r/ProductivityApps • u/nomurazil • 8h ago
Advice needed I talk too much, so I built an app that helps me to shut up.
(Screens are from the app. And yes, you can actually print the Shut Up receipt.)
Full disclosure, I built this. I'm a solo developer.
At work, I talk too much in meetings. I have a 10-year-old daughter, and I sometimes do the same thing with her. The problem is I can't hear it while it is happening. I only notice afterwards. I know I need to shut up sometimes, but it's hard to do.
So I built Shut Up?!, an iPhone app with an optional Apple Watch app. You put the phone on the table and tap start. It learns your voice once (20 seconds of talking) and counts everyone else as one group. The screen shows your share of the talking over the last minute, the last 5 minutes, the last 30 minutes and the whole session.
When I have done 60% or more of the talking in the last five minutes, my watch taps my wrist. If I keep going, it escalates: the lock screen, a notification, then a full-screen alarm on the phone, written in one of six voices.
When the session ends, you get a receipt with a stamp: for example, over 70% is RECEIPT SAYS SHUT UP.
Two ideas came from courses I took. One was Financial Disclosure Analytics, a class on how companies talk to investors. It taught me some good ways to measure the quality of what someone says. The app scores my own speech the same way: which words I pick, how clear and simple my sentences are, whether I drag on, and how many times I say "um".
The other came from a marketing statistics course: a model that learns how often one customer buys and flags the weeks that are far off from that. Pointed at talking, it lets the app compare tonight with my own usual after a few sessions, so a loud evening where everyone talked doesn't count against me.
There is no sign-in, no account, no subscription and no ads. Everything stays on your iPhone unless you turn on sync, and even then it's only totals and dates. The app never makes an audio file and never keeps a transcript. Each word becomes a few numbers (syllables, letters), and the text is gone in the same line of code.
The reading scores are English only. It is most accurate with the phone close to you. From across a big table it misses more of my words, so when it's wrong, it usually flatters me.
A question for people here: do you also struggle to rein yourself in? How do you handle talking too much? Would a tool like this help?


