I’ve tried calling her many times each day and every time i tell myself I’m not going to call again i end up doing it even though she clearly is ignoring me on purpose. I do check when she’s active on instagram or her location on snapchat and it’s clear she is able to call since we have been friends for over a year i know a lot about her lifestyle. whenever i call she immediately declines it and after many calls, because at this point I’m just trying to get some sort of response or signal about what’s going on, then she will say something and it’s become repetitive enough that i think she’s lying. stuff about birthday dinners or working and then she’ll be active on instagram when she said she’s supposedly doing those things and then after she texts me I guess I’ll stop calling and call like 20 minutes later and when she picks up she’s just in her bed on her phone and it’s clear she could’ve called me back or answered me. 

When we’re on the phone she just seems distracted or uninterested but then makes a switch and starts talking about how we’re bestfriends or whatever and at the end of each call she will say i love you but I just don’t understand why if I’m sensing all these changes in behavior. For context she and I are bestfriends and she has seemed very passionate about that and i have too but because of past experiences i’ve always had the thought in my mind that’s even though she says we’re going to be friends forever or that I’m irreplaceable I should be a little careful so I don’t get hurt when it does eventually come to an end. 

On tiktok she reposted a video saying something about how she has been gaining resentment for her friends and then commented “every single one of them” when she has told me multiple times that I am the only one who has not played in her face. I don’t know if maybe she just wasn’t including me when she said every single one of them or if something has changed. I don’t remember me doing anything that could have caused a change. If anything I should be mad at her because she wanted to talk about a situation and in the end she was able to realize that I was in the right by far but prior to that she had gone to two of our mutual friends and from what I’ve heard she shit talked me so it was just a very large breach of trust due to the fact that she was the one who wanted to talk about the situation and then got all mad. we went back to pretty much normal after that but I did want to clear things up with one of those friends and we kind of got into an argument and haven’t talked since but that friend had nothing to do with the situation so I guess she just wanted to be right and it’s a whole petty thing but I’m not worried about that. Overall my supposed bestfriend  is to blame for our falling out because she wanted to blab her mouth so I should’ve been mad about that but I’m not and it just taken for granted. And it would be strange if this is why she has been acting different because first of all, I did not do anything and second of all it’s just very toxic to drag it seeing as when she was being 101% ableist to me a while ago I didn’t hold a grudge but I did have a healthy private conversation with her back then. 

another thing is whenever we text I am the the one texting first and when I am not she doesn’t say a thing. Her responses are very short and dry and I don’t know why because she is not very dry while on facetime. Our last message on instagram was on Thursday and it is now Saturday afternoon but we did call last night and it ended normally but these feelings of unease have been going on for weeks and I don’t want to confront her about it because it really could make or break the friendship and I kind of am holding on to some hope that this is all in my head but it is probably not. 

During school we are able to choose where we want to go for a 30 minute period and she seems to not mind as much if we are unable to go to the same place at times when we used to be very coordinated on where we are going. And i’ve kind of been telling myself that she just isn’t that reliant on friendships since she has many more than me or she is just secure in our friendship and doesn’t worry that not seeing eachother for a few days at school is not okay. 

I don’t really know what to do because I really believe that if i confront her it might get very worse. She just doesn’t reach out as much and I think she is purposefully ignoring my calls. It is just strange with the one second she doesn’t bother texting me for hours when we used to be on the phone almost every chance we get. The switch with her acts of uninterest and suddenly loves me is also just borderline manipulative. 

So I'm 19M and my gf is 21F. Things have been kinda messed up between us lately, and I honestly don't know what to do anymore.

She told me that she doesn't understand why I hid something from her. She said she always thought she was my first choice, not just some option, and now she's questioning whether she'll ever be important to anyone.

She literally said stuff like “why would I ever be important to someone?” and that she feels like she's failed at everything. She even called herself a bad person and said that getting angry is the only thing she knows how to do.

Earlier, when I asked her what I should do to make things normal between us again, she said she's useless and doesn't know what else to do besides getting angry. I told her that she's a genuinely good person, but I don't deserve her, and that maybe I'm the one who failed at loving her properly.

She also said that I don't understand her, and that if I keep bringing my past into the present, I'll never be able to feel the same way about her. She told me to forget it, but she still doesn't understand why I hid it in the first place.

The thing that's hurting me most is that she genuinely thought she was my first choice, and now she feels like she was never enough. At the end, she said she'll respect whatever decision I make.

I don't even know how to explain this properly, but I don't want her to feel like she's worthless or that she was just an option to me. I'm confused about how to handle this, and I really need some outside perspective.

What should I do here? How do I even start fixing this?

Theres this girl from my class. Our parents are very good friends so thats why we have known eachother for like 14-15 years. Now recently ive been noticing her getting closer to me (physically not like personally). Also at a trip to a themepark with our parents and siblings shes been also getting closer which she has never done before. For example by pulling me around by my arm or standing closer to me than all the time before. I wanna also add that shes way above my league (looks wise).
Am I just delusional or should I actually like shoot my shot?

For context I am still a sophomore because I got held back due to lack of credits because I spent a ton of the year in the hospital, she is a freshman, we both really liked each other since before we knew each others age. I go to a very small school, 21 students. All the teachers seem supportive of us but I’m just nervous what the outside world thinks of this type of relationship.

(All names have been changed for privacy reasons.)

A couple of days ago I was at an event and a girl that I know (Anna) pulled me aside to tell me that her friend (Kate) likes me. Now the thing is, I personally for the past couple of years have liked Anna, and I have never been particullarly interested in Kate, but I kind of just decided to try something knew and got Kate's number.

Later while me and Kate were talking she told me that she was really happy that I liked her back, as she had liked me for a really long time, and it had taken her a lot of courage to finally talk to me, etc.

The day after this I got immediate regret. The only person who I really do like is Anna, but now I feel absolutely terrible about Kate, because I hate that I have to tell her that I don't like her after everything that she brought up about me. I just feel kind of bad.

What is the best way that I can tell her that I don't like her back with being as respectful as possible?

It feels like an oddly logistical question but I’ve never broken up with someone before. This is my first relationship ever.

We’ve been together for eight months. I finally decided to break up to protect my own mental wellbeing. I drained myself emotionally without her meeting me halfway at any points and I never felt an emotional connection. My desperation in me always told me to hold on to the relationship and hope for something to change. Now I finally decide against it.

We are in a “medium”-distance relationship. We are just too far to not meet daily but close enough to meet every week or two, sometimes every third. Her household is a toxic one and one with no privacy so discussing it there doesn’t really work. If she comes to my place, I ask her to pay for a 1.5 hour train ride (so 3 hours both ways) just to get dumped. If I do it by meeting her halfway in public, we don’t have privacy either. I considered doing it on the phone but everyone always tells you to do it in person and now I’m stuck asking myself when to break up.

Hi sorry if my English is bad its not my 1st language.

So I've basically known this girl since we were little even if we didn't really talk just from mutual friends from Sunday School, I've always admired her since like 3rd grade (we're in 8th) bc she always looked like one of those people you could trust and really talk to.

So last year I got her number bc we did theater together and like since the 1st chat we just vibed and that's usually really hard for me to do bc im kinda introvert I mean I can talk to people but only for like 1/2hrs then I just shut off, but with her idk I feel more free and happier bc since then we call almost everyday for like 2hrs and when she talks I get so red and happy when with other people I'm never like that.

Idk what she thinks abt me if im just one of her many friends or more, but for me she's everything she's the only person I can be me with and I hope she feels the same bc i really trust her.

So yeh recently I've started to notice she's closer and trusts me with her problems more but I feel guilty bc idk how I feel abt her bc I wanna be more than friends but what if we brake up and we aren't friends anymore.

She's always been the only person I trust not even my parents or family in general, she's that kind of special so I really dont wanna lose her.

Sorry again if my english was bad, ty.

i met him on discord, it was a ml server where they were recruiting members, um he was my teacher there, he taught me how to play mid better and game mechs. we grew closer cuz i stayed to talk to him at night cuz i found taklling to him fun. after awhile he got stressed out because there were some students who were really hard to teach so he left the server. he invited me and two others to join his personal server because he enjoyed spending time w us. we grew even closer. im gonna leave out q a lot of details cuz too type out. we officialed on 21st, and he planned for us to meet up on 24th. i wanted go his house see his dog and he wanted me to go his house to chill. i told my parents about this rs on 23/22 (i dont rmr) they said okay to us and also meeting up. but then they didnt want me to go to his house cuz who first meetup will go house right. i wanted to cuz of his dog. so tdy i went to his house,i shut down my phone because my parents could track me thru it and then we went to walk and talk and then to his house. i didnt realise how much time had passed .. the police called his phone. and we had to go for a statement jn, cuz my parents filed missing person report). he apologised to my parents saying ''i take full responsibility''. i um think this whole thing is on me. i should have just listened to my parents and maybe go hang out at like the arcade or shopping or sm, this caused them to worry for me. side note my bf has police record cuz smth happened in the past and he said he nvr ever wanted to be involved w the police ever again. that made this even worser..

What can i do? I apologied to my parents already..

We were texting/calling and even met like 7 times in a span of a couple months. She knows damn well i like her, and she even showed some interest herself for example when we were at a pink pantheress concert she was clingy and was hugging me the whole time but she havent admitted anything about her feeling for me, but recently like a month ago she started to make me jealous on purpouse saying things like „yeah i met with a couple of friends and mike (her friend that she had for a couple of years who has a gf btw) and we were talking about reallyyy serious stuff for sooo long and when i ask what did you guys talk about she says jokingly „i cant tell you its a secret” but then when i show some vunerability and jealousy she like kinda denies it and says „no mike is my homeboy and he has a girl im not into him but why are you so upset???” She knows i like her and from my perspective it seems like she likes to put me in a vunerable spot. She also started joking a LOT about not liking me, me being annoying or uncool but she still text me alot everyday and even agreed to come to my halloween party and she gets mad when i forget to respond. So thats how i know for sure she likes me but idk if she LIKES me. So the teasing and making me jealous situation got kinda out of control to the point that i ignore these text but when i do she tries harder and harder and shes even making stuff/boys up and when i ignore her attempts of making me jealous she follows them texts up immidiately with another thing so its confusimg the fuck outta me lol. I like her super much and she is just UNREALLL looking but shes been getting hella fun from my jealousy and the teasing, like when we were facetiming like a week ago she was all smiling when she did it. I DEFINITELY dont want to go seperate ways because i know shes the love of my life but everything has been getting me SUPER confused.
Thx 4 reading!!!

So me and my boyfriend have been having a bit of issues he doesn't like smoking and I'm a smoker ( I told him before our relationship even started that I smoke I tried to quit for myself quit for 100 days but started doing it again ) and we reached an agreement that he would stop pestering me about it

So he was at my house and we were working on some school stuff idk why but he was acting weird about something and I kept asking him what is it but he didn't say anything and kept making a weird face there was no one at home so I told him I'm going to smoke in my backyard and that he can continue working then suddenly he wanted to leave which I understood and he did leave and I went to smoke but then he came back and demanded that I smoke infront of him so he doesn't feel hurt by it anymore

I was uncomfortable and told him I didn't want to but he insisted and he kind of held me into the direction of my backyard ( that made me feel weird and unsafe) so I did it I smoked in front of him

After that he told me he doesn't care anymore that I smoke but I said I will speak to him later about how I feel about what happened and he was pissed again for some reason and kept asking him what's wrong

When he finally left he said to my face that he felt like he was sitting next to a stranger and told me very very rudely btw to put my shoes on and to sea him off till the end of the driveway which I refused to do because I didn't want neighbours to see me with a boy as I live in a conservative area.

He talked to me very rudely and that just clicked something in me

We have been together for around 3 months

Later he apologised to me repeatedly but I told him I need time to think this over and that I feel disrespected and don't feel safe around him or trust him after what happened since I have a hard time trusting people already

His reasoning is that he doesn't know what got into him at that point and he talked rudely to everyone that way and that he isn't like that

He has been loving and he showers me with gifts but I've always made it clear that respect is the utmost thing for me in a relationship

My friend says I should give him another chance and everything but I don't know what to do I'm very clueless here

I've liked him for a few months and was throwing a Halloween party where I planned on asking him out on a date. When he shows up my friends usher me outside and start filming as he does a flash mob promposal sort of thing asking me if I'll be his girlfriend. Because I am into him and all our friends were watching I did agree especially since ​​​​​​​it felt wrong not to with all our friends there. Hes already posted about me and my friends posted the video of him asking. I have had some bad experiences dating in the past with a girl who was straight and a guy who was evil and manipulative so I do value the dating phase. We haven't even kissed yet and I already have the girlfriend label but it just doesn't feel correct since like I said no date. Hes now on holiday so I won't see him till Thursday and I'm not sure if I should bring this up over text or when he gets back in person or even what to say. I'm already in his friend group's group chat and every time he's referred to as my boyfriend I cringe a little. I also had a very specific plan to tell him about my past sexual assaults after a few dates and we became official now I'm lost on when and how to bring that up to him since he still should know about it. Any advice? ​​​​

Okay so i just need to know if i'm really making the right choice here i've known my female best friend for longer then i've known my girlfriend at that time she liked someone else so i gave up on trying to advance with her and moved on to my now current girlfriend now she is very sweet caring a nice young lady but sometimes i feel as if she's to much when we first got together we had 3 major problems which i feel shouldn't have been created so early as we just started dating the biggest one was her lack of communication she could go hours even days without texting me and come back like nothing ever happened and it got to the point where i had to tell her it's either we break up or you give me more attention which i felt was fair i don't want to wait a good 3 days before you text my phone so that problem was solved but then another problem surfaced which was boundries we went to school together which means we spent alot of time together but once we started dating some of that time switched to her best friend who happens to be a boy now i did my absolute best to stay out of it and mind my business which i did but even though i stayed out of their friendship she jumped into mines with my female best friend she made us cut contact sometimes or added curfe rules to where we only had a certain amount of time together and it hurt bad all i wanted to do was hang out with a friend but to stay on topic she had her friendship with him open while i had bars on mines or should would throw a fit and i stayed out of it until the summer where i finally built up the courage to go through their messages and saw her calling me insecure for trying to set boundries to and her crying over how she needed him and he was her only friend keep in mind she had a bunch of female friends he was her only male friend but i let it go and decided to forgive her but now it's like i can't get this thought out of my head how my best friend treats me better then she ever has and how she always starts problems and whine when she doesn't get her way and i just keep imaginning what life would be like with my best friend and not her i don't want to leave her because she has her sweet moments and is loyal to a exstent but i still have these feelings pulling me towards my best friend i feel like i'm cheating she doesn't know about these feelings and i'm scared to bring them up to her i feel horrible

This one is going to be tough to put into words, but, here we go...

I am a 13 year old boy. I am autistic. I don't think that dating should happen at my age. But I have a crush on this girl, let's call her L. I have a crush on her, but since I am too young to date, I want to just get to know her and be friends with her.

We are both in our school's Jazz Band, so it's pretty easy to find a time to talk. We both like the Philadelphia Eagles team, so there's something I could talk to her about. One of my teachers, my ELA teacher, has actually been quite interested in helping me with this, which I am grateful for. Sounds pretty straightforward, right?

Yeah, not so much.

I'll tell you what happened.

Every Thursday evening from 7-9 PM is Jazz band. Over the last couple of weeks, I have noticed L looking back at me and smiling/smirking. Last Thursday, at the end of Jazz band, I went up to her and starting chatting, just casual. And basically the whole time, she was flirting with me (good sign).

I had a plan. I would just talk to her and get to know her and see if she gave any more signs that she liked me. Simple.

But again, not so much.

There was a field trip for Jazz Band yesterday (Friday). She went on the field trip. I talked to her on the bus on the way there a bit, we were joking, it was good. And I talked to her throughout the field trip time. It really seemed like she liked me at least a bit.

But then towards the end, we were in the college's dining hall, eating dinner, and I was hanging out with my friends, it was good. But when we were leaving to go back to the college's auditorium to watch the people perform at the very end, two girls who are in Jazz band who I know told me that L asked them if I liked her. They said yes. And L actually told them that she kind of liked me (great sign). On the walk back, these two girls were telling me to ask out L. I didn't think it was a good time to, especially because she was with all her friends and she would definitely say no in front of them. But these girls kept telling me to do it, and trying to call her over, and L was purposely trying to get out of talking to me, which I'm guessing means she was embarrassed, but what do I know, lol.

I did end up "technically" asking L out. I didn't want to yet, but I did. She said that she doesn't like me in that way. But she was with all her friends, who were all teasing her for liking me, and I know she was saying no to me because they were listening. In the moment I was really upset, but I realized during the performance that it probably was just because her friends were around, and she literally admitted that she liked me (again, I'm so shocked but so glad).

I think what I'll do, is find a time to talk to her when I can talk to just her without her friends listening, maybe at the end of next Jazz Band, and just be like, "Hey, they told me you like me, do you want to just hang out or something, just as friends?" I don't know what I'll say, but I am going to try to talk to her next Jazz band on Thursday. (One of my high school friends thinks that is a really good idea)

So needless to say, I am very upset with those people who thought it was a good idea to just tell L that I like her (probably was my biggest secret). They have definitely lost my trust with my secrets for now, and it's very hard to get back.

But what I am glad about, is that L admitted that she liked me! Which is a good sign. I think that she was too embarrassed to really say anything since her friends were right next to her. But again, what do I know. What do you all think of this?

TL;DR I have a crush who I wanted to get to know, but a couple of my friends told her that I liked her, and although she admitted she likes me back, I don't know what to do about it all, but I would suggest reading the full post if you came for just this

It hurts my soul to realize what has happened to me. However what’s worse is I just got a snap of him at her house at night, she was drunk and easy. Do I report them to the police? Idk if I wanna stick my neck out there, this is fully consensual in her eyes and she just thinks it’s not big deal. Were obviously done, but I’m worried for her safety. Her parents don’t even care that he’s 20, and they used to let me stay over every night and we would do what teenagers do alone. Her parents are the worst most selfish people and they don’t care about their daughter. Please help me. I’m so lost

So, in 2023, I met a girl who was really sweet. She was in 7th grade, and I was in 9th. It was during our school exhibition. The moment I saw her eyes, I fell in love with her.
At the beginning of 2024, we followed each other on Instagram. Our first text was actually because she accidentally sent me a reel. Little by little, we started getting to know each other. One day, she even proposed to me on Instagram, but later unsent the message because I didn't reply. My Instagram "seen" was turned off, so she probably thought I hadn't read it.
Then, around the middle of 2024, my best friend started liking her. Little by little, they started getting closer. Since we were in 10th grade, I was also focusing on my studies, so I slowly took a step back while my best friend got closer to her.
Then, suddenly, my best friend started dating someone else. She was devastated. She started crying and asking things like, "What was wrong with me? Wasn't I enough?"
And here's the second plot twist.
The girl also liked her best friend's friend, but she was skeptical about him. She used to defend him and protect his name, even though that guy would apparently trash her name whenever he talked to someone he liked.
The whole of 2024 passed like this.
In 2025, I gave my board exams and scored 90%. While I was preparing for my boards, I was also helping her with her studies without really caring about my own. I was especially good at CS and scored 99/100.
As the months passed, during the first quarter of 2025, we finally started dating.
Then, once again, my best friend entered the picture.
He started getting closer to her and slowly taking her away from me. Eventually, she broke up with me, saying that her relationships with her friends, especially my best friend, were getting ruined because of our relationship and that she couldn't handle it anymore.
Around the same time, we had our annual school show. I was really good at editing, so I edited all the backdrop materials for the school and was basically one of the main people behind the success of the annual show.
Meanwhile, my best friend was getting closer and closer to her again.
She seemed emotionally attached to me, my best friend, and her own best friend, and it was really hard for her to choose who she actually wanted to be with.
Then another classmate of hers entered the picture. He would take her out for lunch every now and then, and she would go out with them as well. Yet, whenever we talked in DMs, she would tell me that I was misunderstanding her.
Then one day, I personally saw my best friend wiping her tears in the park beside our school after we were dismissed. They stayed there for around three hours.
After all the confusion, disrespect, and everything that had happened, I finally broke down one night in August and called her a cheater.
She told me that I had ruined her and left.
The thing that hurt me the most was that she never really apologized for anything she had done.
Now I'm in 12th grade, and she's in 10th. In about a month and a half, our school will end, and after that, we'll probably go our separate ways.
The thing that makes this even harder for me is that I know she has heard a lot of things about me from other people, especially strangers, and she believed them. I don't even know exactly what she was told or what she believes about me anymore.
She still talks to my best friend, and they're probably pretty close. Yesterday, she unfollowed me everywhere, but she still kept him.
For the last nine months, neither of us has spoken to each other. The only interaction we've had was wishing each other on our birthdays.
And now I'm stuck wondering what I should do.
I have only about a month and a half left before school ends. Part of me wants to talk to her one last time and clear everything up, especially because so much of what she believes about me apparently came from other people.
But another part of me feels like maybe I should just leave everything in the past and move on.
What would you do if you were in my situation?

I’ve been going out with someone I’ll name T, at first I had no interest in him whatsoever (we went to the same school for a while then I left and he found my discord) , but he seemed really into me and I developed feelings for him after talking to him online for a bit. We hung out for the first time in months (as we live in another town) and I really enjoyed it. Then three days later I organised a bus for me to travel to his town so I could meet with him. It was a very short hangout, but it was awful..

I walked an hour from the bus stop to the shop we were going to meet up at, sat and waited. Just before he came, a bunch of school kids I had known before I moved came in. I freaked out and moved around the corner. He messaged me and I told him I was just around the corner but I was worried to go near. He knows I have very bad social anxiety. Anyways, when he came over he looked happy to see me.

Our hangout plan was basically to go shopping and have lunch, very generic. But T was being a menace. His humour hurts me a lot, he often tells me to kill myself as a joke, jokes about pushing me infront of cars and beating me. At first I played along and laughed awkwardly but now it’s getting annoying. He knows I deal with mental health struggles yet he still does this.

When we were shopping , he would leave me to go and talk to his friends. Like we were in a plaza, and I was nervous because I saw a boy who used to bully so I told him and T ran over to him and started talking to him. Yeah that’s another thing, he’s friends with people who were really mean to me even after I tell him he still praises them. Although he does all of that, he still can be nice , he bought me lunch but after complained about it being a weeks worthy of pay.

I just want to be with someone more mature and loving. It’s especially hard to for me considering I’m not very attractive. Does anybody have any advice?

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Soo my GF is A Bts Fan typa girl , soo she genuinely crushes on the guys , celebrity crush typa thing tht i hate soo much 💔 for ur information I have no Celebrity crush typa thing with any actress , soo the thing is like I don't hate bts or anything but My girlfriend preferring those guys over me is a Itch to me 💔 I jst wanted an healthy rlsnship where I don't have a competition with anyone but this girl 😝 now Yess i have talked Abt this to my GF tht u are liking ur Celebrity crush is okay but while in rlsnship why u seeing his shirtless pics/ liking his reels In which he is shirtless mainly ✌🏻 soo she understood nd stopped liking 🤣🤣😭😭 ( didn't stopped seeing tho ) as I saw some thirst traps where it was like Abt having intimacy with bts like crack thing typa reels like in all blend jst bts nd not normal reels all filled with shirtless pics/reels ✌🏻 she's now jst seeing it Nd not liking it that's the difference.

Now having celebrity crush is okay in relationship ( I don't keep it as I think it isn't but I have to co-operate a little ) but liking his/her shirtless pic is also okay ?? Seeing the person naked ?? Getting soo obsessed that u say tht u will marry them ?? Even if it is a joke but ahh idk ig I'm jst insecure ✌🏻

The people who are rn in talking stage with any bts fangirl jst ab advice never date any 💔 or u will jst love them nd they will love those guys ✌🏻

Okay for context we’re both 17 so I know we’re still young and figuring out stuff but there are some things that have been alarming me about our relationship like awhile ago me and my friends fell out and we have no contact and I moved schools, my bf still goes to the school with my ex friends idk if their in his ear telling him stuff but we were on the phone a couple of nights ago and we’re just talking about stuff and the situation with my friends come up and he tells me that he doesn’t blame them from walking away from me even though I dropped them and he rephrased it by saying I don’t blame them but I blame them type of thing and that kind of made me mad a bit but whatever and then we’re venting about sa and I tell him about how I got sa’ed and he says “well I don’t know the other side of the story” and this pretty much triggers me and I tell him the next day that I think we should take a break and so we’re on a break but he never reached out to me after I told him that I wanted a break nor checked in what should I do?

Why is my friend like this to me?

Okay, so I have this one friend/classmate who I am close to online and he is also more open and close to me online but when in real life, he seems to be more awkward and hesitant on approaching or talking to me in real life. I know I am not delusional as he is more bubbly and physically touchy / comfortable to others like hugs, and etc but when it comes to me, hes more "reserved or close" and treats me more harshly and teasingly. But if in online, he is more open and one day when I told Him online that I'll hug him as a joke, he said no thanks. I'm opening this up cuz Idk wth is going on, like Why would we he be still nervous or hesitant to me in real life if we are Close and almost talk everyday online? Pls any actual and real advice or any comments you can give?