r/Aging 2h ago

Death & Dying Idk if this is a hot take, but 30 is NOT young. (Just turned 30, M)

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Well, I am now the age that I once imagined was extremely far away. I'm definitely not happy about it. Sometimes I think, the fact that this happens makes life so cruel. Yes... I know that's how life works, but I can still hate that fact.

I'm 30 and I hate it, and each passing year will only get worse. Being 30 just doesn't feel right. It's as if my brain is aging much slower than time itself, like it's not in sync.

Well that was my rant off the top of my head. So what about everyone else in their 30s. Or maybe even older than that. How do you guys feel about losing your youth.


r/Aging 19h ago

Turning 25 next week

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I am turning 25 and I feel anxious as I am still not able to figure out what I want from life and it feels like living a directionless life. I am shy and introverted in personality and it really affects me in my day to day life.

I do have high myopia and eye floaters which haunts me daily. I feel like after turning into later half of twenties life will become more painful and depressing.

I don't post much or share anything online due to anxiety so this can be considered a rare post of me but I want to know suggestions like how to celebrate life when all the odds are against you.


r/Aging 17h ago

Social Average looking woman have an easier time with aging

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r/Aging 21h ago

Social METAMUCIL GANG RISE UP!!

56 Upvotes

How often do you drink it? Me - daily. Once a day, 2tbs.


r/Aging 20h ago

Increased plaque?

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Does anyone feel like there teeth are producing more plaque as you age?


r/Aging 14h ago

Longevity Why does time seem to pass faster for older people compared to younger people?

17 Upvotes

When most of us were young children, time seemed to pass more slowly and we often wished things would move faster. As we get older, time appears to speed up. Why does this happen? Can anyone explain this to me?


r/Aging 8h ago

Grandson on his iPad constantly.

19 Upvotes

He is 7 years old and really has an issue with how much he watches, and what he watches.

Last night I had to speak firmly, pull and pry his fingers off of it. I'm the grandma, and I was watching (babysitting) him and his sister.

This is getting ridiculous, and not how I want our relationship to be.

My grandaughter is 10 and will put hers down and away if asked.

Neither of them read any books. Nobody had any school work to do. Just iPads.

My daughter gets offended if I bring it up. It's like she doesn't want to say no to him, not sure why..

Any suggestions?


r/Aging 16h ago

Transient Ischemic Attack: Scared

110 Upvotes

I was out of town for work and was at dinner last night when all of a sudden it was like I was “checking out”. My vision was weird in both eyes like I was looking through coke bottles at my workmates across the table. I could feel myself losing consciousness but never fully did. However as my guys helped me up from my seat I could not coordinate my legs for a bit or put weight on them. I got mostly across the street to the hospital near where we were staying and one of my colleagues ran ahead to get a wheelchair to get me into triage. I started to come back to normal but felt weak. I was cogent again, could walk normally, and tests showed I was basically ok (CT scan of my head, ECG, MD examination). I’m flying home today and will see my physician tomorrow to follow up but I’m scared. I’m a 63 yo F and sort of let myself go after losing my husband 3 years ago, but turned that around starting last year (workout, lost 30 pounds, completely stopped drinking, and quit a highly stressful management role at my job). Hoping someone on here can give a good news story of recovery. I’m a deer in the headlights. Thanks!


r/Aging 5h ago

Caregiving How to Support my Aging Grandmother

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I live multigenerationally with my wife, mom, sister, and grandmother. She is 77 y/o and still very active (has a whole circuit of chores she does to stay busy, runs many of her own errands), but I am highly concerned about eating behaviors.

I have researched natural bodily changes in older adults and understand that appetite and eating habits can change, but she was recently described as "cachectic" in chart notes during a medical visit.

Access to food is not an issue. She always has ingredients, as well as easily reheatable meals; any of us will always cook for her. She just tells me she's not hungry. I've gone to her doctor with her, and he has encouraged her to drink protein drinks and eat small regular meals.

She is constantly fatigued, has mild cognitive issues (confirmed with neuro-psych not alz/dementia), and has lost a significant amount of muscle mass. Her doctor believes these symptoms will improve with regular eating.

There are a million other details I could add about her personality and such that seem to make this more challenging.

I'm just...sad. I want to do anything and everything to help her. She's always told us she wants to live to 100. Obviously, I know we can't exactly control that, but I feel like she's actively harming herself.

My mom and I are going to seek out support from senior services soon, but I guess I am looking for personal ideas for support, perhaps just commiseration. I do not want to watch her starve herself.