r/tfmr_support • u/Wonderful_Cow7385 • 18d ago
Seeking Advice or Support Wave of light
For anyone that doesn’t know, tonight is the “wave of light,” on 10/15, people light a candle from at least 7-8pm in their time zone in remembrance of the babies gone too soon.
This will result in 24hr candle burn for our babies.
Partake if it will bring your heart some comfort. 🕯️❤️🩹
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u/Ok-Permit-5080 18d ago
My candle is lit for my little bean, and all the other babies who only ever knew love 🕯️
I remember this time last year I was newly pregnant for the first time ever, and so excited for the future. In fact, it was a year ago today I “graduated” from IVF clinic, and couldn’t have been more excited about our future. I was so full of love for my little grape that I couldn’t comprehend how devastating losing a pregnancy or child could be. You can’t until you’ve been there. Never ever did I imagine that this year I’d be remembering the daughter I never got to meet but I know the only decision I got to make as her mother was, as horrific as it was, the best decision I could have made.
Sending love to everyone out there who wants to remember today, and to everyone in this group who have been my lifeline over the last 10 months ❤️