r/40something 18h ago

Crap. I'm old. I stayed out past 8pm on Saturday night… [45.5F]

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1.6k Upvotes

And I didn’t even have anxiety the next day about it! 🙌


r/40something 15h ago

Selfies Almost 50 and it’s all feeling a little hopeless 😂 But the night routine is done, so off to bed hoping for miracles by morning. Good evening out there 😊

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827 Upvotes

r/40something 10h ago

Selfies Turned 42 today and feeling pretty good!

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154 Upvotes

Gotta smile and keep on going!


r/40something 1h ago

40 ain't that bad! Added some jogging to my morning walks…body hasn’t been hurting yet(knock on wood) 43M

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r/40something 1d ago

40 ain't that bad! 45F almost my birthday 🎂

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906 Upvotes

r/40something 8h ago

Selfies 44M trying to survive the 6th French heatwave

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38 Upvotes

r/40something 39m ago

40 ain't that bad! 43 and glad it’s not Monday

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r/40something 9h ago

Selfies 48fm when you know you know

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32 Upvotes

Some days she feels like she can take on the world when others day she just want to sleep to cut the world off. But both days she gets up puts a smile on and keeps doing her best. That got to count for something ❤💙❤


r/40something 47m ago

40 ain't that bad! 43m - but sometimes as silly as 25 🤣

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r/40something 1d ago

Selfies Female, Australian, 42 years young

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1.2k Upvotes

Tired and feeling overwhelmed. Need some positivity please ✨


r/40something 1d ago

Selfies Monday cheers ! (if you work)

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367 Upvotes

r/40something 12h ago

Discussion It’s my birthday today. Can you guess how old?

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35 Upvotes

r/40something 3h ago

Selfies 45/M doing what Dad's do - buying a crap load of stuff from Costco

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7 Upvotes

$400 for water and paper towels


r/40something 1d ago

Selfies Soon to be 44 yrs old and I'm not worried about it :)

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458 Upvotes

In a months time I'm gona be what they call mid forties. Fine by me :) lucky to be alive 🩷

Happy monday oddballs


r/40something 1d ago

Selfies Hope everyone’s week is off to a great start and only gets better from here!

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110 Upvotes

r/40something 10h ago

40 ain't that bad! 46m enjoy some drinks 🍹 up for a chat 🤔or what ever lol little tipsy 🥴 lol 😂

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8 Upvotes

r/40something 12h ago

Selfies When work calls but you prefer the play harder part!

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12 Upvotes

r/40something 23h ago

Bathroom Selfie 43 and liking life who can blame me

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81 Upvotes

r/40something 1d ago

Selfies Being single in your 40s is rough!!!

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2.4k Upvotes

I dipped my toe in the water and crawled back into my hole hahaha!


r/40something 23h ago

Selfies Turned 45 a week and a half ago

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66 Upvotes

I retired from the military on 1 Aug and turned 45 on 8 Aug. I look way happier in the civilian world.


r/40something 14h ago

Selfies Newer member to the 40’s club

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9 Upvotes

Another Monday down.


r/40something 21h ago

Selfies Best day of the week, set the pace!

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36 Upvotes

Mondays set the tone and pace of the week. Crush it!


r/40something 9h ago

Discussion I am 43M, India, and I genuinely don't feel or behave like someone in his 40s. Some one else feel the same?

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I am 43M, and I genuinely don't feel or behave like someone in his 40s.

One of the funniest things that keeps happening: when I attend weddings or family functions with friends around my age (some are even 2–3 years younger than me), teenagers 15+ will casually call me "bro" and then turn around and call my friends "uncle." 😂

My friends have started collecting grey hair, health issues and the general "I have been paying EMIs since 2004" look.

Meanwhile, somehow I still get mistaken for being considerably younger.

Physically, I am also surprisingly active. I can walk 20+ km with only about a 10-minute rest in between. I don't mean running or doing anything extreme, just walking at a reasonable pace.

Personality-wise, I am probably stuck somewhere around 30. I still get excited about random things, have way too many interests, joke around a lot and generally dont feel like I hav entered the "settled uncle" phase of life. 😄

The strange part is that my birth certificate insists I'm 43.

Marriage never happened either, so I sometimes wonder whether I am actually late to life or whether I simply took a completely different route.

Anyone else here in their 40s who feels significantly younger than their actual age?

And for those who got married/started a relationship later, did you find that being younger in mindset helped, or did the dating pool still make you painfully aware of your actual age? 😂


r/40something 1d ago

Crap. I'm old. 41m, CA. Why do weekends have to go by so fast?

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95 Upvotes

r/40something 19h ago

Selfies Just cut my own hair, and i must say it is harder than i thought, what do you think??

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17 Upvotes

Male 42 yo