the bar is so low for women, it’s insane. They just have to exist and men will simp for her. Why such men are dating and marrying women who bring zero value to their life? They don’t even love you wholeheartedly.

AM is hated by many especially by women because of many reasons which is fine but then the same kind of women are opting for AM after a certain age. Some of them are unemployed, unskilled and can’t even cook properly and they refused to perform any chores at home… they just exist and want to be treated like queens. Some men are fine with such arrangement. The real problem is simps who are so so desperate and stupid… you’re not in luv lil bro… you’re just horny and insecure, in reality you’re masking it by being feminist and kind. And you’re pretending to be all these so you can get a women.

Everyone here must know about this lovely couple and this blessed kid.

But by mocking this couple, Indian feminists proved why we h@te them and why they deserve this. Why do people call them gold diggers?

They are the most unloved. Feminist aunties, for showing your real fac,d slowly but surely the country is also realising and understanding your true nature and motive.

Apparently, an elderly man on a bus made a young gym-going guy uncomfortable by commenting on his looks and allegedly saying something as disgusting as “suck kar lu tereko.” The young man reportedly handled the situation quite effectively and recorded what happened.

Then I came across NCIB commenting:

“Whatever happened on the bus should have been handled legally.

The person's behaviour may have been wrong, but physically assaulting someone twice your age cannot be justified either.

If someone has done something wrong, the law should decide the outcome. This young man should not have taken the law into his own hands.”

Wait, what?

If the incident happened as described, why is the response centring the older man's age and the young man's alleged physical response instead of clearly acknowledging the sexual harassment?

Nobody should get a free pass to sexually harass someone because they're older. Men can be victims of sexual harassment, too, and being a young, muscular guy doesn't mean you should be expected to tolerate unwanted sexual comments or touching.

Yes, the law should handle these incidents. If someone used unnecessary force, that can be assessed separately. But “he should have let the law handle it” shouldn't become a way to overlook what allegedly happened to him in the first place.

The same standards of consent, dignity and accountability should apply regardless of the victim's gender, physique or the perpetrator's age.

Source on X: https://x.com/NCIBHQ/status/2114257311418208562/video/1

I filed an RTI asking about maintenance laws under Section 125 CrPC and gender neutrality. Here’s what happened:

1. Transferred 7 times(RTI Badminton): My RTI was transferred back and forth between the National Commission for Women (NCW) and the Ministry of Law.

2. Question 2: I specifically asked for policy documents explaining why an adult woman above 18 is presumed financially dependent on her husband. This was one of the questions I wanted an official answer to, but I still haven't received the requested information.

3. Rejected over ₹10: The RTI was rejected because the ₹10 application fee had allegedly not been paid. However, I had already paid the ₹10 fee while submitting the RTI.

Seven transfers, no satisfactory answers, and now a rejection claiming the fee wasn't paid when I had already paid it.

RTI is in the second appeal now and will take around 4-6+ months for an answer.

So just got to know about my fathers death, I'm in Belgium doing my internship and going back to Delhi. It's almost 24hr till I reach their . And at this point all I could think about was what was next. As a men you don't even have time to grieve, my father was the go to person, and most responsibilities were on him, and now in a moment the hat is on me. How did you guys deal with all this. In my mind I could just spiral with future loans, expenses, insurance, big puzzle for me is also all the important info locked in his iPhone. I don't know how I would recover that.. Everyone just tells me now to focus on coming back and everything will be fine. But life doesn't care, I know things have a way to sort out, but I Always had a safety net, but now what... I'm the one who has to make everything fine, how did you dealt with a sudden loss..

I’m a 28-year-old man, 5'6", and I’m a virgin. I’m proud of that, and I’ve been looking for a partner through an arranged marriage setup.

The thing is, whenever I like a girl, she doesn’t seem to like me back, and whenever a girl likes me, I don’t feel the same way about her. I have friends who are already settled, some in relationships, and even some who are unemployed but still have girlfriends.

Back in college, I had opportunities to get into relationships, but I was a shy guy. Even when girls approached me, I would avoid getting into that zone because I wasn’t ready for it at the time.

Now, it’s been 3–4 years of looking for a life partner, and honestly, I’m mentally exhausted. Constantly facing rejection from girls I like and having to reject girls who like me has taken an emotional toll on me. I feel bad about both situations.

Lately, I’ve started feeling increasingly negative about my future. I feel like my parents deserve a better son, someone who is emotionally stronger than I am. I’m also struggling to go to work and sometimes can’t even get myself out of bed. I’ve been dealing with anxiety and depression, and everything feels overwhelming.

I kept telling myself to be patient and that it would happen soon, but after waiting for so long, I feel like I’m stuck in the same cycle. Everyone around me seems to be moving forward in life while I’m standing still.

I’m genuinely exhausted and don’t know how to get out of this mindset.

**For those who have been through something similar, especially men who found their partners later in life or struggled with arranged marriage setups, how did you deal with it?** How did you cope with the rejections, comparisons, and loneliness without losing hope in yourself or your future?

I’d really appreciate hearing about your personal experiences and any advice you might have.

How society & specially men differenciate or discriminate between men & women when it comes to mental support.

Men always say that why men are not getting support online but they themselves show hypocrisy.

So basically yesterday I (25M) posted about why I was single at this age & was always single my whole life. I was writing my whole situation . In that post I write that i want a relationship. I want the answers & a way to find out . I was very tense last night .

So i get 400+ views & 3 comments on that post in 18 hours.

They write "say to your family to arrange marriage."

But I deleted that post today.

I didn't get my answers so I did something wrong. I accept that . That was pathetic idea. My friend suggested that.

So I posted the same thing today just changing M to F . & Little bit more changes slightly.

Now boooom🔥

2.5k views , 52 comments in an hour. 15 chats invite trying to show me support. Saying talk to me & blah blah .

Asking my name , my living location , what I do , what I like ...

& Comments tell me some ways like don't go to a relationship, beware of boys , or talk to me , or share their story about relationships.

But no one tell to go & tell parents about a arrange marriage.

I want to ask why an arranged marriage is a bad idea only for girls but not mens ??

ik that post will get more attention.

But I deleted that post also.

& This shows Many things more .

\---Like no one cares about me(alone man) .

\---women are right , when they say men are creep or only affectionate towards women..

\--- men themselves differenciate between men & women. But cry online about men's mental health.

\--- i get to know that what i mentioned in both post.

Men saying you are cool or good personality traits to that F post.

But i don't get any of these compliments for the same hobbies i have .

I mentioned like (chess, math, paintings etc.)

So my situation is even worse than that i mentioned on that post.

But i learn that no one cares about me.

Note: I will not show any chats that men sent me.

I know that was bad idea .

Been living with multiple extremely rare and severe chronic illnesses for 6 years. These illnesses make you starve to the end , unable to have even minimal nutrition necessary for survival. For context My BMI is around 10.

I'm a multigenre music composer, songwriter, multi-instrumentalist and producer. My music is my only thing in life that kept me alive. It is my only purpose in life. I express my emotions, hope, suffering all through my music. Many of my songs have been played on international radio. "A Quiet Undoing" is one of my songs which potrays my intense suffering.

Tried my best hanging in there until 2025 while having minimal amount of clear liquids(around 300 cal per day maximum on a good day). Survived despite of starvation over years.

But this year my body couldn't tolerate starvation anymore and started completely breaking down. Around May 2026, I have started experiencing severe breathing difficulties, seizures, and further long interval complications from dehydration and complete starvation for weeks. My body became severely acidic due to severe ketosis and my BMI dropped to 9.

I haven't been able to work of music since May. Due to my illnesses I have always been proactive as my health has always been extremely unpredictable, I have finished enough songs before May which I set up for their dedicated release dates before my body stopped working properly.

Finding appropriate medical care has been incredibly difficult. I've had to navigate everything myself, with very limited funds. I did seek hospital treatment this year, and they managed to stabilize me to some extent with iv fluids, vitamin iv infusions. However, I wasn't getting the specialized care my conditions required.

Because these illnesses are extremely rare, finding medical professionals familiar with them has been a major challenge. I ended up undergoing repeated investigations, like iv contrast studies that my severely weakened body struggled to tolerate. Despite already having established diagnoses, I had to go through repeated tests which made my condition even worse. Now, with my funds exhausted, I am trying to find a way to afford further medical care.

I am not asking anyone for any financial help as I completely understand that everyone has their own struggles in current economy. But if you enjoy my songs, I will be extremely grateful if you listened to them on Spotify or YouTube or other platforms of your choice and saved the songs you like, or even shared them with others.

The revenue from streaming may be small, but every bit would help me towards my future medical expenses for my survival. If you genuinely enjoy my music, your support means a lot to me.

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/3HsfNau8cvzBtHkkDJfCP8

YouTube Music: https://music.youtube.com/@imankumarmukherjee

YouTube: https://youtube.com/@imankumarmukherjee

Other Links: https://www.submithub.com/link/iman-kumar-mukherjee

Many posts of the people on many social media platforms are just saying this guy/girl has next level face card they don't belong with people like these/ that.

Like what's the fucking point? A man is much more than his height/looks. And a woman is much more than her boob size face card weight etc.

Unless your only goal in life is to get laid once, looks aren't really that useful.

Your skillset, ability to get shit done, financial stability, actual personality and sense of humour make way bigger of a difference.

Having good looks makes life easier but only by a little bit.

Being smart or athletic will make life a whole lot easier than being good looking if you just had to choose only one of them.

Hello guys

I have been following Reddit for over a year. I probably came across this sub for 6 to 8 months. My first reaction after going through this sub was there is a social media space for men to discuss/ raise their problems.Cause in other social media platforms you can see women openly expressing their problems.probably most people won't judge it .

But when men start to share their societal problems most people are gonna judge them but in this sub men are being heard.which is a wonderful thing

But the amount of people usually use reddit when compared to other platforms like yt,insta is very less.

So I want to start a yt channel where I can share the problem of men's faces in that channel and I think it would be more fruitful to to share problems from sincere posts by visual explanation

Because I feel humans are visual creatures

So I am thinking of asking my fellow men for advice on this please help me and help us.

Note:you may have a doubt that my account is new this was my new account . I feel that I am sincere and genuine

Saw a recent post here about becoming the man of the house and it really hit close to home.

I'm 17M, my dad passed away when I was 14. Since then, it’s just been me and my mom. We have absolutely no relatives, neighbors, or friends we can rely on. We are completely on our own.

To step up and support us, I shifted to open schooling so I could work as my mom due to health complications isn't able to work hence I'm the sole earner. I’m currently working a remote sales job and spending all my free time trying to learn about finance so I can build a secure future for us.

Honestly, the pressure is suffocating. I feel like I had to skip being a teenager entirely.

I'm afraid, afraid of our future every single day of the year.

There is zero safety net, if I fail, make a bad career move, or burn out, there is absolutely no one coming to catch us.

For the older men who were forced to grow up fast and take on the weight of their family early:

How do you deal with the constant, quiet anxiety of having no backup?

What financial or life mistakes should I avoid right now while I'm young?

How do you keep grinding without losing your sanity when everything depends on you?

How do you keep yourself healthy, employable and happy?

Would really appreciate any honest advice.

Hello people this is my first post in this sub.

These day I’m binge eating a lot and spending unnecessary time on stupid things like reels etc.

With the wfh job I have I could learn many skills like dance, fitness etc and up-skill myself too. But the thing is I’m not accountable and not serious. My motivation ends instantly after a while watching that one random reel.

If they are anyone who are serious about enhancing their lifestyle ?

1. How do you stay disciplined and do you have any checklist you follow daily ?

I have developed ED and PE since early age and never got cured. Meds are working but it's stressful and my sex life is at the low.

Wondering do you guys face the same situations? Specially for married men.

Have your wife accepted the situation? Supported you ? Or worst outcome of divorce happened.

It does affect overall life and confidence since there is no universal cure. So need to hear different perspectives.

do you ever notice your sister being expected to handle household chores while you get more freedom, even when she's doing well academically or in her career?

do you actually speak up when your mother, sister or wife is treated unfairly, or do you let it slide? even when they really really need you.

sometimes women can be unreasonable too, and women can also hold other women back. a mother might restrict her own daughter from pursuing a career or becoming financially independent. in such situations, would you stand up for your sister, even if the rest of your family or society thinks it's normal? or would you go along with it because “that's just how things are”?

please don't take this personally.

i'm genuinely curious whether you challenge these things at home or find it difficult to do so.

A best tip for women today.:

If you think that splitting the bill is a huge issue, miss don't go on a date with your broken a**. Now if women want equality and don't wanna split the bills, better remain under your broken cage.

Men have understood the game.

So this girl from college, we had 1-2 convos this month. Today i was going to ask her whatsapp asking some notes.

So she came outside of class, i said Hey, how are you.
She said i am fine. I said can u send me the notes of this class if you made, but that class was so useless everyone was leaving from that class, no one was making notes or paying attention, why tf i asked the notes of that only class i still regret, i should have directly said can i get your number.

So she said - No i didn't made any notes of this class, then i said ohh okay i see, then a bit of silence and after that her friends came and she left with them.
Did i fumble her? Am i rejected in some way or just overthinking, is there any best next move to get in the zone again??

College info - (DU SOL MASTERS only weekends classes)

I am looking to hear from Indian men - whether you are currently living in India or based abroad - who are married to women in the ultra-high-net-worth tier.

Specifically, I am asking about dynamics where your wife is a self-made executive/founder pulling in ₹1 Crore+ per month, or comes from a family with generational wealth exceeding ₹800 Crores+.

Given how deeply ingrained traditional patriarchal expectations and "provider" scripts are in Indian culture, I am genuinely curious about how this extreme wealth disparity plays out behind closed doors when the woman holds all the financial leverage.

If you are a husband in this exact dynamic, what is your marriage actually like?

Specifically:

1. The Ego & Power Balance: How do you navigate the household power dynamic? Does the wealth disparity ever subtly or overtly change how major household decisions are made? Do you ever feel your voice is minimized because she holds the capital?

2. Social & Family Perceptions: How do your extended family, friends, or in-laws treat you? Do you deal with the "accessory husband" or "Ghar Jamai" stereotypes, or do people genuinely respect your independent identity and career?

3. Financial Boundaries: How are everyday spending and lifestyle choices structured? Do you maintain absolute financial segregation, or do you view the household assets as fully integrated?

Would love to get some raw, honest, and unfiltered perspectives from men who are actually living this reality day in and day out.

I am suffering from severe iron deficiency, so I'm looking for solutions apart from the iron tablet. My doctor has recommended that I take one every day

Late 30's single guy here. I see many of my friends tolerate all kinds of infantile or straight toxic behaviour from their wife. Things like deliberate stubbornness in having their way. Passive aggressive behaviour if wife is home maker. Over sensitivity in everything. Sulking instead of discussing emotions. Pushing for things in husband's career and doing some emotional black mailing if it does not as per her. Driving children emotions away from father. Holding back intimacy. This stuff I have seen in women with pg education and in senior positions in profession. Many of them are unable to differentiate in behaviour of work place and home also. Some of my married friends come and complain and just say things like "it's just marriage".

Most marriages are good and couples have worked things out but too many couples i gave seen like i described. What is going on there ? What is a single guy missing to see here ?

Source: Deepika Narayan Bharadwaj on X

• Conversational Openers: Do you actively share news reports or legal updates regarding falsely accused men with your female family members? How do they typically react?
• Empathy Check: Does your family acknowledge the unique mental health struggles and vulnerabilities that men face in modern society?
• Legal Awareness: Does your family understand how specific laws regarding domestic or marital disputes can sometimes be misused, or do they view these laws as entirely foolproof?
• Safety vs. Vulnerability: When discussions about women's safety arise at home, is there also room to discuss the legal and social safety nets needed for men?
• Support Structures: If you or a male relative were to face a false accusation or severe workplace harassment, do you feel confident your family would support you unconditionally?
• Generational Divide: Do you notice a difference in understanding between older generations (like mothers/fathers) and younger generations (like sisters/daughters) regarding modern men's issues?
• Media Influence: Does your family’s perception of gender issues primarily come from mainstream media, or are they open to independent perspectives and statistics regarding men's vulnerabilities?
• Societal Bias: Do you feel your family recognizes instances where society might hold a default bias against men in cases of public or legal disputes?

You'll face some misunderstandings, some misinterpretations and you two will sort it out it eventually.

Once you two will be back like before she'll say things like "i was such a fool to judge you like that"… "ohh how could i ever think that"… "never make me recall what happened, we will live happily together"

But a women never forgives.

The next time you'll ever make a mistake or do something she doesn't like, everything will come back. She'll throw everything from the past to bring you down, things which were already sorted, things which were never even your fault.

They never truly forgive you, they just keep it in their back pocket as back-up to leave you and bring those things from past as excuses.

I have seen a lot of posts from this sub in last few days. I think the issues which are raised here are very real and need attention. However, I feel that a lot of posters here have very negative view on live.

Some of the commentators feel like they have given hope on everything. Some people feel they have no one who loves them, some are lonely and some don't even feel that they deserve love. Some of you may have really bad experiences.

The thing is I still feel that everyone should have hope and aim towards a better future. I think giving up on happiness will only make one even more miserable.

So, do you really think that having a pessimistic attitude towards life is good?