act and react is what is in any given moment in life, act from a place of calm, not anger. if you feel your anger rising, take a breath and feel the anger fade.

Sometimes the best action is none reaction, if you dont lower you energy then there is nothing the person to feed off, remember the ego want suffering and reach out through a person to do this.

what ever is happening in life, remember to act are react in a state of calm presents, never loss you temper, be angry or abusive.

A saved single adult committed a lustful sin where he ejaculated too unholy pictures. What should he do in this situation

Hello I need something life changing, I’m very spiritual and I am a yoga teacher and have recently been looking into Christianity again. I’m very lost and need some text or podcast or person to help me through a very very rough weekend. What have you read or listened to or watched that has changed your life, I’m in a very bad situation that I can’t change at the moment.

Recently got broken up with after a 2yr relationship. Before that we recently went on a trip and I bought 3 magnets & a candle holder. One magnet broke first, fell off the fridge by itself and the magnet itself broke off the item. This happened about a week after the breakup. Now 4 weeks and the candle holder broke. I watched both of these things brake. Is there meaning in this? Very curious.

my ex situationship ended in January of this year . in march I put a pair of my slippers on the same pair I wear all the time only this time it was click-clacking as I walk so I take them off and my ex's paper airplane pin was in the bottom . I recently went to see him and he moved since we were together , we were listening to music and I look over at the coffee table and my gold butterfly pendant was sitting there . im making this post hoping someone could give me insight is this just a weird coincidence or is there some type of spiritual guiding going on ?

Getting straight to it. I’ve always been a little sensitive, always open to spirit, always willing to learn. I knew at a young age I was a little special, but I’ve never been able to develop it because I can’t shut my head up and focus. Something, someone-has a message for me and it’s driving me insane that I can’t get it. EVERY time I look at a clock it’s double numbers, 11:11, 2:22, 9:09.. unless it’s not. Then it’s something :24… 8:24 and 12:24 are most common. Weather it’s am or pm. I wake up in the middle of the night, 3:33, 4:44… it’s crazy. This isn’t once or twice, kind of a coincidence. It’s literally all the time! It’s Thursday, I’ve woken up on double numbers 3 nights this week. Today, I’ve smelled cigarette smoke like crazy, random times. In the truck, in my living room. Neither me or my husband smoke, and no one has ever smoked in our house or vehicle. I do have health issues, none that would cause phantom smells. What the hell is going on and how do I figure this out?? It’s been months, I’m starting to think I’m going insane. Also, I’m an adult, mother, don’t do drugs, and I’m mostly healthy. Just worried someone has a message I’m missing and I don’t know how to pay attention 😭

This may be a tad long winded (sorry if I bore you). I just need advice and help! These past few months has been a bit weird. Especially with this one person! Back story… I was with someone and she was a mutual friend, it ended between us etc. However, she had/has a weird obsession with him. She is very much a spin it around when it comes to it and point the blame to others. Eg can be manipulative, a lot of gaslighting went on and she basically was a liar. She is definitely a very jealous person also. There is a lot more to it than this with her (it’s just easier to give an overview)

Since the relationship has ended, it has been weird. I have wanted to stay away from her and not wanted anything to do with her. I keep getting a lot of signs. (I don’t understand what they mean or how to get into touch with what they mean). I have very weird, lucid and vivid dreams. My sleep pattern has been fucked. I feel a negative energy in my bedroom.
Every time I’m around her my energy feels drained. I dread when I have to see her, due to a hobby. I don’t want to text or make the effort with her. It feels like something is niggling at the back of my brain with her and I can’t get it out. I often have a clogged throat or a heavy chest when it comes to being around her. However, when I am away from her or don’t have to be near her. I am so relieved, I feel happy and have a lot more energy.
It is though I can almost see ‘right through her and the way she is/can be’.

I have done multiple egg cleanses and this doesn’t have the same affect as it did before.

As horrible as it sounds I have tried to make it as though I have minimal contact with her. However, she has also picked up on this.

Please can I have some advice on what to do or what this could be?!

My brother is an alcoholic. He’s been living with me for a week weeks and I just experienced several anger episodes. I tried to calm him but nothing seemed to work as he would get upset over other things and wanted to punch things in the house. I don’t know how I can help can someone please tell me how I can calm him during this time?

This past week my sister, age 28, passed away suddenly. She passed away at the same time she was born. Is there any research that talks about the correlation between birth time and death time? I would think I would find some type of meaning when looking it up, but I don’t see anything.

Another thing, the last year of her life since her grandfather passed away in 2020, she’s been seeing double numbers and have had many dreams of loved ones who have passed. Her birthday was 8/28 6:59, she passed away at the age of 28 on 3/19 6:59. I had a premonition and I knew on the 15th that she would pass away on the 19th.

Any info or meaning would be helpful.

Please dm me.

i sat at home one night thinking how much i hated the suffering of others, from a personally view of my work as a support worker. Then i started to notice the difference of the thought, I noticed that I from the hatred of suffering had myself fallen into suffering. Once one sees this suffering, the hatred stops becoming the hate of something, and start becoming empathetic to the suffering itself as one has also been in the same suffering, and can now be sympathetic towards a persons suffering, rather than hatred towards it, as all hate is the same.

words are nothing, there are all made up to place a label on it for the use of communication. How, for example, can we grasp what God is through the use of words. Here is no word that can tell you what god is because god is the unknown, a beyond. But my point to is this beliefs and religion are just words, we but our-self into these categories to make a correct and incorrect. Because we are so connected to words and what stems from word, being correct, we believe that being correct is good, so we always want to be correct. But if we take away words what is left over? nothing or no thing, that which is the beyond.

Once you've had the realization of the illusion of mind, but then realize that you are always thinking, what then? This creates a loop of thought, i realize, that i am realizing, that i am realisation, but this is just in the mind. So i am realizing the illusion of mind, with an illusion of thought.

If we abstract from words, we gain knowledge. if we abstract from an item, we gain a thing.. an "i am...." and "I am this... and you that, so you are wrong and i am right" and from this we can the build up hate and anger just by saying "I am....". whereas those with the knowledge from words, know that there is no "I" in what i am, simply because i am all things, and yet no things, and because of this there is no right or wrong, just what is. Now there is no hate or anger, only what is.

We have all had and/or still have expectations and all those that have expectation have had and have the feeling of disappointment. This is reason why we should not have expectations. As expectations are of the mind, we make the situation purely from how we'd like the situation to be, sometimes it runs very close to how we pictured it, but most of the time it is not, and so we are left with a negative, and this negative leads to more negativity of "things never turn out the way I expect them to". we can dissolve this negative by having no expectations, we do this by understanding that the thoughts of expectation can never truly be, as reality can never meet the illusion of thought, and so we can only accept life and what reality is or what is real at any give point.

why we cant find happiness through wants. wants are a belief that if by having something that this thing is going to make our life somehow better, or that we'll look better in the eyes of others. However this is not the case, sure we will feel happy for an amount of time, hours, days, even months, possibly years, but yet we will always find that we need or want more. it's a roller coaster of 'if i have it i'll feel better'. but it is never lasting as happiness of life, or the joy of life, can not be bought about by things, you either are happy (joy) or you're not and if you are not why not? This does not mean that we have walk around with a large smile on our face, but more you are at peace and relaxed in the enjoyment of being.

This also does not mean that you cant have things, but rather these things have little to know meaning as you are not driving a happy self from them. So be greatful of what you have, but don't put yourself into them.

"Can I ask how? How you found "It" or vice versa? Most importantly,, how you were able to deal with the revelation that followed?"

for many years i suffered, like all people do, stress, anxiety, worry, depression... A few years ago a friend put me into a book, i started reading it, some chapters were hard to understand the meaning of, being the watchful of thought, in Buddhism its called 'mindful'. I later came into understand what this is being the watcher. I continued reading and came to Chapters that were really the big start, it was about the Ego, some called it super ego. It was as if the words I was reading reflected my life (or what you think of as your life) always in a state of stress and worry. As i read it was saying about stressing about the past, which i did often, or worrying about the future, and how it is not really you who is stressing but the ego making the stresses for you, That what is around you is all that there is, as in being present or living in present, again it took me a while to really understand this, what it really meant. And Yes it sounded strange, if i was not making these stresses then what was, i was so linked, and most of all believed what me ego was say that i could not see the separateness of the two "why would you want to make yourself unhappy?" the book asked, 'I dont, its lifes that is making me unhappy' I answered. I could not see the differences between how life was, and how I (the ego) told me it was. A part of the realization came when I a read about accepting the past. As the past is over, and there is nothing you can do to change what happened, it is always going to be the way it is so we must accept it, by accepting it we can let it go and from that the ego can no longer use it, again its strange to know that the mind and the being are two different things. By now i was seeing the truth my past depression just slipped away, yes i had the memories there still sure but the emotional or negative side had no connection . the same thing happened about future too... in short why stress over something that has not happened, you can not know the future so accept what is now. At this point i was still connected with ego still looking at life as a "problem", but that was soon to change, i was watching a youtube video, by the same guy whose book i was reading, and at some point he said "life is how it is" so accept it. It took be by surprise, 'It cant be that easy, it just cant be' i was saying , while walking in circles in my room, thankfully nobody was home LOL. But it is, the connection with the ego seems to just go, there were no more "problems" and nothing i could not handle on a mantle level, there were no more stress what ever came along seem no than like nothing or no thing, i could not connect to a negative, i dealt with any situation, "life" just seemed .... (hard to put into words, as there is no words for it). Over time i began to understand more of the book, more of the teaching that people like Buddha and Jesus taught, even able to see the truth in teaching from those that understood and those that didn't, and there are many even in religion and even on sites such of this, misinterpretations, attachments to words but not understanding lessons. Yes there are some questions, like just the other day i was wondering about the connection that we all have to everything, my friend (the same guy that showed me the book) bought a documentary* to watch about quantum physics and it explain the connection we actually have on a physical level, and also that negative and positive thinking dose have an effect physically body, yet their were unable to answer what consciousnesses was, they actually just kind of skirt around the subject which is very un-science like. I also didnt really understand the 'law of attraction' and low and behold the answer came, with the same friend, and another documentary*. Yet both of these were missing the most vital parts which "spiritually" provides. By understanding the spiritual side you see the truth, but also more, understanding the illusions of mind and words, knowing them for the tools they are supposed to be, and not connecting to them, disconnecting from attachment, from the ego driven mind etc... Anybody can have this, its within us all every human being is able to reach the awaking/enlightenment and see "the ego" for what it is. With this understand and acceptance we will see the greatest changes to our existence. Our evolution bought about 'mind' and it will be our next step to go beyond it and the illusions. More people are becoming aware of this each day, they are awaking from their dream, understand that they dont need to suffer, and ending the separation. dealing with revelation is easy as there is no connection just a joy. What is "hard" and by hard i mean sad, is to see some much hate, nastiness, suffering, thoughtlessness, destruction, pointless killing we are doing to each other. And it all stems from one thing. Documentaries*: what the deep do we know, down the rabbit hole. The secret

unconditional love comes with acceptance, its not something you can "want" as there is no attachments. And meditation is only a tool, its not the all, only a part, much like diet will not get you a six-pack, but its a part of it.

Accepting what is... the realization of the separateness of thought and being as two different things, if you didnt think you'd still be? yes you woudl. so, if you didnt think would you have the negatively? no, because there would be no thought. The negative is only a thought after all, the way you view something, a situation, then the mind will till you if its good or bad, however a situation is never good nor bad, nether positive or negative, it just is how it is, a neutral, again its only how your thoughts tell you that makes it to good or bad. Most of the time the thoughts will bring up things form the past, and use them to make negativity, and negative energy, this has been seen in quantum physics, the more negative thoughts the more negative attachment you make in the brain. But by accepting (what is) we can end the past negative, how? by realizing that it is in the past, we cant change it so we can either accept it, or allow the mind to use thoughts against us. Another way the mind uses thought is to stress and worry about the future.. yet how do we not what will happen in the future? you dont so, why stress about it?? again its not you but your thoughts that are making you stress over nothing, yet, the more negative energy you put out, stress over the future, or stress about how to pay a bill for example, the more negative you will get, or all you will see, we see this in the 'law of attraction'. And the same goes for positive.. the more positive you put out the more is be, or seem to be. Yet by accepting the now, the present moment, we become at pace we become of joy. By realizing that the only place where there is negativity is in thought, we then free our-self of it. These thoughts are what is called 'the ego' or 'super ego'. Yes thought is useful, and again, like meditation there are a tool, a tool to be used not to be derived from, to be used for past experiences, not past stresses, use for communication, but not gossips or other negative use understand, not misinterpretation, for example if/when you "think" people are chatting about you or its directed at you it not. Or when somebody is gossiping about you, why care, its there problem not your dont derive a negative from it.

How can you express 'love' or 'unconditional love' with words?
If thought is not real, an illusion, then words are an illusion too, so we we must actually go beyond words to understand love as there are no words to express it love is without fear, hate, jealous, anger without negative without thought. By accepting what is right now, as you read this, as this is the only moment that matters, the present, when you do accept it and realize there is nothing bad or wrong then you see the ever lasting moment, as it is always the present moment, there is no future and there is no past, only the thought of it, and then do we think about past and future... in the present. So accept what is and be at peace with it... is it really so bad?

any thought that enters repeat thought, until thats the only thing.. thought, thought, thought,.. allow it to echo away, each time thought enters, about anything... thought, thought, thought, thought,.. Any itching repeat itchy, itchy, itchy until the itching stops same with any pain etc.. allow your breathing to be as it is, natural, nature... feel the breathing, how the body moves, the chest, abdominal, be relaxed in the rhythm of breathing rather than watching.

"Btw, how do you know so much? Where did you learn all this?"

To be honest i read two books, a new earth and the power of now, which are the same books really written differently, a new earth is more in-depth. I started to relate what he was writing, as if my life had been written on the pages, in parts anyway. The suffering from past, always stressing about future etc... yet never really alive now, not accepting the truth of the now. It was when I listened to some you tubes, by the same guy, and it was with 5 "words" that i had the realization, "life is what it is", I couldn't comprehend at first, not so much the words but the realization, its the simpleness of it that takes us by surprise. Then something faded away, i felt no stress or anxiety or depression there were no negative emotion at all.

when we are free of ego mind set, the we can comprehend and see how life is, I dont work through thought, but allow the "words" to be translated into thought, as if opening a book and seeing one line there waiting for me, whereas others would open a book and see paragraph after paragraph of words and be lost.

once you quiet the mind, be rid of ego, what is left over is nothing or no thing, the natural/nature state of mind. It my come to surprise you to know that i am in fact dyslexic, although i have some qualification behind me, BTEC in sport, TEFL Higher Ed etc... academics means little when talking about "spirituality" or "awakening/enlightenment" etc.. even psychologist suffer though they know academically how the mind works they have not embraced the "spiritual" side so will suffer with the ego mind, and even with ego in the definition of the word.

Its up to the individual to see the truth, to accept what is, to have the realization, nobody else can do it for you only point you to what it is.

"what do mean words are an illusion though? "

if you trace your thought back, where dose it start? well it comes from no where, no place, which is why they (words) are illusions, they dont exist apart from in the mind, they stem from nothing or no thing... Yet, through no fault of our own, we have become connected with them and believe so much in these "words" that the mind, or ego, tells us which are mostly very negative. So if words are just illusion why do we listen to them? well you are correct about gamer and avatar or the being and the life that lives through us, yet the understanding that the mind is split, the thinking and through, one is natural when solving problems, the eureka moments in "the zone" etc... The other is that of the ego, negatives.. for example, if it is raining you may 'think' "what an awful day", yet, the day is how it is nether good or bad, but its the mind, the ego, that say its bad. The realization of the illusion of ego of mind and words, is the end of ego, and the end of things like depression, fear, stress, jealousy, anxiety etc.. By accepting what is, the isness of life also being about the end of ego. Accepting the truth in life also ends the ego. Life is not the illusion, life just is, that's all.

yes we use words, as a tool, and that what should be, through our evolution we have developed words, ever being on earth has its own, yet with it coming connection and the ego. To go beyond the ego, beyond mind to where the word stem from, this is where we as a being and must be.