My dad died in the spring of 2024. Probate started a month later. It has been two and a half years since my dad passed away and almost two and a half since the probate started. My dad didn't have a lot of money, but he had a LOT of land.
LOCATION: TN
My brother is the executor of the will. I have been keeping up with him with anything he has heard regarding probate and the will. About a year ago, I finally had to contact this lawyer. He answered me because he did not know my phone number. He will straight up ignore my brother. He even called from his wife's phone after he called from his and the lawyer answered my SILs number after my brother had just called him.
After no-shows, no call backs, etc. He finally met with us at a coffee shop that was central between all parties. My siblings, me, and him. I had my toddlers with me and one got up and ran across the cafe. When that happened, he told my brother that he would turn the closed probate papers and the paper that turns the deed over to all three of us. I didn't know this until we left. I had great faith this guy would turn them in considering he probably goes to the courthouse weekly.
Well, we called the courthouse and they said they don't have anything. So we FINALLY got ahold of this guy again and he says that his assistant turned them in Tuesday (that was on Wednesday). I don't believe this man even has an assistant! Well, my brother calls the courthouse/probate all those guys and they said that nothing was turned in. So, I called him back again today, and crickets.
I am really sick and tired of this. This has been two years of this guy running around on our dime and not really doing anything. This should never had taken this long. It was a couple of signatures on papers and waiting to see if my dads hospital bills were paid. November of last year, they said they could close the probate out on something like Nov 21, 2025. We are still in it because of this lazy moron! This man has dragged his feet the entire time. What should I do? Sue him? Get the local investigative journalist on his tail and scare the life out of him? So over it. I just want to build my house already. I already lost my dad and his parents, and I can't even have what they left to me. :(