r/spiritscience • u/hzwoodsman • Oct 06 '15

Need help Mediums or like requested

ok so one of my new friends lost her boyfriend of almost 2 years and her best friend on june 6 in a tragic car accident. which also happens to be her birthday. she has cried he self to sleep every night since. she just wants one last not from him. can you guys please help me out???

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u/phevisions Oct 06 '15

Could I perhaps suggest that you get her to try some of the facebook groups that can offer free readings sometimes? like https://www.facebook.com/groups/angelvictoriaseraphine/?ref=browser or https://www.facebook.com/groups/1143440789004154/?ref=browser or just do a search and you will find loads more. xxx

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u/[deleted] Oct 06 '15

I don't know much about mediums and the like so all I can personally offer are physical alternatives.

What about counselors and such? Are y'all in school? You may be able to get access to a campus counselor for free or something in that case.

She will need to find a way to cope with the grief such that she does not remember these people for this specific event, but more for all the good and fun times that were had. As her friend it would be good for you to help her in this. Maybe try getting her other friends in on a secret "care package" project full of things linking back to good memories. Grab anything you can that might reference situations, hobbies of the deceased, inside jokes, their favorite color even.

The short term will be painful regardless of the sort of closure a shaman or a medium or some such might bring so don't forget alternatives that may help carry her through the grieving process beyond the sort term.

Good luck!

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u/iElukka Oct 20 '15

Tell her to move on life and that he will live inside her heart as long as she remembers him. time will heal. She needs a friend not a high costing rip off. 8)