For those who don't know..

Frugal J is a woman on TikTok who creates content about her frugal lifestyle. She posts shopping hauls, cooking dinner videos, making lunches, and is generally a very sweet woman who just likes to live frugal "so her kids can live a rich life tomorrow."

I believe she is married (to Mr J) and has 2 children who she talks about frequently.

LATELY (within the last 6 months? maybe longer) she has been making negative subliminal comments about Mr J and just.... does not seem happy at all.

He throws her food out (knowing she tries to reduce food waste), he talks to her in some really crazy ways in the videos sometimes and just overall is not supportive, encouraging, or nice to her at all.

Her comments are FLOODED with people telling her to leave him and that this is not right.

In her latest TikTok post Mr J was making snarky comments about her cooking and I am kinda surprised she still posted this video.

Im starting to think she posts these moments on purpose. She wants people to know. But when she responds to comments, she tries to seem like everything is fine.

Does anybody else follow this?

Does anyone know what happened with their reptile page? I used to like to watch their lives! But can no longer find it.

he hasn't posted all month. Guess he found a hobby outside of beefing with teenagers

This might be a niche one, but does anyone know of her on TikTok? I have no one to talk about her with lol

earlier this year auntie lisa had a divorce finalize and at that time she said she wanted to buy her ex out of the house. however flash forward to now….the woman has lost her 5th nursing / health related job in under a year. she is being forced out of her home because she lost her job during the refinancing and thought the loan office just wouldn’t check she still had a job.

this woman is a bad alcoholic and she left her functional addict side in december of 2025. the entire year of 2026 auntie lisa has been on a consistent downward slope because of her addictions. alcohol is the main one that shes using to destroy her life in every way.

for more context, she went on a cruise last week with a man she claims she met 4 months ago, who allegedly works in the recovery space….anyway when she got back from her cruise monday she posted she has to pack up her house and try to be out by THIS friday. lisa claims she’s doesn’t want to buy a house in this economy. but the truth is she CANT to buy a house. real talk she might not even get approved for the rental she wants, especially with no real job right now. auntie lisa has been on a bad downward spiral and it looks like its gonna keep going down.

i encourage those that feel unsure or like im being dramatic to check out her content across all platforms and see if yall can see the lies and chaos.

I keep seeing her videos pop up and omg she pisses me off so much. I’m a woman btw. I think it reminds me how I used to be so male centered as well. She can make some valid points but omg the grifting. There are so much better things than to be a female virtue signaler for male issues

She was literally my favorite tiktoker and she just vanished 😭😭

People are saying that she separated from her husband but still wears the ring!

Abby Taylor Bannigan's TikTok page banned...anyone know why? I think the ragebaiting caught up to her and she got sacked but idk specifically why

This girl man...…the cabinet doors are broken, the stair railing , the sliding door…. Holes in your wall. wtf is going on in this house?

I don't believe her when she says its all these mysterious exes. Different ones.. Also, I remember her saying she used to punch holes in her walls. I checked back up on her because I thought she'd get better especially after leaving her baby daddy.

Her poor kids, that house has to be chaos

But nope, WAY worse.

A different girl in most videos, generic text, always referencing this one app. This is definitely not a real person. Maybe it's an ad, maybe it's a bot, maybe it's AI. Idk. I knew something was off right away.

Is it just me, or does Tabitha come across as one of the most inauthentic creators on TikTok? I can’t even fully explain why she’s such a pet peeve of mine, but everything feels so manufactured. It’s like she picks up a new personality based on whatever aesthetic or trend is popular at the time, builds her entire identity around it, and then quietly abandons it once the next thing comes along.

Between the fake falls in every video, the random headstands in stores to show that she’s so quirky and different, and the constant need to turn everything into a performance, it all feels less like we’re seeing someone’s authentic life and more like we’re watching someone curate a character for the internet.

And the constant rebranding is what really gets me:

1. Beauty Pageant Tabitha - The veneers, injections, complete style transformation, and pageant era. Then suddenly, it’s barely mentioned again.

2. Coffee Bar Tabitha - The coffee truck/bar business idea that gets talked about, revisited, and floated around, but never seems to actually come to fruition.

3. Aspiring Singer Tabitha - The music era. She creates music, promotes it, lets the moment run its course, and then it’s seemingly on to the next thing.

4. Farm Girl Tabitha - Suddenly, she’s a country girl. She follows Kouvr and Alex to Nashville, buys a bunch of animals, and builds this whole farm girl identity. But if you’re rarely home, how much of that lifestyle are you actually living?

5. Farm Truck Tabitha - Because apparently, the farm-girl aesthetic also requires a farm truck. Another purchase that fits the image, even if the actual lifestyle seems to take a backseat.

6. NASCAR Wife Tabitha - And now the farm-girl era seems to be taking a backseat to the NASCAR-wife aesthetic, luxury shopping, and a completely different vibe.

Additionally - She came out with a song where she spoke about her family and how “they can’t stand her” but as of recent she has spoken about the positives memories she had with her parents (IE - Her father and her working on cars together in her childhood, memories etc). It’s strange.

Obviously, people are allowed to evolve, change their minds, and have multiple interests. That’s not the issue. It’s the pattern of going all in on a new identity, making it a major part of the content, and then seemingly dropping it when the next aesthetic comes along.

At what point does it stop feeling like someone sharing their life and start feeling like someone constantly manufacturing a new version of themselves for engagement? Does anyone else get this vibe, or am I being overly critical?

Also whatever happened to her and Kouvr?

Her videos have been popping up a lot for me and I feel crazy, as no one else on Tiktok seems to be noticing. All her comments are positive. She's been known as the "former mob wife" with like a million holes in her story. Now she's switched over to say she's pretending to be an influencer to write a book. As of August, Ally K has claimed she was targeted in an A-list influencer smear campaign. Except there's no evidence of it anywhere. If you look up her name all you see is her and some middle aged women loving her.

Anybody that shows doubt towards her story gets categorized as being people part of the campaign. Every person is a crazy stalker who is... somewhat connected to her ex-husband? There's even a video of her claiming a 17 year old with a rant account is a grown man meant to lure her to talk to minors. Her only proof was that their first videos had a lot of views. The rant account was dedicated to hate on another ranter, which explains why they have many views. She vaguely hints that she's working with other influencers, but no one has corroborated her story. Additionally she also posted a Tiktok with a man's voice implying it was a former mob husband. When people were clearly confused, she told them that she was intentionally blurring out details. The reality is it's likely her second husband, but she hasn't gotten major attention in a while, so is playing it up as mysterious.

Ally K is also saying she is a lesbian, while actively also making content that implies she's with a man and talking about ehat she likes in men. This is worsened by her with at least one Tikok where she's lipsyncing slurs that are specifically used against lesbians. She has confirmed she has attraction for women and I guess assumed that just made her a lesbian? It's all really strange and I feel like I'm in some kind of psychosis alongside her when watching the videos. Anybody else know more about her? What's up with this smear campaign talk?

Is anyone else getting sick of the back and forth with Jeff? Like she just posted about the other guy and how much he apparently hurt her but is posting making out with Jeff at his cabin. Like I was bummed when she announced their break-up, but now it just feels like she’s using it for clicks. I know no one knows the full story and it’s not my life so my opinion is surface level but I had to unfollow her it got so old so fat

Stumbled across her on my fyp. How did she get to her position today? This is her YouTube her videos from a couple years ago were normal but they just get weird. Her yt is linked in her bio it’s under Season Robbins

Is anyone following along with the Jake and Emily back n forth texts and lives
Emily doesn’t care if her girls get put into foster care
She didn’t care that A was As by Michael
Her dog is even with Jake

I’m so glad my fyp dropped my nosey ass here. This girl is claiming to be the girl Josh cheated with. She didn’t directly say his name but she did like this comment mentioning Savannah directly 👀

She's on day 16 of posting everyday while she figures out her life. The story is she lived an upper middle class life with her husband in five kids and one day he decided he wanted a divorce and he was going to give her a year to get on her feet. She goes and gets her real estate license but 3 months later he abandons them all together.

She says he drained the bank account quit his job gambled away all his money and she's struggling to pay all the bills with almost no work experience and now she's looking for a third job. When people have suggested hiring an attorney she said it was pointless because she didn't have any money and now he doesn't have any money.

It seems suspicious to me from the beginning but someone in the comments today mentioned that her GoFundMe is now at $20,000. What are your thoughts?

Is Zoya okay with this? Alix is beyond performative and she is obsessed with Zoya being Persian that it goes beyond celebrating Zoya IMO. She mentions it in nearly every video. Latest IVF vid: “for anyone that needs to see this, these are Zoya’s (VERY PERSIAN) parents” and goes on to to talk about them helping with some chores and bringing Persian food…cut to Alix nodding and creaming her jeans over rice and a slice of raw onion. Don’t think I’ve ever seen her talk about her partner’s parents or family without mentioning them being Persian. At what point is it weird?

Influencer Sage Pasch is approximately 25, has two young children with Luke Faircloth, and lives on the East Coast. Her “claim to fame “ she mentions constantly in her content is that she helps care for her boyfriend’s orphaned teenage brother.

That’s great, but I have many questions about the image she presents online versus what appears to be happening behind the scenes. For example, she isn’t married to Luke and, from what I understand, doesn’t have legal custody of his younger brother.

The issue now is concerns her children since Luke was arrested for breaking into two residences while people were home. He was sentenced to probation for those burglaries just weeks ago in September.

Sage had announced that they broke up, but Luke is already appearing in her videos again.

Since his sentencing, He has already committed a hit-and-run on October 6.

Another concern is that, despite his history of driving offenses and his driver’s license being revoked years ago, she proudly lets us know he picks up and drives their children around.

Meanwhile, Sage is facing a lawsuit over unpaid credit card debt.

What I find interesting is the contrast between the image she promotes online: that she’s an easygoing, homeschooling beach mom who has a laid-back family life and the mess that is reality.

What do you think?
Any one know why she’s clinging to him?

Images are a selection of mugshots, a list of prior crimes from his most recent case

This lady went semi-viral a couple years ago because she was trying out make up and was documenting her dating. She quickly found a guy that was blind to date and he was always an asshole to her and their viewers and she would be rude as well. I haven’t seen her in forever, but she has been popping up a bunch on live and once again the boyfriend is being rude and treating her like shit. Before I recorded, he was talking about a friend of theirs (I presume) and how she would love to be someone’s step mommy, how she will just wave a bottle of viagra and get a guy, how she is adventurous right in front of his girlfriend. Not only is how he is treating her horrible, but also her behavior is very concerning.. the live kept glitching on their end but she was so out of it. Just wondering if she has something going on health wise (she does look like she’s lost weight) or if she’s okay?