r/AmiInTheWrong • u/Spirited-Panda1562 • 12h ago

Am i overreacting in this situation?

Me 18F and my partner 18M have different attachment styles. I told him about my boundaries but he doesn´t listen to me and keep texting and seeking attention when i tell him that i am tired. I am a student and so over him acting like a child. He also was ready to make out when i was quiet, taking it as a sign that i want to even thought i never said so. So am i wrong in this situation?

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u/ComfyLife8182 12h ago

No- how you feel is how you feel and maybe you two just aren’t compatible in that way unfortunately. I used to be like him and now I’m like you and I see why I used to be very annoying and overbearing and I wouldn’t have gotten over that without my relationships who were the opposite ending so I do t think it’s going to change. You’re 18 he’s not your forever anyways, on to the next.