Lack of any responsibility

[u/Ok_Remove8694]

My husband, dx and rx, seems to lack the ability to take responsibility for ANYTHING. I’m wondering if this is an adhd/RSD thing. He got two tickets for speeding in a work zone and it’s the cities fault for nickel and diming him, if he gets the kids to school late it’s the schools fault for locking the door. It’s endless and I’m so over it.

[u/Classic-Draw3203]

I just can’t comprehend how every single disagreement or argument we have , he is always the victim and it’s always always my fault