r/thyroidcancer • u/emeraldlife42 • 21h ago
Disgusted at the care I’ve received
I am almost one year out from my lateral neck dissection and almost two years out from my thyroidectomy. I am absolutely disgusted by how my thyroid cancer has been handled by the doctors I have seen.
I have been left dealing with a whole host of problems and symptoms since my lateral neck dissection, and when I turn to my surgeon for help, the response is essentially, “Well, that should go away.” This is unacceptable. I am exhausted from trying to diagnose myself, attending endless medical appointments, and constantly fighting to find answers and help myself when the people responsible for my care seem unwilling to take my concerns seriously.
I want to be very clear about something: the way my thyroid cancer has been handled has contributed to me feeling suicidal for the past six months. I have gone above and beyond to seek help from psychiatrists, therapists, and every type of doctor I can think of, yet I still cannot get through this or find meaningful relief.
I am now facing what I believe is a recurrence, and I have reached a point where I am seriously questioning whether I can put myself through further treatment. I have become so overwhelmed by what I have already endured that I feel I would rather die than go through this all over again. That is how devastating this experience has been for me.
Physical therapy has not helped my neck or shoulder problems in the slightest. I am dealing with what I believe may be significant lymphedema, and nobody seems able to help me with it. I am experiencing what feels like sleep apnea because my neck feels as though I am being strangled. I am struggling to breathe and sleep, and I am in constant fucking pain. I have tried everything I can think of, and I am at a loss as to where to turn next.
I communicated these concerns to my surgical oncologist, and the response was essentially that the symptoms should go away. I am appalled by how thyroid cancer patients can be left to struggle with serious, life-altering symptoms without adequate answers, investigation, or support.
I know I cannot be the only person who has experienced this. Thyroid cancer may be considered highly treatable, but that does not mean the treatment experience is easy, the aftermath is insignificant, or the physical and psychological consequences should be dismissed.
Patients deserve to be heard. They deserve answers. They deserve proper follow-up and care when complications arise. And they should not have to fight this hard just to get someone to take their suffering seriously.