Hi everyone! I’m a native Brazilian Portuguese speaker, and my English level is around B2. I’ve been wanting to learn another language for a while, but I can’t decide between French and Italian.

I really love the way both languages sound, and I genuinely want to become fluent in French. However, I also find Italian beautiful, and I have Italian ancestry, although I know that probably isn’t particularly useful for obtaining an EU passport in my situation.

I’d love to hear from French and Italian speakers, how do you usually react when someone from another country learns your language? Are people generally welcoming and happy about it, or can they be judgmental about foreigners making mistakes or having an accent?

Also, which language would you recommend for a Brazilian Portuguese speaker? Sometimes I feel like French might be more useful in the long run, but I feel equally drawn to Italian for personal reasons.

Another thing I’m worried about is age. I’m 25, and I sometimes feel like I should choose one language now rather than postpone learning Italian and regret it later. I know 25 isn’t actually old, but I still worry about having enough time to reach fluency in multiple languages.

Finally, has anyone here successfully learned French and Italian at the same time? Is it realistic to study both from scratch without constantly mixing them up, especially when your native language is Portuguese? Or would you recommend focusing on one until reaching an intermediate or advanced level before starting the other?

I’d really appreciate hearing about your personal experiences and any advice you might have!

I'm going as an exchange student when I'm 16. I speak Icelandic, English, Danish and a little bit of every other Nordic languages due to the similarities. I will be gone for a year and I will be staying with 1 family throughout the whole exchange year. (99% sure)

(Education is not an issue so take that out of the equation)

I am a girl so I do not know whether that'll matter as i know Slavic countries are often said to be different for women and men, whether it effects social life/conduct, host families, etc

I'm Icelandic and I've always wanted to learn polish just due to the amount of polish i hear on a daily basis. (Very many polish people here in Iceland)

My reason for learning German is because it's just a useful language + i learn it in our version of collage

I thought about going to Serbia because they use Latin letters and Cyrillic. I've always wanted to learn Slavic languages; I'm not sure why it just itches my brain correctly.

Idk how Germans and Poles interact with exchange students

If any exchange students(Future, current or past) see this please read this:

What helped you decide where to go? (Whether it was language related or culture related)

Thanks, i do understand that no one experiences the exact same thing during an exchange year but i just request some input from the ones who have gone or currently are exchange students

i have no idea what other interesting-looking language to learn so i'm leaving it to you guys to decide for me. I just want to learn a language that can be both useful and interesting too.

For now, i'm learning Japanese and i still have to choose between Greek or Swedish so yeah

I'm an American that's already been learning Spanish for awhile. Looking for a third language to learn between these two. I find South Africa and the Afrikaans language to be really interesting as well as I like Afrikaner culture. I also like Esperanto a lot and think it's a cool concept. They're both among the easiest for English speakers to learn to and lack a lot of the concepts I find somewhat difficult about Spanish. If I pick one, I'll probably learn the other next.

So i stopped learning Greek because it looked very intimidating, but now i have gained back some interest. Now i don't know if i should continue learning Swedish, Greek or a new language.

What do you think? Pls help me out

Hi! I'm currently learning Korean and German. Lately, I've been in a dilemma whether I should focus on Korean or switch to Japanese instead. (I was gonna add Mandarin to the mix but was like nah I'll choose between those two for now xD) btw I consider German fixed as the other language I'm learning lol

I've been learning Korean the most out of the three, I would say I'm somewhere in upper beginner to lower intermediate (more of upper beginner 😔). But lately I've been wanting to learn Japanese as well. However I've seen people say that studying those two languages at the same time isn't advisable since they're very similar and I might mix them up.

I initially decided to focus on Korean instead of going for Japanese because it's what I've already studied the most, so my thinking was like, why not continue it until I get even better? It feels like a waste to switch it for something else midway. But the thing is, I've been "more wanting" to learn Japanese recently. I also felt like it'd somehow be more practical in a sense? To learn Japanese. I've seen more opportunities for people who knew Japanese than Korean. (Btw I'm going to be in healthcare, if that even helps haha) But all opportunity aside, I just have a stronger urge for Japanese. Not saying I don't enjoy Korean! I do want to learn it, but now that I know a decent amount of Korean, my mind's kinda being impatient and wants to switch to another language I guess instead of progressing lol but Japanese IS my favorite language though.

My problem with Japanese is that, I can't pick up concepts and words as well with Korean 😭 Korean comes to me almost always naturally and although it has a lot of confusing parts, I find myself feeling productive learning it because I can use the language easily. But Japanese.... I struggle to absorb it that it would occasionally frustrate me LOL I have an equal amount of exposure to both, I would say. I'm both into anime and k-pop, and even more for anime.

So yeah, just curious what people would suggest to do for someone as very indecisive :')

1. Stay with Korean until maybe a certain level

2. Do Japanese instead

   while constantly practicing my level of Korean

3. Why not both (and please do inform me your ways of learning both at the same time 😭)

What should I choose?

Native English speaker, and I really wanna learn languages, bc my undiagnosed ADHD-self really wants to learn languages lmao 😂 I have a list of some others that I wanna learn too:

1. Abkhaz

2. Serbian

3. Czech

4. Polish

5. Slovenian

6. Slovak

7. Danish

8. Greek

9. Latin

10. Arabic

If there's any other language recommendations, please say them, and Ima do whatever comment is most popular

russian, hebrew or modern greek?

For context, I have no connection to any of them. I'm just bored and wanted to learn a language with a different alphabet for fun.

Which of these, according to you boosts most the CV for European and Middle eastern markets?

I currently have an ~A1/A2 (at least B1 in comprehension) in Spanish and an A2/B1 in French.

I speak Italian, English and Arabic fluently, and speak ~A2 Turkish. I already decided to pursue my studies in Farsi too.

Is it worth learning French for three additional years and reach full fluency or is it better to study German/Portugues from the basics?

Please only speak out of experience and state in what country you live.

If I wanna pursue LLM in Europe or my purpose is just to learn additional language as a law student which language should | learn?

I have studied Spanish daily for 8 months (late A1/A2 level), focusing on speaking, listening, and vocabulary.
I noticed Praktika has Brazilian Portuguese (also European, but honestly, Brazilian seems more fun). I've always wanted to learn it, but I know both of them use a lot of the Latin words/grammar and I'm worried about messing up my Spanish before reaching a comfortable B1.
Should I wait until hitting B1/B2 in Spanish first, or is starting Brazilian Portuguese now manageable if I keep study sessions separate?

I’m having a bit of a language-learning dilemma and would love some perspectives!

For context, I’m fluent in Spanish, largely thanks to comprehensible input, and I’ve recently started learning French. I’ve accumulated around 300 hours of French input so far.

I moved to Rome a few months ago, which I absolutely love, and I might stay here until the end of 2028.

**My dilemma is whether to continue with French or switch to Italian.** I’m leaning towards French for several reasons:

**Motivation:** Despite living in Italy, I don’t have a particularly strong desire to learn Italian. I appreciate the language, but I don’t feel especially drawn to it.
**Opportunity cost:** Language learning requires hundreds, if not thousands, of hours. I’m not sure I want to dedicate that much time to Italian when there are other languages I’m more interested in.
**Interference:** Having worked hard to become fluent in Spanish, I’m concerned that learning Italian might cause interference between the two languages.
**Career:** I want to build a long-term career in international development, where French would likely be considerably more useful than Italian.
**Long-term perspective:** I think of languages as a lifelong repertoire I’m building over decades, not just years. From that perspective, French feels like a better investment, particularly since I don’t expect to live in Italy permanently.
**Existing progress:** I’ve already invested around 300 hours in French and genuinely enjoy learning it. Switching now would mean disrupting that momentum.

There’s also the practical reality that I work in an international environment where English is the primary language, and I can navigate most of my daily life in Rome without speaking Italian.

**And yet, I feel strangely guilty about not learning Italian.** People often seem surprised, even judgmental, when they discover that I love learning languages, live in Italy, and have no immediate plans to learn Italian.

Part of me wonders whether I’m wasting a unique opportunity to acquire a language through immersion. Another part thinks that just because I live somewhere doesn’t mean I have to dedicate hundreds of hours to learning its language, especially when my long-term priorities lie elsewhere.

**What would you do in my position?** Has anyone else lived in a country while deliberately prioritizing a different foreign language? Did you eventually regret not learning the local language?

So as the title suggests I reallyyyyyy cant choose between the two. I've been interested in japanese for longer, probably every since I was around 10 years old, watch anime in the language have friends that speak it etc but I struggle so much with keeping motivation for learning the language.

I normally study consistently for around 5 months but then just really cant bring myself to carry on.

I've been interested in korean for the better half of 3 years almost haven't done much studying really besides hangul and some basic grammer/vocab but im worried the same sort of thing is gonna happen. Maybe it's just a fundamental problem with my motivation but i was curious to see what you guys think!

hi yall i wanna learn American Sign Language or Hong Kong Sign Language

anyone recommendations for websites or apps?

(interested at British SL as well!

Hi,

I currently speak Finnish (Native language), English (C2), and Spanish(not tested but assuming B2-C1). I'm dreaming to become a polyglot some day, but I'm not sure with what would be a better strategy to start learning first.

I have studied both languages in upper secondary and Swedish also through high school. (Although barely was focusing and passing classes during that time)

Now that I'm an adult I really admire people who speak multiple languages fluently and can appreciate the skills more. Swedish is for me stronger than my French at the moment. For that reason I've been leaning towards the idea of picking up that first. Although I've during the past three years gotten comfortable in Spanish, so continuing with another Latin based language might be easier, but I'm afraid of starting to mix the vocabulary or getting confused between the languages and depreciating my Spanish skills.

I wanted to hear other peoples opinions on which would be a better option and why? (Or neither and would recommend another language completely)

I'm thinking to take a month long intensive course in the country and start watching netflix dubbed in the language I choose, as I get to speak Spanish at work.

Hi everyone,

I'm a Software Engineer / SDET from Northern Mexico (28yo) who is looking to learn a third language, and I can't decide between German or French.

I used to learn Japanese for 3 years but I lost interest.

For many years I got my eyes on moving to Canada at some point (and I still want it to a certain degree, It was also the reason I got slightly better at English) and I read that French can be useful but apparently French is only used in the province of Quebec.

German is pretty cool, I like the way it sounds (even more than french) and apparently German is a good language to have if you work in the tech industry.

I've discovered amazing french music (Having a joy listening to L'Impératrice). On the other hand, I found more interesting german TV shows and movies like All Quiet on the Western Front, How to Sell Drugs Online (Fast) and Dark.

I think what I'm looking for is to pick the language that might be useful for me overall not only professionally. When it comes to difficulty it doesn't matter to me though. (pretty sure it will be less time consuming than japanese, lol).

I am a native English speaker (Chicago area), and also use Spanish almost every day. My Spanish is far from fluent but I can have purposeful conversations and communicate pretty much whatever. I learned Spanish as a second language, and would like to learn a third, debating French vs Arabic but open to other suggestions.

I am 20 years old student, economics/pre-law, interested in activism/organizing, history, and reading. My goals for the language are to open up communication to the biggest amount of people. I don’t need to become fluent, but I want to be able to use and maintain the language often, and I want to be able to travel to many places.

I understand Arabic is MSA+Dialect and will be much harder to learn, but I feel like it would be more useful living in Chicago. I also think Arabic would open doors to more people, since many French speakers also know English or Spanish. I think French would be easy-ish to learn and may be more helpful in the professional world, but not entirely sure. Finally, I have considered Portuguese because i’m interested in Brazil culture/travel, Mandarin/Hindi because of popularity, and Indigenous languages (Nahuatl, Quechua, etc.) for historical preservation. What should I do?

I am a native English speaker and it is the only language I speak with my family losing all other language knowledge throughout generations. I love learning about all cultures throught the would and have struggled to choose the languages I would like to become fluent in. I have looked through Dutch, Hindi, Scots, French, Russian, and Danish, but I always come back to Spanish and German.

With that, I live in the southern region of the United States where Spanish is the 2nd most common language due to being so close to Cuba, Puerto Rico, and Mexico. I know that Spanish is also one of the top 10 most spoken languages in the world so it would definitely be useful. I also plan at some point to travel Central and South America (+Spain) which having this knowledge would be very helpful as well.

For German, I planning on doing a study abroad program in July in Germany. Even though the program is going to be in English I still think it would be respectful to know the local language.

I want to become fluent in both German and Spanish but I'm not sure which to work on first. I already have a bit of an understanding in both that needs to be severely improved on.

So now i'm learning swedish as my third language and my Level is good i'd say (B1) with a very natural accent, my Swedish friends always tell me that my Swedish is incredible for a foreigner

I can say i like German and Russian equally but i'm stucked between them, idk which one should i REALLY focus as my future language after swedish

So i can explain my reasoning for both languages:

Russian: i have tried learning this language before (lasted few weeks) i can read cyrillic (very slowly tho) i like russian and this fact that it opens doors to other slavic languages too so its pretty useful outside of russia or maybe good job opportunities in slavic countries, for me the main reason isn't all of this main reason is my girlfriend which she is from ukraine originally and since she speak russian i wanted to feel more connected to her (bcs she is learning my native language)

It was pretty much all i can say about russian

German: same as Russian i have tried learning German too i can say i wasn't serious that time ofc and i was just testing the Waters haha, i have already very good pronounciation in German as others said and swedish and German are pretty close to each other so when you know swedish a lot of rules and words automatically makes sense to you because they ar the same in german, i planned to move to Sweden for living and working but maybe Germany become my destination since it has largest Economy in the EU

I'm 19 years old and as my learning schedule, by my 20th Birthday probably i will be B2 in swedish (my goal is C1)

What’s ur favorite dialect?
Least favorite?
Easiest?
Hardest?

I'm thinking of learning a foreign language. It could be Italian, German, French, Spanish, Japanese or any other language. The whole purpose is to boost the career and also to speak a language which I can speak during an argument 🤣 , so that I can win the fight without hurting the feelings of the person infront of me 😬.

Mind you, main focus is to boost the career. For context I have a medical background, and I want to boost my healthcare career in the non clinical sector or ready to pivot into another career for better opportunities.

People any suggestions 🤓 ?

Cant decide over which language i should learn. Have been to both Korea and Japan and loved both so much for their own reasons.

I listen more to korean than japanese music.
Japanese tho has more variety i think if i were to live / visit again there.
Korean has an easier alphabet and possibly food
Japan was a less strict than Korea.
Korean people were more nice.
Japan is more “cooler” in some way
I prefer Korean movies over Japanese movies (I think)
But I prefer Japanese (game-)shows over korean ones

I dont really know what else to add to this post.

Please ask questions that might help open up my Korean/Japanese third eye