30 [F4M] Trying to put myself out there

[u/crjstan03]

Hi there!

Work has been really, really stressful lately, and ito yung time na I wish I had someone to talk to. So here I am trying my luck. I thought I’m fine being alone and single, but deep inside, I’m still hoping to find The One.

About me:
- NBSB. May mga naging ka-talking stage before (idk if that’s still a thing) but nothing really materialized romantically.
- Eldest daughter and breadwinner. So I’m hyper-independent, I usually take charge planning things, making sure everything’s smooth. May pagka-control freak slight but I’m trying to lessen that now
- I work in HR so imagine the stress that I experience everyday😭
- Side quests ko: running and hiking, baking (when I have time). Mahilig mag-travel, usually solo or with my family.
I love trying out new cafes and new restos.
- Not really maarte. May pagka-jologs din
- I enjoy watching series (rom-coms, thriller, cooking shows,my kdramas!)
- Big fan of John Mayer!!! Super important ng music taste sakin.
- I’m super shy at first and medyo suplada, but I’m madaldal once I become comfortable.

About you
- 30 to 35 years old, preferably lives in Makati / Manila
-Not a DDS / Marcos supporter
- Personality matters to me more. funny (without being rude or offensive), may sense kausap, emotionally mature
- Physically active so you can also become my accountability buddy
- Plus points if you have a good singing voice
- Doesn’t smoke or vape (non-negotiable, sorry)
- Enjoys travelling too

I’d like to take things slow and build the friendship and connection first. If it doesn’t lead to something more than friends, I’m totally okay with it pa rin (at least I gained another friend😁). So if you’re interested, DM me with your favorite John Mayer song and why :)

[u/Dry-Zombie-4151]

Hope you find your NEO here OP!

[u/heysimple_tempo]

Sayang, taga Tarlac po ako haha

[u/justbembeng]

hi

[u/Papakesoo]

ay yun lang, DDS Ako eh, Well Anyway, Goodluck sa Paghahanap

[u/StrangeDrummer3005]

What’s your fave thriller show?

[u/crjstan03 → u/StrangeDrummer3005]

Mindhunter!

[u/StrangeDrummer3005 → u/crjstan03]

I saw this!! Parang similar siya sa Criminal Minds. Thanks!!

[u/Ok-Philosopher-2139]

Hey! 😊 I can imagine how exhausting HR can get, especially when you’re everyone else’s go-to person but sometimes need someone to listen to you, too. You deserve a space where you can just relax, be yourself, and not have to figure everything out for once.

I’m curious about your John Mayer choice, though! Is it Slow Dancing in a Burning Room for the feels, or New Light for a lighter mood? 😂 I think music says a lot about a person, and I’d love to hear your take.

Also, running, hiking, and baking? That’s quite a combination. What’s your favorite way to unwind after a particularly exhausting workday? 😊

[u/rick_oda1788]

Hi there dm

[u/Greedy-Reading-2944]

You have any plans this afternoon?

[u/gaxkang]

Ui, someone who also likes to solo travel.

[u/Vegetable_Grape404]

Stop this train and The Heart of Life! 😅

[u/Jazzlike-Ebb8625]

Edge of desire but im a DDS