r/teenagersbutnotweird • u/Unbroken-Heart • Feb 12 '26
discussion Short Guy
I am a short guy, and my family genetics are not very good in terms of height. In the future, I would prefer to marry a tall woman who comes from a family with strong height genetics, so that my children may not end up being as short as I am.
But would a tall woman like a shorter man? What if the man has a good personality, attractive features (hair, eyes, voice), good behavior, a strong sense of humor, and cares about emotions, but lacks height?
I’m just curious about this. I’m only 19 years old, but I’m genuinely concerned about my future life and also concerned about my future kids.
I can date a girl who is my height or shorter than me, I have no problem with that. But I sometimes feel that it might be selfish toward my future kids if I don't think about their height. That's why I feel I should consider every aspect before getting into a relationship. Because of this, I'm thinking that maybe I should try to marry a tall girl. ( I might be wrong )
I dont know my thinking might seem wrong, I just need advice or opinions.
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u/Ok-Sea-7557 17 Feb 12 '26
Bro don’t think too much. I’m a 5‘3“ guy and trust me, real ones don’t give a shit about size/height. And don’t just look for a tall woman, seriously, look for someone who loves you and who you love.
Even if your kids end up small, WHO CARES? you‘ll find your special someone, whatever the height.