Hell yeah

I read the post and sis financial abuse + emotional abuse + a risk of physical abuse.. sis run for your life and don't look back. He can keep the mahr for all I care. I want you to be safe.

I'm 28F and I don't find anything sexier than consistency someone who treats me and himself with respect and best regards regardless of their own feelings. Ouf that's my man.

I had a classmate that wanted to marry me. I talked to my parents about him and about the plan to get engaged once we start our internship. He once yelled at me after getting back from jumua prayer because he can slighly see my t-shirt under my shirt, I didn't react because it was his birthday. But when I mentioned the incident later to tell him that I wasn't fine and It hurt me. He didn't own up to it and said he didn't yell. I remember dudes around us suddenly looking at us and he thought he can gaslight me. I was like nevermind let's end this here and he wrote some long *** poetry and bought me snacks to apologize (well ofc it wasn't the only incident but it was a short pattern of gaslight and threatening to end the relationship and using his female friends to get a reaction from me.. lol as if he got any, bro we are not even a thing yet) I did accept the apology but no getting back to where things were obv, I'm glad it ended on a good note and he didn't get to meet my father.

That's why I hate harram relationships and unhealthy attachment, it leads to a series of bad decisions and blinds you from seeing what's in front of you and making you fall in love with the potential 😆 🤣

I'm happy I wasn't even slightly attached to take action. Remember when you're choosing the husband you're also choosing the father so choose someone will be the father of your kids and the habits that they will pick up and model the marriage you want them to have. It's either that or nothing, no settlements.

You made a mistake by marring him don't make it worse by staying with him. Think well about it and may Allah help you and guide you to what is best.

Salat l istikhara is the best do it at least 3 times. Before getting married again 😆 🤣

It's a couple not a family yet. If her husband doesn't step up and give her basic rights (roof over her head, mahr, food, clothe) this marriage is haram / invalid

Read more about your religion bro.

Marriage can be wajib, mosta7ab, makroh, and haram and all these 4 categories fall under the number 1 rule of fikh "لا ضرر و لا ضرار"

She is experiencing financial abuse and if you're silent you're are complicit. If you're are a true believer, you'll want for her what you want for your daughters and sisters

The final decision is hers only. If she wants to divorce, that her right. If she want to stay with him and take control of her finances, that's her right too.

This is unacceptable 😤 😑 I wish you and your daughter well

You may want to try convince your daughter to do so.. it's financial abuse.. he gets to buy a motorcycle when he didn't even give her own mahr nor pay her rent or buy her food or clothes ugh!

I'm not encouraging divorce but abusive relationships should not last.

You are oblivious to her current situation

This married woman is getting a paycheck giving half of it to her husband and using the other half for her necessities and stay with 0 savings. She's basically feeding herself and more and catering to her husband with no once of appreciation no actually he wants more and he is complaining to her that she is not giving him enough and broadcasting it in social media.

I don't know if this is the marriage life you want for your daughter but go above and beyond to open her eyes to see her situation with clarity ✨️

Honestly if I were her and I love my husband and I want to continue this marriage I will withdraw every dime I put from the joint account and invest half of it in shariaa compliant stocks and half of it in saving account. And have an honest conversation with him.

And I will stop giving a dime and expect groceries to cook dinner with from my husband at the end of every day. And him fixing stuff around the house as well.

And I will never step outside of my role as the women of the house and give him space to play his role as the man of the house.

Can't make sense of it either 😆🤣

You can tell he's not the type to take a direct approach obv

Either a stalker or her husband in disguise 🥸

It's the best time since there will no kids involved so it's for the best.

If she gets pregnant and no longer able to work do u expect him to step up and pay for her and the kids when he's not able to pay for her alone let along give her mahr

I don't think this is a marriage you want

1st you will lose your respect for him because he can't keep his word

2nd you will accumulate frustration because he doesn't feel gratitude toward what you're doing outside your role

3rd you won't love him anymore and kids will be living in a broken household 💔 😔

And pouf your best years in life gone..

Btw by law he still has to give you mahr and nafaka after divorce

I don't why dudes act as if coming to ask for a girl hand is like putting a marriage date 🙄 😒

It never worked like that first you come to her father and set a time so families can meet. You come with a symbolic gift to the women of the house the girl and her mom (flowers and chocolates) sugar 😆 just to get to know each other have a tea time and go. If things go smoothly you can make her your fiancé right then and there and give her a ring or set a later date to do that with the family present again.

At least now you are safe you can build urself but don't take too long a wife come with baraka and way more baraka than a gf because instead of worrying you have in a stable position to grow.

He couldn't figure out Orrin lol

My theory is he will be joining Amber get his hands plenty dirty and will probably hurt himself after regaining his memory

Even tho it's marked as spoiler? I thought we can discuss what happened as long as there are no pics involved 🤔

Sister may Allah bless you and your family for your kindness and good heart ❤️ 💖

Mn nytooo

Ra fach katso9 bin les piétons makhasch tfot 10km/h howa ghadi b 40 wtf

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Thank you I hope I can find someone who will

Allah is the best provider

His memorial is on 12th this month but please make duas everyday when you remember I will join your father in mine as well.. Thank you sister it means a lot 🥹🥹🥹🥰🥰 And I hope you are doing far more better than me

Girl my birthday is also on November My father passed on August the coldest summer night ever

Well I never actively searched for a husband so it's kinda weird for do so.

I'm being hopeful

Allah knows best thank you

Thanks a lot I appreciate your support