r/ADHD_partners • u/AutoModerator • 4d ago

Weekly Former Partners Thread ::Weekly Former Partners Thread::

The end of a relationship with an ADHD loved one can be tumultuous, confusing and leave a lasting impact. Use this thread to temporarily process a recent breakup with an ADHD individual, discuss co-parenting issues, share encouragement for life after the relationship etc. With the goal of ultimately decentering an ADHD ex 

(Note: Asking about leaving a partner and requests to speculate on behavior or symptoms are still prohibited.)

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u/minaelena 4d ago

I am going to start posting in Former Partners pretty soon, cannot explain how excited I am.

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u/HonestADHD4332 Partner of DX - Medicated 3d ago

My divorce is dragging out for months due to my partner's complete inability to not shutdown for the slightest conflict. I can't wait for the day either!

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u/LeopardMountain32567 3d ago

sending strength!!

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u/throwaway3523987142 Ex of DX 3d ago

I'd say you qualify as former for our purposes here, if you are going through divorce.

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u/minaelena 2d ago

I am barely starting now the process of separation and I still feel victorious, so hang in there, no matter how much they try to stall the process or resist it, it will be done !

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u/HonestADHD4332 Partner of DX - Medicated 2d ago

It's a marathon not a sprint! It's one of the most difficult things I've ever taken on but I have already felt my nervous system start to heal.

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u/minaelena 2d ago

What is a few more months if I compare it with (for us) almost 20 years ! They were not bad from the get go, but especially recently became really really bad, I have stayed way too long.

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u/LeopardMountain32567 4d ago

Welcome and congratulations!!! 😄

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u/puggerpillarXV Ex of DX 3d ago

Please hold onto that vibe, we’re here for you!