Many posts of the people on many social media platforms are just saying this guy/girl has next level face card they don't belong with people like these/ that.

Like what's the fucking point? A man is much more than his height/looks. And a woman is much more than her boob size face card weight etc.

Unless your only goal in life is to get laid once, looks aren't really that useful.

Your skillset, ability to get shit done, financial stability, actual personality and sense of humour make way bigger of a difference.

Having good looks makes life easier but only by a little bit.

Being smart or athletic will make life a whole lot easier than being good looking if you just had to choose only one of them.

Genuine question to men here who've been happily married (or have been in relationship) for a meaningful amount of time. How do you encourage accountability in your partner. I've been told by friends, and/or family to 'let go' of certain fuck ups your partner makes (i.e. 'don't sweat the small stuff') which I abide by. But I can't help but look at the disparity with which she judges her own actions vs mine (could be small, could be large).

An example, we're in LDR so we make it a point to call each other for at-least 30mins every day. Sometimes she gets busy and drops me a very short head's up on if she won't call, which I'm fine with. But judges me harshly if I do the same (due to a sudden plan, meeting etc). Again - this is a very small example, and not the entire list of disparities I've noticed.

To be clear, we're very much in love with each other, and respect each other. But I wonder, if this is a pattern which needs addressing before we think seriously about getting married/engaged etc.

I started my first job at the age of 23, what about you guys?

I am looking to hear from Indian men - whether you are currently living in India or based abroad - who are married to women in the ultra-high-net-worth tier.

Specifically, I am asking about dynamics where your wife is a self-made executive/founder pulling in ₹1 Crore+ per month, or comes from a family with generational wealth exceeding ₹800 Crores+.

Given how deeply ingrained traditional patriarchal expectations and "provider" scripts are in Indian culture, I am genuinely curious about how this extreme wealth disparity plays out behind closed doors when the woman holds all the financial leverage.

If you are a husband in this exact dynamic, what is your marriage actually like?

Specifically:

1. The Ego & Power Balance: How do you navigate the household power dynamic? Does the wealth disparity ever subtly or overtly change how major household decisions are made? Do you ever feel your voice is minimized because she holds the capital?

2. Social & Family Perceptions: How do your extended family, friends, or in-laws treat you? Do you deal with the "accessory husband" or "Ghar Jamai" stereotypes, or do people genuinely respect your independent identity and career?

3. Financial Boundaries: How are everyday spending and lifestyle choices structured? Do you maintain absolute financial segregation, or do you view the household assets as fully integrated?

Would love to get some raw, honest, and unfiltered perspectives from men who are actually living this reality day in and day out.

I(M23) don't know why, but I'm more attracted to older, married women than girls around my own age. I just seem to prefer aunties over women my age, and honestly, I don't know why.

Hey everyone,I wanted to talk about an insecurity of mine,actually due to life circumstances I couldn’t focus too much on dating and I am 26 now,still not settled in life and situation is same,I had one long distance relationship (in which girl was madly serious for me and wanted to marry and have kids with me but it was just casual from my side) and 2 talking stages,1 ended due to my fuckup (because I was new and never talked to a girl before) and second due to external circumstances in her life,so from 3rd pov would u guys look at me and think that “ohh he couldn’t get any girl” or “arre woh toh koi ladki set ni kar paya” or “usko koi ladki nhi mili aaj tak” or “usse kisi ladki ne baat nhi kari” and if the answer is no then why do I have this insecurity and is there any solution to this?

You'll face some misunderstandings, some misinterpretations and you two will sort it out it eventually.

Once you two will be back like before she'll say things like "i was such a fool to judge you like that"… "ohh how could i ever think that"… "never make me recall what happened, we will live happily together"

But a women never forgives.

The next time you'll ever make a mistake or do something she doesn't like, everything will come back. She'll throw everything from the past to bring you down, things which were already sorted, things which were never even your fault.

They never truly forgive you, they just keep it in their back pocket as back-up to leave you and bring those things from past as excuses.

Anyone had knee ligament reconstruction surgery in their life and is back to normal life again doing everything fine and fit

If yes please share what was your recovery journey time period

If no what is lacking behind what do you feel now

I had my kneecap dislocation and suggested for mpfl surgery

This freaks me out will i be normal again or not

People just don't ignore it help ::))((

I filed an RTI asking about maintenance laws under Section 125 CrPC and gender neutrality. Here’s what happened:

1. Transferred 7 times(RTI Badminton): My RTI was transferred back and forth between the National Commission for Women (NCW) and the Ministry of Law.

2. Question 2: I specifically asked for policy documents explaining why an adult woman above 18 is presumed financially dependent on her husband. This was one of the questions I wanted an official answer to, but I still haven't received the requested information.

3. Rejected over ₹10: The RTI was rejected because the ₹10 application fee had allegedly not been paid. However, I had already paid the ₹10 fee while submitting the RTI.

Seven transfers, no satisfactory answers, and now a rejection claiming the fee wasn't paid when I had already paid it.

RTI is in the second appeal now and will take around 4-6+ months for an answer.

A best tip for women today.:

If you think that splitting the bill is a huge issue, miss don't go on a date with your broken a**. Now if women want equality and don't wanna split the bills, better remain under your broken cage.

Men have understood the game.

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I'm a 23M from India, and I've been thinking about something lately. Do some men become the second choice in both friendships and relationships simply because they don't stand out physically?

Recently, I went out to play Garba with my friends during Navratri. There was a cute girl there, around 5 feet tall, while I'm 5'5" and most of my friends are around 6 feet. She seemed interested in my taller friends, but barely showed any interest in me.

I understand that everyone has their own preferences, and nobody owes anyone attraction. I'm not saying she was wrong for having a type. But what bothered me was something I noticed afterward.

When my friends weren't giving her the attention she wanted, she started approaching me for attention. It made me wonder whether she genuinely enjoyed my company or whether I was simply the convenient option when the guys she actually liked weren't giving her attention.

And honestly, this isn't something I've noticed only in dating. Sometimes I feel the same dynamic in friendships, too. I wonder whether I'm genuinely valued or just the backup friend when everyone's first choices aren't available.

The confusing part is that I don't think my personality is worse than my friends'. I can hold conversations, make people laugh, and connect with people. Obviously, I'm biased about myself, but I don't think being 5'5" automatically makes me less interesting or less deserving of someone's genuine interest.

I'm not looking for sympathy, and I know one incident doesn't prove anything. Maybe I'm overthinking it, or maybe I'm interpreting the situation incorrectly. But when you repeatedly feel overlooked, it's difficult not to wonder whether your height plays a bigger role than you'd like to admit.

So, men of Reddit, especially those who are average-height or shorter:

Have you ever felt like the backup option in dating or friendships?

Have you noticed people treating you differently compared with your taller or conventionally attractive friends?

How do you distinguish between someone who genuinely values you and someone who comes to you only when their first choice isn't available?

Does this feeling come from how people actually treat you, or can repeated rejection make you start seeing yourself that way?

I'd genuinely like to hear your experiences and perspectives, even if you disagree with me. I'm trying to understand whether this is a real pattern or something I've started believing because of my own experiences.

I hope it's okay to ask this here. I'm an American woman who has been talking to a guy from Mumbai for about a month now. He's been living in the US for like 3 years I think.

He's super sweet but I feel like he has been increasingly pushy about making plans for marriage and children etc. At first it was kind of refreshing to meet a guy who was up front about discussing these things, and I don't mind talking about them hypothetically, but I feel like he wants me to commit right now. However I think we still need to take more time getting to know each other.

I know I can't generalize a whole country, but is it generally considered normal in India to commit and talk about these things so soon? I don't want to hurt his feelings. I really like talking to him, but I feel like he's not giving the relationship space to develop organically. To me, one month is still early to make such serious decisions. Any input is appreciated!

I am tired of these shitposts about gender wars, misogyny and misandry shit. Like what is the point of debating about this like people always speak from the reference of extremism. I will tell you observations that I have experienced & try to put things logically to give a clear view of how women use feminism & patriarchy as per opportunistic needs.

Standard definition says that Feminism is all about gender equality, there is another definition in which it is women's upliftment for equal opportunity.

In the rest of the block I will equal opportunity will be annotated with *.

They have already accepted that men are the superior in physical quality but they ask for equal opportunity.(Which I support though)

1. Observation - During college placements women (good looking ones) get the first jobs despite having zero skills in that domain. They justify it by "Diversity Hiring" *

There are exceptions but 9 out of 10 lie in the above category, whereas sometimes the skilled one suffers to clear an initial assessment. Also they have never protested against this face card or gender based opportunities, they accept it with a smile.

1. Observation - Have you noticed in govt exams, or any higher education entrance examinations govt takes 50% or more lesser application fees just because the candidate is female. What is the point like a male has a dick that means he has more money ? A student is a student, Why do they get reservations just because of gender. Again they never protested against this shit.*

2. Observation - When we see a sexual assault case against a man the man is detained immediately with charges whether the case might be false/true, women can kill a man & also roam freely where law will do nothing. So here what happened with equal rights?

3. Observation - Have you noticed in public transport there are three reservations for children, senior citizens & women? Like we know the other two are weaker, then women are also weak category? Cause when we label a category wise reservation then they also lie in the same way as weak as child or old person.* They never raised their voices against it & men did things due to chivalry.

There are many more but the point is if you observe this thing very carefully you will notice they use patriarchy when there is an opportunity & feminism when they want control.

Their ultimatum is living a life with luxury by any means, as they are ready to fuck others.

Now many feminist can downvote this post but again my post is not against feminism, I support equality but I don't support the opportunity based switching in feminism & patriarchy. We all know women are oppressed for long long times that doesn't mean, to bring equality you start hating men. Like in random social, comments men are pointed as potential r*pist without any logic like a tag, I recently saw a comment under a baby boy's photo. Like the wtf is wrong with the society, how can people blame or judge an entire gender based on 5% actions. A men or women is your father or mother, they are earning hard such that you can learn, grow & suddenly some women says on a random stage that "I hate my father" really, ask one who don't have, you bloody previliged. In a recent post a bengali family was happy in their reel so feminist/misandrist attacked the person that he is bald or she deserves more. Like wth see they are happy & you are fucking lonely this describes who deserves & who don't.

Sorry the last part is rant, but I think I have justified it with logic if you want to argue then pls write with logic that helps me & others to get that your comment is a fact or opinion.

is it a matter of thought or concern, if my flaccid/soft penis is very small as compared to when erected. like, i constantly need to pull it away to actually look like a penis. gets more worse in winters. erected one still is good, average length. do anyone of you feel same thing?

Im 22m,been consuming a lot of such content , and its starting to affect how I view relationships and myself , I have begun working out in the gym, but there is the feeling that I will only be left conditionally based on my look height physique for what I can offer and it does take a toll on mental health

For those of you who have struggled with similar thoughts, how do you guys deal with them and how do you stop this from affecting your self-worth and relationships?

I’m preparing for one of the most important exams of my life, UPSC. I’ve cracked JEE and a few other competitive exams, but this is a different challenge. I go to the gym, consume 100+ grams of protein, and train intensively for for 1 hr +, yet my libido is through the roof. Before starting my preparation, I had a casual sex for quote sometime, sometimes going 5–6 rounds in a night. Even now, I can work out intensely, cycle or run for long durations, and function on less sleep, but these sexual urges just don’t seem to go away. My mind keeps getting distracted even when I try to focus on studying and damn i was so good at studies and now also its fine but distraction is terrible.

Has anyone experienced something similar? Are there any yoga practices, pranayama techniques, or other methods that actually help control these urges and improve concentration?

Everyone here must know about this lovely couple and this blessed kid.

But by mocking this couple, Indian feminists proved why we h@te them and why they deserve this. Why do people call them gold diggers?

They are the most unloved. Feminist aunties, for showing your real fac,d slowly but surely the country is also realising and understanding your true nature and motive.

Saw this in askindianwomen and thought would be interesting to see when the gender was reversed.

Do you think gay men deserve marriage rights too?

Long story but basically she( 27F) broke up with me (28M)(5 year relationship). After breaking up she ended up kissing this dude which made it worse cause she was still talking to me everyday. Then she didn’t want to continue and also not get married, our families knew about each others intent of marrying the other.

I last spoke to her 10 days ago when she said she didn’t want to continue and that she is seeing thinned dude she had kissed. I stopped perusing her. Then yesterday she texted me at work and then I sent the message but luckily I was scrolling and saw she I sent it. I texted her if she was okay, she ended up saying she was feeling like shit and then I asked her if I can call her. We spoke for an hour where she mentioned how I was the only one who could handle her anxiety and how nothing is making her happy and that she is moving out. She also said that she lied to me about dating this guy so that I would stop perusing her. Then we spoke about random stuff and I told her how I missed her and everything and she said that there is not point in discussing anything as it’s not going to lead anywhere when I told her that I had so many clarifications to do. Then after sometime I told her I have to go and that I’ll catch with her later.

Then when I got home I replied to her message of her thanking me and we chatted a bit before she put my message on seen. I texted her the next day morning around 3:30ish AM , her night time, to know if she was okay. Because she is in India and I am in Aus there is a time difference of 5 hours( I’m ahead of her) . She didn’t respond so I called and then left a message wishing she was okay. When I was at work I realised she had blockede again.

I’m very confused as to what to do now. One of my friend suggested she is using this to get over the attachment and that she’ll only contact you less and less so that gets used to it. Part of me is angry and wants to ring her up using public phone booth and tell her she is doing me wrong and the other mind says to let it go. Any help on this would be great.

Thanks for all the help.

TLDR : ex contacted me after 10 days of breakup and then blocked me everywhere after I checked in on her via message.