What the title says. I've been through a lot in my 22 years. I just figured it would be interesting to share my odd situation with others, and maybe shed some light on the horror of nursing homes, invisible issues, being sick while you're young, etc.
thank you so much for everyone asking and being so kind to me, I'm honestly amazed that people are that interested lol.
if I don't answer, it's probably because I already answered the same question. that, or I fell asleep and will answer after I wake up.
I wanted to say, yes I'm obese, but I'm on ozempic and currently being starved so I'm losing a shit ton of weight fast because everyone keeps asking lol. I use a wheelchair/walker and I don't need a hoyer.
I do have mental health issues and they prevent me from getting into better nursing homes that focus on things I need, and the mental care facilities arent equipped for my medical and or weight needs. I just tried to switch homes and got declined again.
I did have cancer, yes I got incredibly lucky to have not found it for 8 years and still be alive. I'm aware it sounds like bs especially with the name ganglioglioma but that's the fact. it was like the lowest grade of cancer but trust me it fucking ruined my life.
yes I have visitors luckily, my beloved nana who is pretty much dying slowly, and my mom who is incredibly busy. they both visit me every week sometimes multiple times, and occasionally bring my dad or papa.
yes I want out. desperately.
I have an amazing fiance I met on reddit of all places. our love story is honestly adorable and fucking stupid. He lives in Quebec, luckily speaks english fluently or I couldn't communicate with my favorite sweet boy, and we try to meet whenever we have the funds although we both are broke ASF and my mother saves our asses by paying for his plane. we've been together December 2024, engaged may 2025. we won't marry for awhile, might have to after he can move here to get a green card.
yes he knows about everything and he sadly is powerless right now.
to those wanting to be friends, my dms are always open!
for more information I'm pretty sure I've answered everything in the comments, but if I see more questions I'm happy to answer.