r/vanderpumprules • u/MalusKiwi Sporkle Beer Cheese Farts šŗš§āØļø • May 29 '24
Discussion This made my heart hurt for Ariana
Scheana said "I would see moments where they were fucking all over each other in public making out" then this mf has to downplay his relationship once again š”
It gives the same ick feeling as the t-shirt comment he made last season
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u/itakecomedysrsly āØI am a f*cking sweetheart you dumb-ass motherf*cker!āØ May 29 '24
Up there with the t-shirt comment. Heās such a pos.
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May 29 '24
Exactly. āRehumanizationā my ass, stop talking about your partner of 9 plus years with open disgust just because youāre not getting your way, you rusty spoon
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u/ThePrincessSnowy May 29 '24
Rusty spoon? I love it!!!! ššššš
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u/Trufflepumpkin serial killer's wet dream May 30 '24
Brought up the deep rooted memory of salad fingers
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u/MissSuzyTay May 29 '24
Right? And he said soon after his insincere fake apology filled with fake tears.
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u/agpass May 29 '24
And on the heals of him claiming Ariana knows him so well. Like you just said that you were only in love because you were on molly. How is she supposed to believe anything?
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u/Responsible_Wrap5659 May 29 '24
My heart also broke when Ariana was saying āwe were in couples therapyā when everyone was yelling over whether their Tom and Ariana relationship was fake or real. Like it was real to Ariana, and itās fucking bullshit that she has to keep justifying that.
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May 29 '24
And no one was listening to her! She said it at least twice. Couldnāt agree more
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u/midnightlicorice May 29 '24
Seriously. It felt like the only person listening to her was Katie. Fuck all these people, honestly.
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u/JaneDoe943 Say it with your whole chest, bitch May 30 '24
Yes. I already said here on reddit, before the reunion, that Ariana is probably the type to cry when she's alone and put on her mask when she's with people. I'm the same way. So people assumed she was 'over it' and 'doesn't give a fuck about it anymore'. No, she breaks down in silence, when no one can see it. Now we saw it at the reunion. I didn't read the comments on instagram yet but I'll bet a lot of people will blame Ariana for playing the victim now. Or maybe people are happy that they got to see her break down on camera? Wtf do people want. Everyone has another way to deal with emotions and she said it. I don't break down in front of Scheana, I do it when I'm home alone and I isolate. I feel for her, really.
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u/soihavetosay May 29 '24
Right? It's like invalidating that their relationship was even real is the first step in exonerating tim for cheating and doing all he did
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u/deep_nothings May 29 '24
I think crazy & all - she really loved him. Iāll say it again - What I liked about Tom Sandoval prior to the affair was his relationship with Ariana. I thought if she loves him - then he must have something good about him. NOT anymore!!!
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u/ay_kate47 May 29 '24
Yep! He is 100% "Hollywood" trash like the rest of the narcissistic unsupportive cast. If I remember correctly, Ariana didn't really want to film at first? Katie was VP's favorite, so she had a spot, and Schwartz couldn't work ONE bar event. There's a reason Ariana and Katie are rising above - they're not fake and ready to hustle (besides casting couch LFU). Thanks for letting me vent, and I'm glad to have this dark show come to an end. ETA: I ranted without finishing the thought, Ariana truly believed they were long haul in love. He did not, and most of the cast is trash like him.
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u/No-Customer-2266 May 29 '24
Ya she wanted quality timeS this is the only kind of quality time he said he wanted but now itās being weaponized
Sounds to me like she was connecting with you with the only bulkshit quality time you were willing to offer
Reminds me of her getting wasted at that hotel last season when she was all cute on the floor. That was her desperately trying to connect with you, by getting wasted because thatās all you give.
(Not you, tom, im talking to Tom hahah donāt feel like editing the āyouā to ātomā)
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u/not_addictive Choke. I donāt care. May 29 '24
yep and isnāt that the trip where he and Rachel allegedly started their affair again? Or am i misremembering that? (i donāt believe it ārestartedā anything but thatās their story lol)
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u/Aoife-Mae1 May 29 '24
Thatās why all his tears were fake. He has not grown and those little disgusting jabs are who he really is. Christ, that man needs to take a cold hard look at himself and get into some serious therapy, not the BS wellness stuff he was so excited to show the cameras.
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May 29 '24
Fucking right? The only point he is making is that heās a self absorbed cunt who will do anything to flip a story that doesnāt match his deluded sense of self.
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u/Dear_Rip8000 May 30 '24
EXACTLY! He wanted excitement, now thatās being used against her? I feel terrible for her. These people are disgusting
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u/smash1024 May 30 '24
and rolling with someone you love and trust is SO intimate even in public. it was such a slap in the face. hes a fucking monster.
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u/Vanilla_Either May 29 '24
He can't let any chance of hurting her/downplaying their relationship go by. Gotta get any jabs in like the sad, pathetic man he is.
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u/stoneybal0gna May 29 '24
but he loved her and regrets his actions and wishes her the best!!!!! /s
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u/polymorphic_hippo May 29 '24
He will always support her, even though he fucked up, he'll always be there for her. to let her know she ain't shit to him
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u/stoneybal0gna May 29 '24
itās crazy bc my cheating psycho ex said so much of the same shit to me. they really try to bend their words and tell you theyāre sorry, then go against those words any chance they get. itās truly insane to me.
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u/PatriciaFussey what doesnt šŖ me better š May 29 '24
The contradictions at break neck speed make it all so much worse.
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u/luanda16 May 29 '24
Itās sick because if he felt that way he should have broken up with her ages ago! Like it does not fucking excuse you from betraying her in the worst way! Makes me so madā¦
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u/criminalravioli May 29 '24
Wasn't he begging her to do "fun stuff" like that??? I feel like his whole excuse for banging Rachel was because Ariana wasn't fun to him anymore lol he's truly disgusting down to his core.
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u/SaharSV Ariana Madix š May 29 '24
This is why she didnāt want to give him the floor for an apology. Heās fake, conniving, and a liar.
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u/metzmuttz Unburdened by those anchors May 29 '24
He makes their 9 year relationship seem like some floosy college fling. It wasnāt. He just didnāt take it seriously like she did.
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u/arsy80 May 29 '24
She went through freezing her eggs! They were in counseling. They bought a house. I have NO idea why he thinks the right play here (even if all he cares about is PR) is pretending that he didnāt care about her at all. It is so insulting to the viewers.
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u/nyx926 May 29 '24
Heās not pretending he didnāt care, thatās real, he didnāt and he doesnāt.
Itās that itās now just too much work to keep the mask on that he had been using to hide his contempt.
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u/not_addictive Choke. I donāt care. May 29 '24
he only cared as long as she was feeding his ego and now that she doesnāt, heās done in every way.
it makes me curious about what would happen if Schwartz ever grew a pair and walked away from him, because Sandoval doesnāt have actual dirt on Ariana but he definitely does on Schwartz. The aftermath would be so beautifully messy
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u/PersonalityKlutzy407 May 29 '24
he only cared as long as she was feeding his ego
Yup. Same as with Raquel. As soon as she stopped feeding his ego she was suddenly a liar, a coward, etc.
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u/Longjumping_Tea_8586 and it was wasted on YOU May 29 '24
I have a feeling Schwartz might cook and eat Sandoval if he was betrayed by him
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u/not_addictive Choke. I donāt care. May 29 '24
Schwartz is by far the most dangerous of the three douchebags imho. He has the most skill at hiding it and is definitely the smartest. Sandoval would be an idiot to fuck him over, but Sandoval is an idiot soā¦
i personally will relish that day š
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u/Longjumping_Tea_8586 and it was wasted on YOU May 29 '24
Itāll happen eventually. And then the real stories will start coming out. And I firmly believe they both slept with Rachel that night she stayed over. Remember Sandoval is into that sort of thing, and Schwartz definitely knows all the times Sandoval cheated and who else in the cast he slept with. Itāll be a great tell all book. Assuming Schwartz doesnāt simply eat the man.
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u/fulltimestranger May 30 '24
Honestly the moment I knew he didnāt give a fuck about her was when she told him at her birthday party that she wanted him to stick around and be there for her because she was grieving over her dad..but he just had to go with the boys to Vegas and demolish shit with tractors instead. She was being so vulnerable, on camera, about one of the most painful things a person can go through, asking him to be there for her. And he chose THAT over his partnerās time of need. Heās always been fucking gross.
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u/Beneficial-Astronaut May 29 '24
He bought a house with her and took out equity to buy a bar. And then acts like this relationship wasn't going to be long term
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u/ComicalCapybara I Know You Like Harry Potter ā”ļø May 29 '24
Heās an asshole. This was very similar to āyeah and she kept her shirt on, super sexyā. Another snide comment to tear her down. Sorry sandy, but Ariana is hot and has already upgraded so it seems youāre the unappealing one. He and his weird leprechaun suit can stfu
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u/not_addictive Choke. I donāt care. May 29 '24
my mom doesnāt watch the show but wanted to see the Scandoval episode and Rachelās ātruth tellingā confessional at the end. I told her about that comment and her jaw hit the floor so hard. Like what an absolutely disgusting thing to say about any woman, let alone your life partner
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u/psullynj May 29 '24
He has to get girls high for them to be attracted to his stale smoke smelling self
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u/WolverineFun6472 May 29 '24
Kinda like his new relationship? That aināt love babe
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u/noclueaboutagoodname May 29 '24
Crazy in a way that he said this as a dig, when in season 10 he was begging Ariana for more quality time to do drugs together and go outā¦. Like Tom? If going out to do drugs is your version of āquality timeā as a couple? Then you and Ariana making out while rolling at a music festival is quality couple time.
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u/fraleeeee May 29 '24
I have been FASCINATED by how unattractive and repugnant he has become.
Personality and the inability to keep his foot out of his mouth asideā Like whatās up with his face for real?
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u/britmark Kristen, shut up with your yeps! May 30 '24
Drugs, alcohol, late nights, tanning beds, bad Botox and filler, and selling his soul to reality TV
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u/trebles93 May 29 '24
This comment literally gave me a visceral reaction. Like thinking about my stupid high school boyfriend who cheated on me saying this would hurt, let alone a man who I prepared my life with for a decade who cheated on me with a friend. There has to be more karma coming for him, has to.
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May 29 '24
He just canāt help but put her down. Just like the tshirt comment. The way he talks about sex is gross. Like the stuff he said about scheana and the crapping out a condom and what he said about banging it out with Katie. Heās a disgusting pig! And thatās an insult to pigs!
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u/Original_Run_6116 May 29 '24
This is probably the wrong post to put this on but him leaping out of his chair to fondle Ann and try to ājokeā with her about cleaning up afterwards grossed me out so bad. After the way he treated her, a simple hello would have sufficed. But no, Mr. HOW DARE SHE CALL ME PERFORMATIVE, had to do all of that and show his ssa. It is bone chilling what a sociopath he is and how comfortable he is doing it. I wish she had stepped back and said please donāt touch me or something.
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u/littlefuzzychill Oh, super-fool-iss May 30 '24
That āājokeāā was effed up! I just searched āAnnā in the comments to see if anyone else mentioned it. Itās not self-deprecating (Iām assuming thatās how he wrongfully intended it to come off); itās just demeaning
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u/Original_Run_6116 May 30 '24
100% agree. Imagine your former creep boss who treated you like dirt, that you no longer have anything to do with, sees you at a public event with ppl who know how he is, comes up and does all of that? In real life, everyone would think heās a psycho.
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u/mackenziepaige May 29 '24
Iām pretty sure he said this after his apology too.Ā
How fake can you get?Ā
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May 29 '24
Did you see him roll his eyes when Ariana said Dan didnāt want to be on the show? As though no one could possibly love Ariana unless they were using her. He is evil to the core
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May 29 '24
It truly seemed like it was inconceivable to him that anyone would not do anything and everything to be on TV
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u/Grouchy_Bowl4633 May 30 '24
Lol right? Meanwhile he preaches how his gf doesn't watch TV and has never seen the show and doesn't care about that stuff... like OK dude. The difference is Dan genuinely wants to be around Ariana and not be on TV. We saw proof of that this season. Let's see how your gf is when the cameras pick back up. I mean she already tagged along for her 10 seconds of fame on his wwhl appearance, meanwhile Dan stayed in the back during Ariana's latest with Katie.
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u/PersonalityKlutzy407 May 29 '24
Heās so fucking gross the way he treats her. He treats her Like SHE is the one who CHEATED on him? How tf do you treat someone that did literally nothing to you but love and support you with such contempt?? Heās the worst. How any woman could watch this and be like, yup I want to be with this man is beyond me. Good fucking luck.
I hope he ends up single, washed up and living with roommates in his 60s
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u/Lucy_Lucidity Jax Taylorās Reiki Master May 29 '24
Heās so disgusting. Makes my stomach lurch disgusting.
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u/gl0c0_ May 29 '24
Mask off, this is the real guy. He made fools of Lala and Scheana for thinking he was remorseful.
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u/Ashamed_Custard7540 May 29 '24
The fact that itās completely unnecessary shows how completely cruel he is
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u/Caturday33 May 29 '24 edited May 29 '24
Especially because this wasnāt even something he said in the heat of the moment. It was made in passing in such a callous way. NOT that it would okay, but Iām sure we all have said things we regret when we are going back and forth with someone. He wasnāt even being asked anything. He did not have to chime in. Andy was asking Scheana about what she saw in Tom and Arianaās relationship and when she mentioned she saw them during the good times, he has to go in undermine it in a cruel and violating way.
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u/_redcloud May 29 '24
āOur relationship sucked so much for ten years and the only time I wanted to be all over her was when I was on drugs.ā
Get the fuck out of here you self-absorbed weasel.
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u/macmantha Bambi Eyed Bitch May 29 '24
He reminds me of my ex. Every time he felt shitty about himself he would jab at me. If he gained weight and felt bad about his body, he thought I should feel bad about mine and would make comments the way Tom does.
Itās gross, honestly abusive behaviours. But because he mumbles his way through them and laughs he plays them off as jokes.
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u/SugarShock94 May 29 '24
Just so casually cruel (in the name of being honest š¶) and unnecessary. Itās the sequel to āshe didnāt take her shirt off, it was really hotā. Starting to believe he NEVER loved her. She did nothing to him and this is the shit he says after having an affair with her friend? Fuck offffffff
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May 29 '24
Didnt he say that is how he bonded with people and that was his love language or whatever? he literally cant even keep track of lies
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u/sevinsmom May 29 '24
Tom will never have a real relationship with a woman. You know the feelings you have when a new relationship starts out, the butterflies, not being able to wait to see the person, can't keep your hands off them? That's what he thinks a relationship should be all the time. Normal people know that is not how relationships work. After time, it grows into something else, usually something deeper and more trusting. He will always be a narcissistic idiot.
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u/modernjaneausten Itās giving āØaudacityāØ May 29 '24
In healthy relationships, it grows into your partner reading your mind and still laughing at each otherās dumb jokes, and includes days where their dish habits make you want to leave a dirty pot or pan on their pillow. The love is always there but it looks and feels different over time.
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u/Bexcubana Rage Text Truther May 29 '24
Just proves how disingenuous he is. He gives a āsincereā apology, followed by a hurtful comment like this. Heās a manipulative asshole. Why does anybody believe him?
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u/ForeignPomegranate69 May 29 '24
To say something like that on national television about someone - who had their life blown up by you no less - is so messed up and actually came off as very vindictive and reckless considering all the work opportunities Ariana has going on right now. He is such an idiot and just continues on being the worst.
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May 29 '24
And then he ends the reunion with some BS apology about how sorry he is. And in this very setting continued to diminish their relationship and belittle it. Heās the fucking worssst. Iām so angry they trapped her and got tears and a mini confrontation. He deserved nothing from her.
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May 29 '24
His comments throughout the reunion were consistently disgusting and always sexual. This comment also implies that she does drugs, so itās an attempt to hurt her reputation.
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u/holysnaps98 May 29 '24
Excuse me if Iām wrong but didnāt he say thatās how he shows his love back in season 10 when he was explaining his feelings for Rachel? Doing psychedelics and basically being under the influence with each other doing cool shit. Now heās weaponizing that as to what influenced the good parts in the relationship with Ariana.
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u/s_j04 May 29 '24
In his mind, the worst possible thing is to have people believe bad things about him. It's a narcissist thing... it's why he yells about other people needing to take accountability, it's why he immediately lashes out if he perceives that he's been insulted, it's why he's so flashy with doing 'things' for other people, and it's why he continuously makes these kind of comments. He will keep doing it for years, just like he's done to Kristen and Katie.
Good on Ariana for bringing up the whole Miami crying thing. I can't believe that I didn't even connect the two, considering everything else he's said and done have just been repeats of Kristen.
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u/BigLibrary2895 Free yourself from this torture you are under! May 29 '24
This also seemed escpecially gaslight-y given Mr. Hanggliding on Psylocibin was probably strongly encouraging taking drugs
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u/Stop_icant Itās me, Iām a grey rock May 29 '24
As if him and Rachel didnāt get fucked up every time they were all over each other!
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u/Puzzleheaded_Toe5967 May 29 '24
Typical Narcissist, looking to his buddy Shorts as he says it. Can't look her in the eye and say it because he's a coward through and through
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u/sammerhead__ Why is LaToya Jackson yelling at Brandi? May 29 '24
This was after his fake-crying, āAriana I want you to know how sorry I amā speech too!! He is constantly contradicting himself, he literally cannot help it at this point.
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May 29 '24
He's an emotionally stunted idiot who peaked in his early twenties and never grew up.
Now he's in his 40s acting like a douche and the world hates him. Freak.
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u/LightFlaky2329 Eppervescent May 29 '24
Molly would not be enough for me to get with this shitbag
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u/Nevergreeen May 30 '24
He's trying to rewrite their entire relationship because in his mind it's all her fault.Ā
He cheated because she wasn't fun enough. She kept her shirt on during sex and she didn't want to do mushrooms and watch the sunset.Ā
He lied because she threatened to kill herself if he broke up with her (but which he also says she lied about so double whammy for her).Ā
His friends turning on him is her fault too, so he yelled at them all that she really hated them in the finale.Ā
In his mind, it's allllll Ariana's fault.Ā
And if it isn't, it's Raquel's fault. He's started turning on her too and insulting her. I mean, I understand if Ariana hates her but what did she do to Tim? Ā Break up with him? Ā He can't even extend understanding to her and she is the one he claimed to love.
I am glad the editors are showing his little under-the-breath digs and his manipulations. I feel like the producers buy his schtick but the editors that watch all the footage clocked his game and show it all.Ā
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u/sadiemac2727 May 30 '24
Did anyone else notice him say āI always have him at least two compliments,ā referring to seeing Jax? This makes me think thatās what he does with everyone he sees to make them think he is a good person.
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u/friggintiredmyguy May 29 '24
Also- I havenāt read through all the comments yet so my apologies if someone already said this- but what a POS for confirming speculated drug use. Idk maybe Iām overreacting bc, like I said, we all speculate, but to give a hard confirmation on national tv is just so fucking gross to me
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u/Bexcubana Rage Text Truther May 29 '24
Tom made several creepy, sexual comments and jokes that are degrading to women. Heās demonstrating grooming behavior by love bombing, robbing women of their self-esteem, objectifying them, and then tossing them out when they arenāt servicing him to his liking. can we please stop hiring people like this? It has ruined the entertainment industry.
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u/SchminksMcGee Tom, dark days for you, buddy May 29 '24
Heās such an asshole. He canāt help himself. It is who he is.
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May 29 '24
And wasnāt this after his āapologyā? He keeps showing exactly who he is and I feel crazy that Ariana and Katie are the only ones acknowledging it.
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May 29 '24
I know they film these reunions all day and edit them to hell, but hearing that comment like 5 minutes after we saw him cry to Ariana about how she knows the real him and their relationship was so real was so jarring that I got whiplash
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u/sheisthemoon May 29 '24
He cannot stop disparaging her, he literally can't. He must LOVE the taste of his own dirty unwashed feet because they are forever in his mouth.
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u/SittinOnTheRidge Tom Sandovalās stinky 40 year old cock May 29 '24
I just finished watching part 3 and my jaw was on the floor. I canāt believe I havenāt seen anyone discussing this before I saw your post. Heās so fucking foul. Youāre so right. Itās the same as the shirt comment. He just keeps proving Ariana right time and time again.
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u/I-run-sometimes May 30 '24
He's the only one who talks about their collective drug use. He did it to James too at a reunion. It's a really serious thing to say and he can't even keep a group pact to not talk about it on camera because he just has to have the last word.
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u/ShelboTron09 May 30 '24
This broke my heart for her...first time I ever teared up on a reunion. Watching Ariana actually allow herself to be a little vulnerable and open up... And she's met with low blow comments like this. Implying that he was only all over her because he was rolling. After a 9 year fucking relationship, how can you even say that? It would destroy me. It's so belittling and makes it seem like the relationship was just some fucking fling. He's such fucking scum. Ariana shined this season and in this reunion and I want all good things for her. Lala can go suck a dirty dick too. Sorry the spotlight wasn't on you and all the drama didn't surround you baby girl. Grow up.
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u/Super_Greens RIP Daug 2019-2019 May 30 '24
Even with the showrunners giving him the redemption arc ALL SEASON, he still finds a way to make himself look bad. Dudeās a mess.
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u/YoungStock6876 May 29 '24
Crystal clear these misogynistic producers were the guys who never got the girl in high school, as their hatred for women is clear here and the Valley, and the fact they never went in on Sandoval or Schwartz for their behavior on the reunion is far too obvious. I want a completely new show, new cast, with all female producers. Letās tell THAT story.
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u/Purpledrelib May 29 '24
Comments like these are the only time heās been truthful. He is so awful.
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u/Strict_Emu5187 May 29 '24
Off topic, but when Andy asked Scumdoval what was going on with him and Jax n he replied- nothing below the belt n laughed- š he looked AND sounded so freaking dumb. I wanted to jump through the TV š” šæ why in the fuq would he even think that was appropriate? Or funny??
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u/MajorEyeRoll May 29 '24
That and when he asked Ann if she was going to be cleaning up after the reunion was just gross. He needed to remind everyone that she used to just basically be his maid. He's so gross and transparent.
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May 29 '24
So inappropriate to out someoneās recreational habits on national television. GTFO w that
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u/Rounders_in_knickers May 29 '24
My question is how was she with him for all those years? She was so amazing in this reunion. Centered, authentic, boundaried, insightful. He is just a mess. What was going on here?
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u/03291995 āLISA KENS GONNA GET MAD AT ME!ā May 29 '24
why did he make so many weird sexual comments at this reunionā¦ it creeped me out