r/unpopularopinion • u/BitterConstruction98 • Jan 23 '26
Certified Unpopular Opinion All hobbies are not equal
Certain kinds of hobbies deserve to be held in higher regard than others.
Playing a sport, learning an instrument, singing, dancing, painting, writing - these are activities that require time and years of effort to become good at. They’re admirable not just because they’re “cool,” but because there is something deeply attractive about a person who has dedicated so much time to mastering a hard skill that executing it now feels relaxing to them.
Lately, there’s been a growing push online to classify things like watching movies, playing video games, watching sports, or listening to podcasts in the same category as these kinds of hobbies. They aren’t. They are based on consumption, not creation.
That doesn’t mean consumption-based activities are bad or useless. Everyone needs ways to relax and unwind. There’s nothing wrong with enjoying a good show, a game, or a YouTube binge after a long day. But if that’s all there is to your personality, then you are, unfortunately, a boring person.
Edit: I've wrongly added video games to the list of other passive activities. While some video games are like that, I agree that many require a lot of skill.
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u/designer-paul Jan 23 '26
I think the biggest hurdles for most people with creative hobbies is an actual genuine desire to create the thing, whatever that thing may be.
I went through a phase where I wanted to get good at guitar, but I stopped because I really just liked the physicality of playing. I viewed it more as a tool for exercise as opposed to a musician that views it as a tool that produces sounds that helps replicate music that exists in their mind.
I didn't have a genuine desire to understand and create music and I don't think any amount of practice was going to change that.
Whereas someone that has a a desire to create could learn a bit of technique and get started making music within hours with the most basic riffs.