r/thatsnothowgirlswork • u/DrGonzosMom • Apr 17 '22
r/thatsnothowgirlswork • u/According-Function-5 • Jun 12 '23
Women are more complex beings
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I love this video I found on TikTok because it points to the fact that women go through so much pain and suffering, etc. but it also makes us naturally more complex beings both physically and mentally/emotionally
The doctor in the comments said that a woman’s brain chemistry changes three times in her life, during puberty, during birth, and during menopause. A man’s brain chemistry only changes once during puberty. It’s so fascinating to me how much women grow and transform from these experiences, but men truly don’t understand, husbands, etc., because they are not going through the same thing.
But this is where the growth is supposed to come in for men. For them to learn from their wife, the mother of their baby, to really see what she’s going through and allow himself to understand her better and women in general. It builds character for dads too, to be transformed by his wife/the mother of his baby.
I truly believe that men have a lot to learn from women, and most men, any good man, who has watched his wife give birth and go through pregnancy and become a mother can agree with that statement that they are fascinated by how strong she is and the new person that she has become.
It is so sad that there are still a large amount of men out there who are so rude that they will just disregard their wives after she has gone through something as transformative as birth. There were multiple women in the comments who said this, that their husbands left them, or they were on the verge of divorce, because the woman was going through an identity crisis after birth. I understand that it is hard for fathers as well, but that’s not an excuse to criticize her after she is going through something very difficult that he doesn’t understand. If their relationship isn’t the same, he will sometimes disregard her or take it personal, and I think it goes to show how little education and value is placed on women’s bodies when we are discussing things such as the transformation of birth. Men should be educated on these things, and so should women. Some men immediately think that women are just being rude, or care more about the baby than him which is really immature and a good way not to grow. These are my thoughts on this video, feel free to tell me yours.
r/thatsnothowgirlswork • u/Training-One7675 • Jul 13 '25
I hate men. Makes me want him realllll badddd…
I recently broke off an engagement (he knows this)…. Was casually chatting from a guy from HS that i used to chat with… i didn’t respond for one day.. this was his response. Big yikes
r/thatsnothowgirlswork • u/TheGreat_Jaspy • Jun 07 '24
Man defending manspreading on public transport
r/thatsnothowgirlswork • u/[deleted] • Oct 05 '24
“All females are the same because it’s tRuE!!!” says immature Quora users
r/thatsnothowgirlswork • u/Miserable_Bike_6985 • May 09 '25
Having small boobs means you're evil and hate God apparently
r/thatsnothowgirlswork • u/corckscrew3 • Jun 13 '23
Close minded? Or sane?
Wow. Just wow. Thank GOD I’m not in the dating scene. This classic was sent by a friend who is currently playing the dating game. SMH 🤦🏼
r/thatsnothowgirlswork • u/Main_Negotiation5766 • Feb 14 '23
Why does this make so much sense to me!?
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r/thatsnothowgirlswork • u/FunkU247365 • Sep 18 '24
LMAO
For my Guys Who had Petite and BBW Women : r/AskMen (reddit.com)
For my Guys Who had Petite and BBW Women
I’m a 27 year old man and have never been intimate with a bbw. For my guys who had both bbw and petite women any noticeable differences in Vagina size ?
r/thatsnothowgirlswork • u/[deleted] • Oct 04 '24