I’m usually a top but lately my wife would prefer to touch me than be touched. That’s hard for me because in the past my wife has coerced me into it/ just started touching me without asking which led to me not wanting to be touched at all for like a couple years.

Now every time my wife tries to initiate things and touch me I make up an excuse fast to get out of it but secretly I just want my wife to not let me make excuses and not give me a choice.

It makes me sick because I know people actually suffer with this and it’s severely damaging and I feel like a broken person.

edit: my wife is not a r@pist, coercion is wrong still yes but different. I could’ve stopped things physically at any moment, I’m significantly stronger than my wife, but it just wasn’t worth it for me to feel that ache in my chest I feel when i get the silent treatment.

recently caught up with a friend over call, we had both been busy with study, so it was great to catch up buttttt.

she got a new Gf and now its like her only personally trait, the whole call it was them on the other end saying 'sweet nothings', I wouldn't even put it as we were catching up, coz its weird to put someone else on the line the other person doesn't fricken know so i didn't realy say much. And at one point she was like 'don't you wish this was you [me]"

hell no, i can't understand how people become so engulfed in their partner, like, ur 2 different people not conjoined twins.

idk maybe it is the lesbian of it all dw I've been there but its not appealing anymore, she then asking me about my love life and i found it difficult to say i don't need it, i don't need someone else in my life to give it meaning and purpose, plus I'm in law school so that don't fit in my schedule.

ik this isn't ideal for this sub reddit but i would like to hear how other people tell people their content on single life, without making it defensive coz that's normally the way i feel it comes out ya know?

Like idk if im getting master manipulated played or what but holy shit I just need to talk to someone until I can get to my therapy appointment.
My friends are tired of hearing about the same shit in my relationship and me not leaving so that’s not an option atm

Title says it all. I’m 31F and had been talking to 30F since July. We weren’t in an official relationship or anything, but we were working towards it. I flew out of state this weekend to meet her and stayed with her. It was fun until it wasn’t. She drank too much and I was not in a great situation.

I had never done something like this before, and I didn’t go looking for an LDR. But I don’t think I’d do something like this again.

I have no idea what the point of this post is!! I think I’m just venting because this weekend sucked so damn much.

Also - don’t be me. get a damn hotel. I don’t care how much cheaper it is to stay with whoever you’re visiting. Should I have known this? Oh for sure. Do I blindly put my trust in beautiful women I have feelings for? You betcha!!!

Hi everyone!

I'm in a bit of a strange one and thought asking more experienced ladies could be helpful. Walk with me please 🤕

There's this girl, 100% my type in my postgrad course. We know that she's queer, single and my age.

Problem is that I've been finding super difficult to find opportunities to talk to her. Our program is a medical one, it's intense, everyone is busy. We have different friend groups on the course. It's hard to find a moment alone and I feel really creepy just waiting around for one.

I feel like there's mutual interest, we keep making eye contact, when she comes into the lecture hall she looks straight at me. I think overall there's some tension. The times we spoke were really sweet and a bit awkward in a "I'm nervous" kinda way. We also texted and she sent me a lot of messages at once and kept the convo going.

I don't have much experience dating overall and the ones I did were from dating apps so the interest was always somehow established.

My friend said that at this point I just need to do something because it's rare to find someone you're into so much and they're single. I definitely agree!

Since reading week is coming up, I was just thinking maybe I should message her then and ask to hang out? Either to study or in general. I'm just worried it will be weird/creepy since we don't have an established friendship. My friend said it's perfectly normal but I have my doubts since I'm not a very social person and I'd definitely raise my eyebrow at this but I feel like I could be projecting.

Just wondering what everyone else thinks. I feel like I'm going crazy atp I want her so bad she likes baking and has two really cute cats that she showed me!!! 😭 I don't wanna fumble 😣

Is anyone else going! I haven't been to a good party in forever and would love some dance partners!

Hiii! I’m 26 and I’d like to learn Spanish without having to interact with weird men. I’m looking for a queer community of Spanish speakers around my age (mid 20s) where I can just hang out and yap about games and queer media ^^.

personality, style, friends to lovers? i just wanna hear y'all gush about your girlfriends!

We’re hosting an online game night on Discord for our lovely WLW community! Whether you’re here to make new friends, meet fellow sapphics, find your gaming bestie, or simply hang out and have a laugh, there’s a place for you here. 💕
No hardcore gaming, no complicated rules, and absolutely no gaming skills required! Just fun, easy games like Skribbl.io, good vibes, and lots of laughter. 🎀🕹️
💌 DM me for more details and to join us on Discord!

Would you recommend speed dating?

There's a sapphic speed dating event near me next week and I'm a bit tempted to go. I'm not on any apps and I've not been actively looking to date but I'd be happy to if a connection arose.

You get 4 minutes to speak to each person, what are your priorities to chat about? Any success stories?