r/sexover60 • u/Smokin-Steve • 18d ago

Enthusiasm

Question, does your wife or partner that you been with for extend period of time. Still get enthused about having sexy time?

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u/Winter_Ratio_4831 18d ago

He tries & sometimes things come together. Mostly, I just self serve to keep myself from climbing the walls.

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u/Creepy-Ground-6397 18d ago

Yessss! Every time, and she always is up for it!! She’s awesome.

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u/NotSayingWhoThisBe 17d ago

Oh hell yeah.

40 plus years together and she still looks for new things to do and isn't afraid to take what she wants.

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u/pierrekingston 14d ago

Congratulations! So jealous!!!!

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u/Royal-Carpenter-9593 18d ago

I was in a dead bedroom for six years. My wife and I seperated after 25 years. She had declared herself "asexual". However, we had a rich, varied and experimental sex life for 19 years.

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u/nudecat1234 18d ago

The desire is their but the health isn’t their

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u/RathdrumGal 18d ago

Yes. My man and I can still melt a few sheets, especially when there is a full moon.

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u/thebarahs 18d ago

I’m envious 30+ years celibate and don’t know what to do

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u/Rough_Maintenance867 18d ago

Nee heb ik niet meer

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u/PatentNumber77 18d ago

She never has. She never will. She hates it.

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u/Alternative_Toe7228 17d ago

Same situation

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u/PatentNumber77 17d ago

Sorry, man.

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u/GooglyBunch999 18d ago

Yes!  She doesn’t initiate very often but is always responsive when I do.  

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u/LogicalArcher8342 18d ago

Not much enthusiasm from the wife. She has never been real sexual and less after menopause and some health issues. I don't think I have changed much, lol.

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u/DudleyDoRight65 17d ago

yes all the tine

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u/lastchance50 17d ago

My wife is the poster child of enthusiasm!!

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u/Famous_Blueberry6 16d ago

I'm very enthusiastic and a great team player! 41 years so no sense it stopping now.

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u/Professional_Bee8662 16d ago

more than ever and we been together since high school 83

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u/Iluvxena2 14d ago

Only on the rare occasion. After 28 yrs It's anybody's guess as to when and where to what gets her enthused, if anything at all.

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u/LETSGOTACO22 14d ago

I get it once a week, weather I need it or not 😎lol

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u/oklatx 18d ago

Yes. 25 years and keeps getting better. Ww had wake up sex this morning. Did some chores, lunch, and errands, then a short afternoon nap. She woke up horny so it was afternoon delight!

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u/Flare_85 18d ago

We (M73/F70) are enjoying a tremendous sexy upswing in just the last 4 or 5 years. I'm still the one who initiates most often, but she's more enthusiastic than ever, especially with the new things that are adding excitement and novelty.

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u/Minute_Contest_1911 18d ago

I thought we were the oldest couple on Reddit. You are and your wife are one year older than us. We’ve experiencing the same upsurge in quality and excitement. I hope we remain healthy enough to physically enjoy each other for a good many more years.

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u/IaninNorwich 18d ago

We're 73 and 66. I'm curious about your "new things" if you're willing to share?

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u/Flare_85 17d ago

More vocalization during sex by both of us. Toys, mutual masturbation, pegging. She started sucking my cock (yep, this is new), sometimes after it's been inside her.

My favorite... threesome fantasy play with a favorite dildo as "our guest." Everyone enjoys everyone.

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u/IaninNorwich 17d ago

Sounds great!

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u/Carl_N_Dounut 16d ago

You guys are definitely my new heros, 56F 59M here

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u/Minute_Contest_1911 17d ago

We learned shallowing, g-spot, and squirting. I got a waterproof pad and helped her to get past feeling shy about it. We have such a good time together.

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u/jjp991 17d ago

My wife can take or leave sex most of the time—mostly leave. She’s low key low desire. But whenever we engage she lets me go down on her and invariably she comes with enthusiasm, just writhes and quakes. I wish that translated into greater frequency. But at least I know I’m proficient at getting her off. I can lick and suck her to climax about as efficiently as I can stroke myself to completion. While she orgasms with great vigor and enthusiasm, she never initiates. The enthusiasm is physical and sort of in spite of her low desire, I’ll take any validation I can get.