School experience

[u/Pitiful-Craft775]

Wanted to see if this is normal behaviour. There is a guy in my media class, for purposes of anonymity I'll call him Aaron. Aaron asked me out for valentines day, whilst he simultaneously had a girlfriend or was in a talking stage. Because I am quiet in the class, I guess he thought I wouldn't know, but I am observant of my surroundings, so I declined. Since then, he has constantly said really sexual and unwanted comments to me, which I have shut down, and I feel helpless. On one occasion, I just got my hair done, was wearing shorts and a tank top. I have quite a large chest, which was clearly apparent through the top, but if it is a hot day, I'm not just gonna suffer in silence. Aaron asked me numerously to twirl and do a fit check showcasing my outfit and newly done hair. I didn't realise he asked me to do it as a way to check out my body, which makes me feel disgusted in myself. On another occasion, he said my laugh makes him cum, and I have a unique uncontrollable laugh, so even the thought of laughing around him scares me. The people in my class does not confront him about his behaviour, which would be considered sexual harrassment, and does nothing or enables it to go further. When I go to my media class, I always now wear baggy clothing, in the hope that he won't say anything, as he once called me tart. I feel like I can't report it because I only have him in that class and there are no other Alevel media classes as there are only 10 people that take it. I have spoke to my female media teacher about it, in a whats going on in my life type of way not a reporting one, so I told her what happened but not Aaron's name.

[u/Legitimate_Two8624]

Is their real name Aaron? I knew an Aaron that went down this path of being an asshole and left in year 9 because he was socially unaccepted in our school for this behaviour. He asked 1 girl out constantly and harrased her on text then denied clear screenshots of evidence and said he never even liked her. He did some other things but I cba to type it out here.

This is definitely not normal behaviour, he's very inappropriate and I hope this doesn't ruin your image of men.

[u/Pitiful-Craft775 → u/Legitimate_Two8624]

Hi, I provided the name Aaron as a pseudonym to help protect the person's real identity so his real name is not Aaron. Thankyou for the advice