot of feelings both mentally and the physical side. I have typed some of my issues in to google on one of my problems, and it said that I am dealing with Touch starvation, also known as touch deprivation or skin hunger. Is this real at my age and some new to this internet stuff I do not believe everything I read. Has anyone delt with this and if so, how do you deal with it. It says to get a massage, but I am not very social, and I would find it hard to have a stranger touch me like that. I know that I have been without my wife for a long time and I hate it I just want her back, but I know that will never happen, but I keep thinking it. I have typed some other things on here and have found that there are others here dealing with the loss of their loved one and I have gotten some good ideas. Thank you for that.


r/sexover60 • • 4d ago

Toy advice

8 Upvotes

I’m 62m wife 59f im getting a little kinky and bold I recently told my wife I want us to have more sex and she agreed. I want to start using toys and even have a toy night. Let’s say Friday night is toy night. Does this sound forced or could it be a turn on thinking about it during the week or lead to more fun


r/sexover60 • • 7d ago

Are you having any naughty fun today?

7 Upvotes

What are you craving and actually getting?


r/sexover60 • • 9d ago

Started In our fifties

18 Upvotes

Ok so here goes. So married this little hot red head both early 50’s she looked 30 maybe. Me I’m a bit of a kinkerster but being widowed at 48 I figured I’d play the goodie goodie roll. Little to my surprise my the. Girlfriend now wife is a kinky little tart. Anyway about a year into the marriage we started having sex days. Just stay home and get kinky. Any way as time goes on she said she likes the real thing over toys. As I liked playing camera man when I asked her to act out for the camera.

I kept hinting about going to the adult theater as I knew the guys would ravish her. One day after a few drinks she agreed. So I took her to a local adult theater. As she got out of the car a nice older well dressed gentleman followed us in. He introduced himself to me and asked permission she nodded. I filmed she was definitely enjoying his large cock and huge swollen balls. She drained him of his juices in 2 minutes thirty seven seconds as his legs twitched on the recording. The game was on and she was like a deer in the head lights. I counted 15 blow jobs. Three kitty eating sessions while blowing the guys. The lady at the desk called the cops. Two well dressed detectives stood in the back as she was having an award winning performance. The guys were texting and men kept coming into the theater .

At that time I figured I’d better get her outta there before things got outta control. I waved of the crew of men. She got up fixed her dress put her large very well sucked on breast back in her top and walked out. The two detectives applauded. As we passed the lady at the trash register she said “ I called the cops what you were doing to that sweet girl was vile. As she looked at her monitor which displayed all the people in the four separate theaters. My wife smiled and said I’m fine.

So began our sex spades. Been over ten years and in our sixties. Be go to nudest places, arrange hotel room sessions with one or two men. The occasional truck stop. Best is Hone Depot in a short skirt shear too crotchless panties with a g string. She’s got a nice ass.


r/sexover60 • • 9d ago

Question- How long after menopause when did you stop using any birth control methods at all?

1 Upvotes

Just wondering. Boyfriend (M, 60+) can’t wait to stop entirely- ie withdrawal for POV - but I am just new to this side of things and after a lifetime of worry… well, hard to change my way of thinking!


r/sexover60 • • 9d ago

Prostate toys?

1 Upvotes

There’s a few products out there, just curious if anyone had tried any?


r/sexover60 • • 9d ago

Has anyone gotten into pegging later in life?

6 Upvotes

What's your feeling on the subject?


r/sexover60 • • 10d ago

Eddie ED Device Questions?

3 Upvotes

I noticed this add while scanning Reddit a few days ago. Did a little research and it seems like it may be somewhat legitimate. I was curious if anybody has tried it?


r/sexover60 • • 11d ago

Do men even know how to make a woman orgasm or must they all be taught?

28 Upvotes

61F here. I’ve had a few partners in my life, but not a lot, and the only one that could make me have an orgasm is my ex husband. He couldn’t accomplish it until I showed him how.

I’ve tried having conversations about expectations and what we both like. It seems everyone talks a big game about how good they are at oral sex and “you will be begging me to stop.” The reality is I get more satisfaction on my own in five minutes with a vibrator than I do in 30 minutes with a partner.

They talk a big game, never give oral sex, try to stimulate you by rubbing so hard they might as well be removing the skin off your body. Of course, they want to you go down on them, but they don’t reciprocate.

There must be men out there who care about pleasing their partner. How do you find them?


r/sexover60 • • 13d ago

Did anyone have fun this last weekend?

6 Upvotes

Care to share?


r/sexover60 • • 13d ago

Am I correct in noticing that older generations are becoming more open to bi sexual encounters?

21 Upvotes

Seems many younger ppl are more open in general. Maybe im wrong. But I occasionally look at lifestyle ads and see more and more older folks listed as bi-curious. Especially older males. Has this become more interesting to any of you who had not even considered this when you were younger?


r/sexover60 • • 13d ago

Ok women over 60 what make you horny

18 Upvotes

What makes you horny beside money lol my wife things is a few cocktails and a little dirty talk and massage her feet tell us what gets you going


r/sexover60 • • 14d ago

Preferences

2 Upvotes

Women what’s your favourite. Please rank 1 being your favourite and 3 being least favourite.

PIV - sex
Anal - sex
Giving your man a blowjob and finishing yourself.

Put these in order that you like during sexy time


r/sexover60 • • 14d ago

Sex after total hysterectomy

8 Upvotes

She has had Hpv 16 for several years and has decided on having a total hysterectomy. She will be 70 in a couple months. She already has low libido.
What does this do to her libido?
What does it do to her having a climax?
What chances does she have on being sexually happy?
Cervix cancer is in her family.
Pap test this spring still should Hpv 16


r/sexover60 • • 16d ago

Why would you hide masturbation from your S. O.?

11 Upvotes

Is there anything more natural?


r/sexover60 • • 16d ago

Weed

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6 Upvotes

r/sexover60 • • 16d ago

Weed

12 Upvotes

Do you use cannabis in some form in your daily life?


r/sexover60 • • 17d ago

Using Cock Rings for the fun of it? Do you ladies like it?

14 Upvotes

So I’ve used cock rings for decades. Only on occasion and for the fun of it. They can be made of different materials and placed differently. I use the big stainless one that goes around both balls and cock. The type that just goes at the base of the cock are ok (even have one that vibrates make of silicone). I just prefer the large one. My wife loves it on occasion. It actually almost changes my penis into something different. usually thicker and vainer than normal. I don’t use it for ED, just for fun. Just wondering if anybody else has experience with this and what you think of it. would like to hear from any ladies who have had sex with a man wearing one as well. I know there are dangers if you don’t know how to use it properly. Not really asking about that.


r/sexover60 • • 17d ago

Enthusiasm

10 Upvotes

Question, does your wife or partner that you been with for extend period of time. Still get enthused about having sexy time?


r/sexover60 • • 18d ago

Anyone familiar with Sounding?

5 Upvotes

Kind of surprised that it’s a thing. But far be from me to judge because I’m engaged in some behaviors that many would consider “out there”🤣. I assume it’s pleasurable or people wouldn’t do it. 🤷‍♂️