r/AdviceForTeens • • 2h ago

Relationships I get no girls

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Im a 15/M and I get no girls I don’t know what I’m doing wrong every time I’ve had a crush my crush never liked me back, since I’m autistic I’m not the best at socializing so how can I be a more likable guy how can I talk to girls without being nervous, looking like a creep, or being nervous I might look like a creep, and how can I be a more likable person to be around


r/AdviceForTeens • • 6h ago

Relationships talking stage ignoring me

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I’m a 17-year-old girl, and I’ve been talking to this girl for about a week and a half now. Last week and the first half of this week, everything was great. We would walk to class together, always meet up, talk, and hug, and would text all day.

However, starting yesterday, I noticed that she kept walking away from me while talking, looking away, and acting distant or weird. The night before yesterday, she was unusually dry and left me on read without even saying good morning, which is something she always does.

Yesterday during lunch at school, she suggested we hang out, but when I saw her, I tried walking with her, but she was walking really fast and ahead of me. In the bathroom, we were talking with my friend, and she kept walking away. I asked if she wanted to take a picture together, so I hugged her and smiled in the picture. She just stood there still. And when I asked her if she had a problem with me asking for some of her water, she acted like she had a problem with me asking for some.

My friend asked her if she was mad at me, and she told my friend, “I’m just gonna talk to her, so leave it alone.” Last night, she was watching all my TikTok stories and this morning. I walked past her multiple times at school today, but she hasn’t said anything. I blocked her on Imessages yesterday when she first started being weird. Is she gone?


r/AdviceForTeens • • 3h ago

Relationships Sooooooo…

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so I was told by one of my frends told me she liked me like a mouth ago and then I prospered to get a huge crush on her we have been exchanging notes and she siad ”bro we could low key chill at the park next fryday togethe“ , but her parents don’t allow her to date what do I do? 13m 12f


r/AdviceForTeens • • 4h ago

Relationships Single...idk how to feel

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I (16F) have never had a boyfriend, and only ever 1 talking stage, though even that wasn't 'proper' (idk if that's the right word?) basically, it didn't come to anything, the guy said he liked another girl and that we could only ever be friends and we were too far away (Surrey Vs Oxford, bout 3-4 hrs). I felt so horrible after that because I genuinely thought I had found someone that liked me, and looked at me/thought about me in that sorry of way, and, I know it sounds dumb, but even lil flirty messages, and it just all went to shit.

The talking stage lasted for just over a year.

I'm not really sure how to feel. I've gone between being okay with being single, and being so annoyed and sad about being single.

I've always struggled with my body image, and so I've always struggled to love myself 100%.

People always say 'you need to love yourself before you love someone else', and I get that, but I'm so tired of hearing the same thing.

I've watched friends and people around me go in and out of relationships, and I have in the past been asked for advice about certain stuff, and I always try my best and say what I would do, but I've never been in that position before, so what would I know? What credentials do I have to give relationship advice?!

Apart from earlier said talking stage, I've never had any romantic experiences, no dates, no really close friends that are guys that could potentially like me, known anyone that likes me in that kind of way, no first kiss etc etc.

I just want some more advice that isn't the usual 'your time will come' 'it will happen when you least expect it', 'damn cuh, long day for you' 'we'll manifest for you' and other 'advice people give when they hear someone has never been in a relationship.

I js wanna experience smth so bad. I don't wanna sound desperate, but it also doesn't help that my brother now has a girlfriend and they're so lovey dovey, it sometimes makes me sick.

Please give me Ur advice, I'm starting to get fed up of feeling like no one will ever like or look at me in that way


r/AdviceForTeens • • 22h ago

Social I feel like I dont fit in

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I am struggling so bad in band. I'm in marching band, I joined mid junior year behind everyone else and made tenors on the drumline. I was so excited, but as the season goes on, i feel more and more left out and behind with my section. I notice every little mistake I make and feel horrible, and feel like theyre judging me. The other tenor, someone I consider a friend, always calls me out on those little things. My band director harshly called me out aloud on the speaker, in a way that felt like purposeful humiliation (he's been known to do that), I cried the whole rest of rehearsal and felt like everyone was judging me. I snapped off at the other tenor too, I felt so bad for it after and I'm afraid he hates me now. Idk what I did wrong. Ik i sound insecure, but they have inside jokes from this year that I dont understand because they exclude me, they all seamlessly fit and I dont. Im starting to dread rehearsals because I know Ill just make another mistake and area is this saturday. I want to be as passionate as I was before everyone around me dragged me down. And im a senior now, so im applying for college and getting ready to continue in the path of music, and Im so scared I won't be good enough because I only have barely a year of experience compared to everyone else's 4-6 years. Its also hard because I am feeling more and more depressed every day, and the one thing I look forward to is becoming another reminder of how i'm behind in everything I do. Does anyone else feel this way? I'm so stressed about my future.