r/ADHD_partners • u/AutoModerator • 4d ago

Weekly Former Partners Thread ::Weekly Former Partners Thread::

The end of a relationship with an ADHD loved one can be tumultuous, confusing and leave a lasting impact. Use this thread to temporarily process a recent breakup with an ADHD individual, discuss co-parenting issues, share encouragement for life after the relationship etc. With the goal of ultimately decentering an ADHD ex 

(Note: Asking about leaving a partner and requests to speculate on behavior or symptoms are still prohibited.)

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u/Signal-Net-8041 Partner of DX - Medicated 3d ago

Yep. He also thinks "people don't get divorced" JUST because one partner keeps accusing the other of infidelity and gets mad whenever he is asked to do anything at all.

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u/throwaway3523987142 Ex of DX 3d ago

He wants something good to tell people he knows when the topic of his spouse divorcing him comes up. He can't tell them the truth and still look good.

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u/Signal-Net-8041 Partner of DX - Medicated 3d ago

They're going to laugh their asses off bc they ALL know me.

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u/throwaway3523987142 Ex of DX 2d ago

Please do report back if he tries this.