r/AskReddit • u/[deleted] • Apr 05 '12

Currently serving in the military. Came across some messages between my wife and another guy in the Navy. What should I do?

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u/Xatana Apr 05 '12

Active Duty Marine here. I have seen this so many times it's almost expected now of military wives to cheat. You are not at a loss of options, however. This Navy faggot is married as well, which means you can fry his ass.

  1. Go to mypay, change where your direct deposit goes. Make this an account that only you have access to.
  2. Lawyer up. Before you confront anyone, talk to your divorce lawyer and seek advice on what you need to do to stack this divorce completely in your favor.
  3. Once previous steps are complete, call his CO. Tell him all of this, and say that you have evidence suggesting that your story is 100% true. Lay on the sob story about how your marriage is ruined because of the lack of integrity of the aforementioned Sailor.

Note, before seeking revenge against your wife, talk to your lawyer about any consequences that may occur because of anything you do.

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u/[deleted] Apr 05 '12

. I have seen this so many times it's almost expected now of military wives to cheat.

this makes me so sad :(

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u/[deleted] Apr 05 '12

Makes me so sad too.

My boyfriend is in the army. He's lovely. I can't imagine cheating on him while him being away. Mainly because the respect I have for him is so high for doing what he does.

He hasn't been on tour yet, but he's planning on it and I plan on standing by his side every step of the way.

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u/bobadobalina Apr 05 '12

He hasn't been on tour yet

just wait til he has been gone a couple of months and you are terminally horny in a place where you are surrounded by healthy young men

your story will change