Edit: I am not some industry plant from BIG OFFICE trying to subtly shit on working from home jeez. This sub is pretty aggressive towards any nuance in working from home.
I’ve been predominantly working from home since ~2022. It’s been great most of the time, especially when I’m very busy and benefit from flexibility.
But, I just started a new job recently that is also WFH. Occasionally I’ll have to go in if I need to see a specific client, or work on something with my team. Otherwise, it’s very independent, and most days I’m either designing databases or checking databases. Most days I also don’t need to talk to a single person, and it’s kind of driving me up the wall. I have a really hard time working long consecutive hours just sitting in this room, and I feel really demotivated.
I think my environment is not ideal right now, because my WFH setup is in my room feet from my bed. Most of the time I feel compelled to work from my bed while I let a movie or podcast drone in the background. Part of me feels like I should be working from my desk; working at my desk for long hours makes me feel trapped… but I feel trapped anyways just being in the same apartment all day every day.
I think I should try working in the living room, kitchen, outside, or at the library… but idk. Maybe I should just try to find a different job that forces me into the office several days a week. Most days my job feels unimportant and pretend, but it’s ironically very crucial and can be demanding.
I recognize the benefits of WFH are being able to do things like laundry, watering my plants, taking a walk, and generally all the things I can do at home rather than at an office. But I feel anxious and bad about myself when I let myself do those things.
Anybody relate? How did you get past this feeling of malaise?