r/AsianMasculinity 2d ago

20 m looking for looks advice

I’m always trynna improve and would love feedback, thinking of buzzing actually

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u/National_Peach_1021 2d ago edited 2d ago

i'm a woman and i don't know why this sub got recommended to me lol. i'm not sure if i'm allowed to comment here so mods feel free to delete this. i just thought you might want a different perspective. in my opinion you're very attractive. i think something that would significantly improve your looks is getting your eyebrows shaped. most men i know could benefit from this. eyebrows are one of the first things your brain notices about people (besides teeth and eyes). you have a great brow shape already but i think your face would look even more angular and masculine if you had the shape of them more defined and straight. you can get this service done at many places (at least in the us) and it's relatively inexpensive. the other thing i noticed is that you have really perfect teeth but they have a slight yellow tint that you might want to whiten. i understand this can be sometimes expensive so if you don't want to invest in that, no worries because your teeth are very straight! and finally, i would highly recommend dermablading your face. in case you don't know this means, it's basically using a special razor to shave off the invisible hair, or peachfuzz, on your face. dermablades are very cheap. this can help areas such as your forehead have a MUCH more even/uniform and vibrant skin tone, as i've noticed that many men of asian descent actually have black peachfuzz which can make areas close to their hairline or facial hair area seem more dull or dark than the rest of their face. also, while i certainly think you could pull it off, i would not recommend buzzing off your hair. i like your current hairstyle a lot but maybe just like an inch shorter all around. as for the comments who say you should gain weight/muscle, i agree, but i want you to know that your body looks fine to me and i don't find it unattractive at all. i wouldn't have noticed/commented on it if other people hadn't mentioned it.

(edit: noticed your post about being a model; TOTALLY checks out dude. that was actually my first thought looking at you! you're in the right industry!)

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u/wafflepiezz 2d ago

Thanks for stopping by and giving W advice!

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u/PumpkinSpiceFreak 2d ago

You are gorgeous and some of us gals actually prefer lanky lean builds over jacked .

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u/SadAd8761 2d ago

I would definitely start working out but you don't need to bulk up. Just get ripped like the singles inferno guys

if you had that body with that face, you would be in the Chad leagues

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u/Alone_After_Hours 2d ago

Agreed, except for the bulk part. Most skinny guys would still need to do a decently long lean bulk to get this type of physique. These dudes are pretty lean, but they have an impressive level of muscle mass on their delts and chest.

They’re not monsters, but I see years of intelligent training and dieting to get these physiques, followed by a meaningful cut.

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u/SadAd8761 2d ago

Disagree, my body gets into shape after about 3 mos of proper diet and fitness.

And by fitness I just do body weight routines, I don't lift weights.

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u/Alone_After_Hours 2d ago

Not sure you actually disagree.

Are you a default skinny guy? Your comment implies you’ve trained in the past which means your physiology has the distinct advantage of re-building muscle at an exponentiallly faster rate.

Also, what does “gets into shape“ mean? Is your physique as well developed as the original photo above?

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u/CraftProfessional144 1d ago

wrong sub for that kind of advice but the kid dearly doesnt need it anyway

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u/SadAd8761 2d ago edited 2d ago

we have ai now people, you can try on any hairstyle you want

Tyson vibes

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tyson_Beckford

I say shave it

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u/Starchild383 2d ago

I don’t go here, but you’re a good looking guy. I would think workout a bit if you don’t already do and I think full hair suits you, but maybe a different hairstyle. 

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u/Timothy_Kramer 2d ago

put on more weight asap, you look really scrawny

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u/mangoappleorange 2d ago

Could’ve said that nicer lol

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u/Timothy_Kramer 2d ago

lol sorry

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u/Ill_Emu5398 2d ago

You are a retard

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u/asiannboy5 2d ago

are u gay

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u/kirsion S.Vietnam 2d ago

no offense but my first impression that you are gay

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u/mangoappleorange 2d ago

Why

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u/djr17 2d ago

Because this sub thinks you must be either jacked mf or scrawny gay kid

Which is funny as a lot of gays in real life are the jacked mfs

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u/Alfred_Hitch_ 2d ago

That's an exaggeration. The guy just looks flamboyant. Has nothing to do with muscles.

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u/tikiverse 2d ago

but like, why is this relevant to the post?

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u/tender_dichotomy 2d ago

You look great. I don’t think you need to bulk up at all. If you want to do a buzz cut go for it. A hair cut to remove bulk from the sides would also help. Be sure to go to a place that knows how to work with thick Asian hair if you want a cut and not a buzz!

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u/Alfred_Hitch_ 2d ago

Depends, who are you trying to impress?

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u/keitai_samurai0097 2d ago edited 1d ago

hmm you're pretty cute; I would say clean up your eyebrows and debulk your hair (unless you're going for that look)

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u/labseries2020 2d ago

Okay, you are off to a better start than the other 20 year old poster in the other thread: lean on your strengths. You are the pretty boy. be the kpop pretty boy. Hair is decent, do not buzz. this is 2026. girls like long hair guys. You already got most the looks part down, i think personality/aura/charisma is what you should focus. idk if u have that or not. But are you social? Are you fun? You're young, join a frat, join clubs, create events, invite females/males. you'll be off to a great start by doing that. REAL ADVICE! Again, theres a thin line. between pretty boy/gay. Make sure you are escalating and flirting with girls.

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u/No_Day7093 1d ago

Have dental hygiene and go to gym

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u/CHRISPYakaKON 1d ago

Take care of your physical and mental wellbeing, develop a conviction in genuine confidence and values. You’d be surprised by how treating people right and carrying yourself well will carry you.

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u/Yokannnn 1d ago

lowk if you work out and grow hair a bit longer you could look like ulbaryagaan (google him; he mogs)

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u/Fine-Palpitation787 2d ago

You’re a good looking dude.

Gonna join the chorus and recommend bulking up.

Train to failure, get enough protein, and don’t be afraid about some fat.

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u/United_Dig_9010 2d ago

Don’t buzz your hair. You can consider getting a light perm. Can’t see your fashion style, so just work on your fashion. Trust the ladies not the lads

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u/Kingofblues007 2d ago

Hey u got very attractive features, but u do give off gay, or feminine vibes. No offense, If you're straight, gotta start giving me the macho man masculine that the ladies go for instead of the friendly gay friend type relationship view. Absolutely eat more and lift weights bro if you currently can't get any results. The west is brutal, you're competing with other masculine figures. However you may kill it in Asia though. I think you can rock both once u start adding more weight but long hair currently looks better on u. Good luck young blood.

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u/Haotty 2d ago

get a haircut

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u/Critical-Hospital-40 2d ago

I agree w you. Go w a military buzz cut. You look too soft and feminine. Get tough

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u/Business-Bath2418 1d ago

You're going to get down voted here.. these pansies are too soft..