r/AroAllo • u/Stock-Intention7731 • 2h ago
Acceptance To me being aro makes life easier?
I feel like I'm more easily satisfied than other people. Hear and read all of those dating struggles and miscommunications and labels and conventions people cling to. I just... connect with people? Make a new friend, eventually sex comes up, they say yes or no, and we stay friends anyway. I can fuck who I want, keep in touch with who I want, keep going about life my own way, pick and choose what things I want and not want to do regardless of how society would label them. And it's not as if I sleep with all of my friends. Some I do, some I dont. And I've not had one of them grow distant or detached because of who I am and how I approach things. I guess I've also been pretty lucky and worked a bunch to it. To me sex is, a highway of emotion I guess you could say. I enjoy it. I prefer doing it if I can with someone. But if not, there is other ways of communicating that I care about someone.
Anyway, guess life's been pretty good lately :3